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Nitrous Oxide
01-27-2003, 02:44 PM
Hey bros, I really have one odd question to ask all of ya. Its about bringing your girl to your home, meeting your parents etc..that kind of bullshit.. See, I had many, and I mean many girlfriends in my life, I used to fool around alot, but never actually brought a girl home to meet my parents..I really love this girl to death (my fiancee) but my previous posts revealed some stuff.religion problems etc..however all I'm saying is what to do..I feel extremely nervous bringing her home and meeting my parents..and all that process..that I have to go through..!. what if she doesn't like them..what if they're different than her parents..what If my parents give her adittude...I feel so depressed lately over this...she keeps tellin me she wants to meet my parents..and I want to bring her home but I don't have enough balls I need some input on doing this..and I need to calm the fuck down..I've been goin crazy for a while now... My mom is cool..but my dad likes to talk alot..ask too many questions..and I don't want to make her Uncomfortable however the fuck you spell it,...I need help..help me...... :(

Harvey Balboner
01-27-2003, 02:52 PM
Just tell your parents before you bring her over, that you really care about her, and not to give her the 5th degree.

dedprez*
01-27-2003, 03:16 PM
no need to get depressed....just let them meet each other...who cares what anyone else thinks...as long as u 2 are happy 2gether.

MARMASS
01-27-2003, 03:38 PM
Relax bro it sounds that you really like this one and what your parents think is only part of it. Don't worry about it so much, they may meet and really hit it off. Don't worry about what hasn't happened yet. Only worry about what you know you have to. I hope it all works out!!!

Nitrous Oxide
01-27-2003, 08:06 PM
Thanks.. bros for your support..this is really tough..I'm gettin' myself ready for this one...whoo boy..

viper10139
01-28-2003, 10:14 AM
Good luck bro, just relax, and have a good time...don't worry about it...I know easier said than done...but just u be yourself and her being herself.....

Choke03
01-28-2003, 12:29 PM
Relax bro, if your girl doesn't like your parents no big deal, she is marrying you not them. And vice verse.

Your parents can't be all bad, they raised you.

DragonRider
01-28-2003, 01:42 PM
If you stand at the edge of a high dive and look down you'll never jump. Sometimes you have to dive without thinking about it. Plus, if this is wigging you out, both your GF and you parents will sense it and make them feel like they have to perform for your benefit. If you can relax about this, they will both feel able to be natural around each other.

majorguns
01-29-2003, 10:02 AM
if she is your fiancee, she should have already met your parents

PIMPn8EZ
01-29-2003, 11:36 AM
Ahhhh you'll be fine... it is a nerve busting feeling... but what the hell, it has to be done brother. I know you will do fine. You both love each other, that is worth it's weight in gold. She wants to stand beside you through thick and thin... this is prob going to be just another obsticle in your long courtship. Keep your mind clear bro! Keep us posted... we are all here to help... and hey, Good luck!

Nitrous Oxide
01-29-2003, 02:20 PM
Thanks bros..