lifting partner and AS

ok this may b long but......here is the deal......my lifting partner doesnt know that i have used AS b4 until recently ...sort of... well the intersting part...ok...he is dating my ex gf and we talk alot, he is real insecure about their relationship and always checkin up on her and sometimes me i guess....the relationship between them kinda sux for me cuz i am kinda torn between 2 people but i did give them my blessing and all, and who am i to tell someone they cant date??but that is over and done with.
well...onto his insecurity issues, well my ex and i talk on the puter whenever we r both online, well we were talkin the other nite and she was at his house and his puter froze up and she had to shut it down and didnt get 2 logout, well so he starts his computer the next day and low and behold he magically logs into her email account...ok...honest mistake right?? well...he could have just signed her out and that would have been the end of it but...nope..he proceeds to look at her emails and happens to find one that i just sent her like 30 mins b4 (fuck!!!) anyways...
onto another thing....the other day he was saying that he got some "supplements" and i said like what....he wouldnt answer me...i was like ok...never asked again....well...so i decided to email my ex to ask her if she knew if he was "on" anything or whatever cuz this kid is so against AS it is ridiculous!! i mean he stands there and has to pick people out and say "oh there on!!" ...but this is comin from a guy that smokes pot regularly and does other rec drugs and drinks atleast 4 nites a week!!!
well...it just so happens that i also asked her if she has ever told him about me using AS also...BIG MISTAKE!! but i guess i had no idea he was gonna b a little bitch and read her email .....so i guess what i was wondering is what would u guys do...only a few people know that i have done AS and i want 2 keep it that way....the last 2 nites at the gym he has kinda been tryin 2 ignore me which is fine...i really dont need him to lift with me ...he needs me more...i mean he started liftin with me and he went form bein a fat pudgy kid weighin 245 to 200 in like 1 year and if he doesnt lift and train with me he doesnt really workout... but if he is so against AS and people that make there bodies healthier instead of tear them down with other drugs than i dont know what 2 do...sheesh...this is long....what would u guys do??should i approach him??i dont really like the tension between us the last few days and i guess i want 2 get it over with and move on...

also..another thing that kinda bugs me is he thinks that people that use AS are cheating or whatever and that is bullshit....cuz I DONT KNOW A MOTHERFUCKER THAT WORKS HARDER THAN ME IN THAT GYM!!arggggh!

A few things to think about here. It all probably depends on how good of a friend he is to you. I mean you have to put yourself in his shoes. I think I would feel a little betrayed and misled finding those 2 things out about one of my best friends. So I think you should approach him and put this under the table. Also, think of this, if this ruins yours guys relationship he is going to tell everybody he knows and some people he don't about your AS use, just to try and bring you down a little. Now i don't really think you DID anything wrong really. Maybe you should have been upfront about your correspondence with your ex. But I don't think anyone has the "RIGHT" to know about your AS use. You can only trust yourself in this life and people who don't know alot about AS seem to look at it like the media prints it.

Another thing on the "cheating" thing, I agree with you. Like I told my wife, who am I cheating, I'm not in any college or professional sports and I'm not on any Olympic team.......so who in the flark am I cheating!!!???

u used Anabolics, Shame on you.... you are a bad man......



About the lifting partner............. He is just jealous,,,,,, Seen things like that before..

Yes, I agree that he will tell people about your use if you don't squash this. Talk it out. He already knows you're using so just be real about it. Let him know how good it's worked for you, all of the good things that have come from it. Maybe you can convince him it's not so bad.

I would let it ride.
I wouldn't tell him shit.

as far as the ex thing goes...he knows we talk whether it b via email, on the phone, or in person. he is really insecure.....i understand your point about him tellin everybody about the AS usage but it all comes down to the fact that the fuck opened her email account and looked at all her emails like a kid....and the thing is...my email addy has no part of my name in it...so he wouldnt have known which one was from me or whatever. people need to just keep there mouths shut...i mean personally i dont give a shit what he does in his own time...nor should he give a shit about what i do.

You could kill him.

Fuk em,all my buddys say shit like roid ass and shit like that,the same time there up all night hitting rails,to each his own,its all just ignorance,so again fuk em.

wtf

sounds like HIGH SCHOOL to me! But im an old man now... Ditch the partner fast and sleep with the ex!

the issues run deeper then the AS---he thinks you're poking the ex and thats a problem---i predict a boxing match in the near future between you 2---good luck bro

Ah yes Dpsquat,another example of the difference between knowledge and wisdom!!-show'em both your ass and find a new partner!!Life is too short for petty bullshit!

well...it has been squashed...he is a little bitch....but oh well....i care more for the ex...as far as pokin her....nope...good friends...yes....some of u old guys no who i am talkin about.

ride on brother ride on just another speed bump that hurt your ass but didnt make ya crash.

I wouldn't worry too much about the guy if he gets jealous over you for thinking that you and his girlfriend are sleeping together. If he doesn't want to go on being friends, I wouldn't mess with it unless you two were really good buddies.

Bros before hoes.

If he is dating your ex, he is not a "good" freind anyway. There are rules about that shit.

ya...tell me about it..i gave him my "blessing" altho i dont care much for the idea......but who am i to tell them they cant date?? anyways...it will not last ...but oh well....if he keeps fuckin up...i will beat him....this is a woman that i spent 7+ yrs with and care for her a great deal.....it just didnt workout.....

Kill'em all!!! At least Fuck'em all!!! But thats just how I deal with things.

If you were with her for 7 years, nobody thats your friend has the right to see her. That's jacked in my opinion.