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Nitrous Oxide
02-07-2003, 05:32 PM
Ok bros..let me see what u think about this...would you be againts that if your wife or gf/fiancee whatever dresses like a slut..very revealing clothes..almost naked..would you tell her to dress up a little bit better or what...this girl...likes to wear sluty clothes..and likes to get attention from males...so that bothers me very much..if I don't liek what she wears..and I tell her to stop dress like that..would you tell her if u wanna be with me u better put some clothes or..or I will leave you...??

Nitrous Oxide
02-07-2003, 06:13 PM
bump ^

Badgermoon
02-07-2003, 06:28 PM
I think you need to need to be the one to decide if the way she dresses is acceptable for you or not. If it makes you uncomfortable then you should bring it up with her, and either come to an understanding about it, or decide if you really want to be with her. What I would go for and what the next person would, is different for each of us. It sounds like it bothers you, so it probably needs to be resolved or it will cause problems down the road.

winnie
02-07-2003, 06:30 PM
Bro...me personally wouldn't want my girl looking like a slut. There are times to be revealing and times not to be. There are ways to be revealing to curtain point and still be classy, but that is a very fine line.

If she's wearing a thong to the bar, toss her to the curve...lol

One thing that really gets me are the girls that let their thong ride up there back so whenever they bend over you can see...they do this intentionally, I think. This is one thing that is considered to be unclassy.

Does this girl have class?

latimer
02-07-2003, 09:35 PM
I guess it would depend if she was looking slutty for you or for other guys. Who does she go home with. Who cares if she is faithfull. If she is a true slut you need to send her to the curb. Other wise enjoy what you see out and enjoy it when you get home to play with it. But that is me I like to show what I have.

rooster1
02-07-2003, 10:08 PM
I like my girl to dress that way for me or even when we go out together because I like to look at her.But if she is trying to get attention from other guys she is not being respectful of you and,for myself,I would have a problem with that.That behavior will only lead to trouble and jealousy.There are too many hot girls out there to worry about one that doesn't take you seriously or listen to you if you say you have a problem with how she dresses.

rippedchef
02-07-2003, 11:52 PM
wrong girl-thats a symptom of bigger problems-if your not married-end it quick-JMO

rooster1
02-08-2003, 12:02 AM
I concur

bigshug
02-08-2003, 02:56 AM
Yup, if a girl is so starved for attention that she has to dress to impress every guy that sees her, then she may be more prone to acting when some guy hits on her when she's not around. An ex GF of mine used to dress pretty provocatively and she had some serious self esteem/insecurity issues.....it's usually a symptom of some deeper rooted problem IMO

Azmodeus
02-08-2003, 10:10 AM
Did she dress like that when you two got together? If she did you knew what you were getting.

viper10139
02-08-2003, 10:17 AM
I agree with bigshug......if not married I would also end it bro....maybe u could talk to her about it....she might understand but who knows? Good luck!!

Riddico
02-08-2003, 10:54 AM
She should be dressing to turn you on, Thats the only thing that should count about this situation if she was for real about you.

BStrongBwell*
02-08-2003, 11:44 AM
All U can do is tell her how it makes you feel and ask he nicely to change. OUtside that, you can't change people and you shouldn't even try. I don't think you'd want her demanding you to change, so don't do that to her. If she WANTS to on the other hand, great. If she doesn't change, you have to decide if you can deal with it or not.

JUST A THOUGHT---> if she looks REALLY good, take her out, let her dress to turn you on...take her home and bang her...and then go find some nice girl who dresses conservatively to marry and have your kids!

hostile
02-08-2003, 11:55 AM
You should tell her how you feel and then report back to us with her response.

Then we will certainly be able to judge her character. :D

Nitrous Oxide
02-08-2003, 01:29 PM
I spoke to her over the phone..last night...I told her how I feel..and stuff...so I told her..its up to you..its either me..or you and your clothes..so she at first she got mad a little bit..then she told me "FINE I'LL CHANGE"...and then we continued our normal conversation...we'll see how things workout..I told her..how she could find a better class..of dressing..so by saying that I put her down alittle bit...she felt fucked..up..

DragonRider
02-09-2003, 12:41 PM
[QUOTE]Originally posted by rooster1
[B]I like my girl to dress that way for me or even when we go out together because I like to look at her.[QUOTE]

Me too. I like my women a little on the trashy side. I'd also like to see what N.O.'s version of dressing sluty is. What some guys call sluty is conservative and in style in my book.

sliprock
02-10-2003, 02:03 PM
Just give her the SHOCKER :lol