Good bye

I have been keeping AS from my wife cause she is totally
against it.She has found out before and gave me one last
chance.Today she got on the board and read all my post
she is leaving me tonight.I have decited to say good bye
to all of you & AS I will miss both but my wife means
more to me than anything.
tinman
kjo lymta

Doesn't seem fair to me. But that's me. My x knew but that's not why she left.
Alternatives? You either love me and support me and trust me or you don't.

wow...honesty is always best but for someone to leave their sig other over AS???that is bullshit....she obviously is closed minded and doesnt deserve you....have u tried educating her??good luck with all u do.

Man sorry to hear that. Good luck hope you can come back

You have to do what you have to do. She is obviously uneducated though. Best of luck with everything.

Good luck w/everything and try to educate her, I had to do my ex girl like that...

SORRY MAN, GOOD LUCK WITH THE WIFE

this is from the wife..

I am educated about AS, I am also educated on how my husband acts when he is taking them. I am the one who has to live the the raging and the massive mood swings. I told him if he chooses to do steroids, I can not live with him. I guess steroids won. I hope he is happy with his choice...

go to the doc-get a scrip for test-save an empty test vial and make your own blend(whatever your stack is)-then your just injecting what a doc prescribed-once she gets used to that add an oral on the sly and your set!! educate her slowly-pros and cons-and if she is reading this please realize that anabolic steroids are simply a chemical signal your body uses everyday-we simply amplify that signal for optimum protein synthesis-we are simply making the engine more efficent!!If you don't have kids be careful-now its AAS-later its golf,your friends,your job, or anything that takes your time.Good Luck!

"raging massive mood swings"-perhaps we are being a little melodramatic?-and what about your monthly "mood swings"-yea its easy to blame all the issues on AS but lets be honest-on or off training puts a strain on your system and can result in "moodiness"-also-how is it women can "need a little time to myself" or "I just need to be left alone for a while" and thats fine-men on AS say that after a gruelling bone-crushing workout and suddenly we are "moody"-you keep on badgering us-we get upset and its roid rage-I think its all crap-if you love him-stick by him-make sure hes using safely-support him and you'll see the "mood swings" go away!!(yours and his!!)

best of luck to you both.

tinman said:

this is from the wife..

I am educated about AS, I am also educated on how my husband acts when he is taking them. I am the one who has to live the the raging and the massive mood swings. I told him if he chooses to do steroids, I can not live with him. I guess steroids won. I hope he is happy with his choice...

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I see your point....... it does make sense.............. i agree 100%.....
the problem thought... there are 2 sides to every story..........
u see u have mood swings also........ maybe not as big as your husbands..... but every single women has them..... men have to except it, and live with it.............. I don't know much about your husband, but if u love him, or loved him, you should see the passion he has for weighlifting,bodybuilding, whatever.........
understanding is everything......... I know how it feels to have
As in your system........ rage, mood swings, can all be controlled..... u see it makes me very sad to see that you are leaving your husband, the man you married(married)...... why???
then? u must love him....................... Sorry maybe i very wrong....... But love is love...... and understanding each other is everything..

bro...I am very sorry that you are going through this right now...I am truly sorry, I think that you and your wife needs to sit down and just talk about it....that's all...and be civil with each other....good luck bro...and to your wife..I wish u all the best of luck...

good luck

Damn that's HARSH! Let me give you my perspective. My wife was also very upset when she found out, but she also loves me very much and listened when I explained to her my side. She still doesn't agree totally with it but knows I would never do anything to harm myself or her. Now I never had any mood swings, and that would be a definite issue for anyone. But it doesn't sound like there is any physical abuse and it doesn't sound like he is hawking the childrens toys to pay for it. It just seems very extreme to leave somebody you MARRIED because he is moody now and again. FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE!!!! Good luck.

Sorry Bro if she is leaving she is lying to you and herself when blaiming the juice. The problem runs deeper. Good luck to you, hope you end up happy.

THE WIFE AGAIN...

IT WOULD BE DIFFERENT IF HE ACTUALLY WENT TO THE GYM AND WORKED OUT. HE WANTS TO DO IT THE EASY WAY. HE HASN'T BEEN TO THE GYM IN OVER 3 MONTHS. - THE FIRST TIME I FOUND OUT HE WAS DOING STEROIDS, THERE WAS PHYSICAL VIOLENCE. I LEFT AT THAT POINT AND HE BEGGED ME TO COME BACK PROMISING THAT HE WOULD NEVER USE AGAIN. NEEDLESS TO SAY THIS IS THE THIRD TIME SINCE THEN THAT I'VE CAUGHT HIM USING AND EACH TIME HE PROMISED NEVER TO DO IT AGAIN. THAT NEVER LASTED VERY LONG. FOR HIM TO LIE AND SNEAK BEHIND MY BACK AND SPEND "OUR" MONEY ON SOMETHING LIKE THAT MAKES ME LOSE ALL TRUST IN HIM. IT WOULD BE DIFFERENT IF THIS WAS THE FIRST TIME THIS HAS HAPPENED, BUT IT'S THE FOURTH. ONCE YOU LOSE TRUST, YOU NEVER GET IT BACK. SO, YOU SEE, THIS IS MORE ABOUT TRUST AND HONESTY THAN ANYTHING ELSE. I LOVE HIM MORE THAN LIFE, BUT, I DON'T TRUST HIM AND I NEVER WILL AGAIN. AS FOR THE RAGING - HOW MANY OF THE REST OF YOU GO TO THE EXTREME OF PUNCHING OUT YOUR CAR WINDSHIELD WHEN YOU GET ANGRY? THIS IS A COMMON THING FOR HIM. I AM AFRAID TO RIDE IN THE CAR WITH HIM BECAUSE HIS ROAD RAGE IS OUT OF CONTROL, AND THIS IS WITHOUT STEROIDS. WITH THEM IS IS EVEN WORSE. AT THIS POINT I CAN'T TAKE IT ANY MORE. ENOUGH IS ENOUGH. IF DOING STEROIDS MEANS THAT MUCH TO HIM, I HOPE HE IS HAPPY. BUT, I CAN'T STAND BESIDE HIM THROUGH IT ANYMORE.

sorry to hear

...hope all works out for you man...

I see your point there WIFE....I am sorry to hear that....but I disagree with you on the trust....u might lose trust, but u just need to think about it.....this is the man that you love...right? well then show it a little, and say honey I am sorry....if he told u that he was going to quit and still does it...then that's another thing....but u all need to sit down and talk about it.....obviously....I agree with it's hard to get trust back I agree with you there....but it takes time to get that trust back..it's not going to happen overnight or next week...it's hard, and when u don't trust someone....then u can't love that person.....so u have to trust him...that he is trying to work it out...Your husband is crazy about you obviously...and wants to work it out.....if he loves you and is crazy about you.....then what else more do u want...I see your point about the "OUR" money.....part......I see that....however just be civil..and talk to him..about it.... ...just read about it...trust me...read on here..and u will see..Yes I agree with GANDER.....for better or for worse!!!! but u know what....give the guy a break....he is trying!!!

sorry to hear bro, but if she loves you she will stay with u, as long as your rage isn't to the point of you beating her, or causing family problems. if that is the case then you have a problem that both of you need to work through, its like alcolhalism, if it causes major problems then its not worth it. however, if your the acassionally asshole every now and then, well, like i said if she loves you, she will be with you. personally, i'm glad i finally broke down and told my wife. i figure my gear is no worse than her diet pills. i mean she can be a very ill women when on those things, however, i love her and support her, and hopes she does me as well. she doesn't like the fact of me taking gear, but as long as it does not cause problems at home, or i'm taking money that we don't have and blowing it i think she understands. every now and then she may blame one of our argument on roids, but, she knows deep down that im happier on gear (because of results) she normally gets more close to wear because i feel bad about spending the money, the sex is great, although she bithches about cleaning my back. its a give and take. set her down talk to her, and try to reason with her. thankfully my wife may not like it but she loves me and stands by me, and i feel the same about her. best of luck bro..........