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Max-HC
03-06-2003, 12:09 AM
Want to get bigger?
I mean it seems to me I had better luck getting ladies,
when i was 190lbs and ripped then i do now 30lbs
more of muscle.I get more looks now but its different.
Do ladies find it intimidating.I always figured they would
enjoy being with a big man feel sucure.

What do you think....

dedprez*
03-06-2003, 12:25 AM
probably but i do it for me and no one else

footballcat
03-06-2003, 12:41 AM
I do it just for me. I feel that im not very big. So when i feel happy wiht my self i will stop

Badgermoon
03-06-2003, 01:15 AM
some women don't like it some do. I do it because I want to for myself. My gf likes it, so far, but I'm not built very big. I feel like I need to add at least 15 to 20 lbs of lean mass.

bigshug
03-06-2003, 01:37 AM
Yes, some women are very intimidated by big guys. The last girl I tried to hook up with said that she was afraid she'd be crushed if I got on top of her.....:(

Nitrous Oxide
03-06-2003, 01:42 AM
90% of girls love normal/average guys..I'm speaking from my own experience..but the best feeling you get is when the "normal/average" guys look at you..like you're gonna kill them..lol..but I do it for myself..

Zeca
03-06-2003, 07:26 AM
Yup, i think ladies prefer a ripped look.........

pudgy
03-06-2003, 10:05 AM
i dont know, ive been cutting since i was 2 :)

dedprez*
03-06-2003, 10:30 AM
in high school i was not a big guy but had muscles and very ripped....come to find out that several years later some women were scared of me then and found me intimidating....yes...i did have a temper and spoke my opinion but....i was not mean...or was i? :)

BLEED GREEN
03-06-2003, 10:32 AM
Personal satisfaction without a doubt-my wife however also likes it !

gymrat
03-06-2003, 10:36 AM
I do it for myself, but I also agree that women are more attracted to the skinny, scrawny, average guys. They think that a big jacked guy has only one priority and that is the gym. They can't stand being second.

superman1975
03-06-2003, 11:29 AM
i havent noticed a difference

poopoo
03-06-2003, 01:17 PM
Yeah, I'm with gymrat on that one. women like to look at big guys, but they don't always want to hook up with them, b/c they think that all you do is work out all day. I'm not even that big yet, just a little bigger than the average joe, but peple that don't know me assume that I'm an asshole, which is far from the truth. I've been told by many girls that originally they thought that I'm a jerk, untill they got to know me.

dedprez*
03-06-2003, 02:58 PM
poopoo...
bro just be glad that ANYONE talks to you with that kinda avatar!!

rugbythug
03-06-2003, 03:07 PM
I love it. The bigger I get the hotter my GF gets. She just love to watch me brush my teeth. I think maybe you are setting your sites to low. Probably the medium hot chicks are intimdated so now you need to only go for 8-10's Or 2-5's depends how you look at things.LOL

midwtchamp
03-06-2003, 03:23 PM
Lets see I was little man in high school so I have small mans syndrome and it def. takes a certain/special kinda lady to put up w/someone w/our lifestyle. The constant eating lifting fugging. I am not huge by anymeans but I am damn big for my size and a lot of women are intimidated by me and they tell me that...they assume if you are big look big that you are high mantinence (like women arent) so I will stick to my first point it takes a really special woman to put up w/a guy like "us" and when you find that one keep em!

poopoo
03-06-2003, 03:32 PM
Very true MWC. Over the holidays I hooked up with a decent looking girl (I picked her up at the bar, hehe). Well, when she came over, she stayed a while, and I kept my regular eating schedule, being the avid bb'er that I am, and I could tell that by the end of the night, she was starthing to get disgusted. But I got some anyways, so its all good :D the relationship never lasted, suprise, suprise

poopoo...
bro just be glad that ANYONE talks to you with that kinda avatar!!


In reality I'm a pretty handsome stud... really.
At least my mom tells me so...LOL

WeirdAl
03-06-2003, 03:46 PM
MWC - if you'd stop showering at the gym, you could probably get over the small man syndrome!

WeirdAl
03-06-2003, 03:49 PM
As for me, I always enjoyed working out and developing my body. In high school, in college. After college, I got married, got a job and started working long hours, and let my body go (and go, and go, and...) When I finally decided to do something, I decided to go full bore into it, and to be very serious about getting back in shape. I stripped off all the fat, and was amazed at how little I was underneath. It felt good to be ripped, but I was just unimpressed with how much muscle was under there. I guess I always have had a mental picture of myself as being very muscular/strong, and now I'm just trying to let my physical appearance catch up with my mental picture!

WeirdAl
03-06-2003, 03:55 PM
Hey, the post above was my 1000th post! At least it was something useful! :D

Harvey Balboner
03-06-2003, 03:58 PM
I guess because I was so skinny in high school, I don't really workout so chicks will dig me more, I just want to be strong & big.

Even though I'm not playing competitive sports right now, it kills me if I get beat on a play because someone is stronger or in better shape than me.

dreww
03-06-2003, 10:17 PM
originally did it to get ladies.....as most did.

but now I could care less. Back then I wanted people to like and notice me, now I don't care what anyone thinks. Ironically enough, lifting is what changed my thinking in addition to me getting older and more mature.

Now I just strive to get bigger and stronger as I don't see the point in lifting unless you are constantly improving. Its like a game to me. I have to be better than I was.

BStrongBwell*
03-07-2003, 08:14 PM
Most women like men that are just in decent shape. Big muscles are preferred by I think only a minority...however, it's that minority that I like!