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BigSoda

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• Dec 7, 2002

• #1

Well to make a long story short I have 2 little boys 3 and 5.I am Not with there mother anymore but still have my boys about half the month each month.Well today I call her cause my oldest son wanted to call her and her bitch ass boy friend picks up,I was very nice and asked to please speak to her for my son.Well dick replys by telling me don't call and starts talking shit for no reason.My ? is do I just say fuk it and bust his ass or just send some one around there and tear him a new ass hole?

 

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BigSoda

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• Dec 7, 2002

• #2

oh and all this was for no reason.wtf I just told him nicely I would see him when I see him and then just said bye.

 

winnie

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• Dec 7, 2002

• #3

bro, I don't know. What a dick though, WTF!!!

I would initially tell you to kick his ass, but family and kids are involved, way out of my league.

 

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BigSoda

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• Dec 7, 2002

• #4

what a fuckin mut,he must be worried about me being in the picture

 

musclehead

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• Dec 7, 2002

• #5

Dont touch him. It will make you look very bad in the eyes of your childrens mother. Also they will probably tell your kids what you did and shit and that would cause a lot of problems.

 

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BigSoda

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• Dec 7, 2002

• #6

So just drop it??

 

dedprez*

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• Dec 7, 2002

• #7

dont start anything...make him initiate it..otherwise it could look bad in court as far as custody hearings r concerned.

 

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BigSoda

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• Dec 7, 2002

• #8

Their mother is cool 1 min and a bitch the next.I know what u mean dedprez,but I know when I see him he is gonna run his mouth.

 

winnie

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• Dec 7, 2002

• #9

Some people are hard learners, but I don't think expressing how you feel physically would be the best option here. Confront the mother, and she should want the best for her own children and straighten the dickhead out herself.

 

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92StangMan

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• Dec 7, 2002

• #10

If you want him to initate the fight (be self defense on your part), the next time he starts running his mouth, just look at him and ask him how your dick taste.

That should be more than enough. If he doesn't do anything, he's a pussy and only runs his mouth when he won't back it up.

 

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BigSoda

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• Dec 7, 2002

• #11

Thanks fellas

 

hostile

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• Dec 7, 2002

• #12

Leave it alone. Focus on your kids.


Now, if he ever disrespects your kids in ANY way. That's a different story. Just plan it thoroughly and get away with it.

 

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mcinfo

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• Dec 7, 2002

• #13

Don't mess with him unless he messes with your kids.

 

deltachistud

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• Dec 8, 2002

• #14

92StangMan said:

If you want him to initate the fight (be self defense on your part), the next time he starts running his mouth, just look at him and ask him how your dick taste.

That should be more than enough. If he doesn't do anything, he's a pussy and only runs his mouth when he won't back it up.

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ditto

 

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Badgermoon

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• Dec 8, 2002

• #15

Having been divorced from my kid's mother, I'll give you my take on it. The boyfriend may well be gone and forgotten in a few years. If not, your kids will by then be old enough to see things like this for what they are... his (boyfriend's) dip-shit personality comming through. Above all, you have to put your kids first. They will need you to be strong for them. If they see dad as a decent man who is above all the bickering it will help them have some stability in their lives. Something they need, and they need it from you. believe me, it will make you the bigger man in their eyes if you don't get sucked into a lot of quarrles and fights over other people's immature acts. If he dare's to hurt one of the kids, or is abusive to them that's different.

 

BStrongBwell*

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• Dec 8, 2002

• #16

Take the high road and think about your boys. It's a lose/lose scenario if you lay a hand on him...with potential consequences including a run-in w/the law and even ending up with limited visitation rights with your boys. Unless he is the physical agressor---and you have witnesses, don't risk it. Now, if he hurts your kids, your property, your X...send the stupid shit to the hospital. If he's talking shit, it sounds like he insecure about his relationship w/your X anyway.