Rejection from a girl.

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Elmoduplaya

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• Feb 19, 2003

• #1

How do you guys handle this. I have always made sure that a girl likes me before I ask her out to dinner or what ever. But, I have never asked a girl out if I am not sure she likes me. There is this one girl that keeps coming to my job, she is quiet but pretty. If I ask her out and she sais "no" what can I say so I will not look stupid of make her feel uneasy?

 

dedprez*

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• Feb 19, 2003

• #2

they usually come to me ..and if she says no...then oh well...ask if she has a friend

 

winneevee

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• Feb 19, 2003

• #3

fuck it, no girl is worth worrying about, so just ask her, if she says no, then the hell with it, there is more fish in the sea. The way I see it, everything happens for a reason.
And if you are shy, just be like, yeah why dont you come out with me and some friends tonight. O yeah, girls love it when you act like you dont even care if she says yes or no. they love a challenge.

 

Nitrous Oxide

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• Feb 19, 2003

• #4

If she says yes good for you, if NO then tell her..you were kidding..

 

footballcat

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• Feb 20, 2003

• #5

just do it man

 

nox

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• Feb 20, 2003

• #6

How about something to the effect of "Why are you turning away the best thing to ever happen to you?". At best you get a reason, at worst you get kicked in the nuts.

 

winnie

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• Feb 20, 2003

• #7

Yup, I don't see how you can lose by asking her, you can only gain something.

 

bigshug

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• Feb 20, 2003

• #8

I've never had a girl humiliate me for asking her out....the only thing I've felt is regret for being too afraid of the negative consequences to actually go up and talk to some hot girl. These guys are right, no girl is worth that much anguish, if she says no, just thank her and go about your business...no big deal

 

BLEED GREEN

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• Feb 20, 2003

• #9

Just ask- after all the worst thing she can say is NO...I think we can all handle that!

 

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viper10139

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• Feb 20, 2003

• #10

hey bro.. I feel you...I am always in that boat, but I have learned to just ask...if they say "NO" ok that's cool, and just walk away...yes it hurts...yes it gets you down, but u have to get right back up....and one eventually will say "yes" so trust me..I still have issues about asking them out as well, just get to know them first and then ask...trust me...I am in that situation now...good luck bro!!

 

rugbythug

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• Feb 20, 2003

• #11

Her saying No should not be taken as a personal attack on you. Besides how could she turn down ELMO

 

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Elmoduplaya

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• Feb 20, 2003

• #12

LOL! thank you all... The thing is that I live in a small town and you will always run into the same person. I'll give that philly a try and if she sais "NO" then I will reply "By the way, did I mention I have a penis?" and that should make her drop to my feet, right? Thanks again guys!!!

 

GetnBigr

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• Feb 20, 2003

• #13

no need to regret not asking her out!

you'll never know if you don't ask

 

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slapdatsit

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• Feb 20, 2003

• #14

bigshug is so wright ask her out if she says no say ok wana just fuck

 

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LaMastaKilla

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• Feb 21, 2003

• #15

use one of those great pick up lines in that thread you'll be sure to get a yes out of her!

 

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scorpio

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• Feb 21, 2003

• #16

Rejection is part of the game, at least she'll know your interested, I've been married ten years and I hear "no" all the time.

 

footballcat

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• Feb 21, 2003

• #17

so where is the update, what happend

 

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Elmoduplaya

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• Feb 21, 2003

• #18

She hasn't stopped by and sometimes I see her walking around, but some students still have midterms around here so that might be it. I will let you what she said when I ask..

 

jshoty

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• Feb 24, 2003

• #19

you cant hit a homerun if you dont swing the bat.

 

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viper10139

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• Feb 24, 2003

• #20

go for it bro!!!!