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PLUSA
08-13-2002, 07:13 PM
This girl that used to be way into me a while back...

Well I finally called her and she suggested we meet up when we she would come to town. A couple months down the line. Mind you my phone call was very very late. She said that she thought I wouldn't bother to do it. Basically she wanted me a lot more than I wanted her.

I'm living in a different region of the country from her for a year. Normally same city. At the end of the conv. she asked for my number. Couple of days later...she emails me and says..."you know I really enjoyed talking to you on the phone......Well, I really hope to hear back from you soon."

Since then no call or email...hmmm...

I do have to admit that I did enjoy flirting and teashing her a lot...and probably led her on a lot more than I should have...

rj4860
08-13-2002, 09:14 PM
sounds like she wants your jock bad. Call her soon or she'll get pissed off and lose interest. Then you're fucked, and not in the good way.

rj4860
08-13-2002, 09:16 PM
unless she's ugly. Then don't call her and she'll get pissed off and lose interest and it would be a good thing.

silent
08-13-2002, 09:35 PM
Sounds like she wants you to call bro.

PLUSA
08-13-2002, 10:02 PM
yeah...but the weird thing is like three days before the email she asked for my phone number...

...so she does have my number...

on the attraction thing...well it was pretty obvious. pressing her crotch against me at work, touching me constantly when it was totally unnecessary, and well touching my ass a lot. alot of these "oops did i touch you there...(laughs)"

plus lots of comments regarding how shed never slept with a guy of my race, but shed be very willing for sure....no she didnt do this with any other guys at work and there were several other guys...our age...most of em thought she thought she was too good...definately a looker...for sure though

Taz30
08-13-2002, 11:05 PM
The answer is pretty obvious . She's done everything but pin you down in a corner and rape ya. As far as her having your number , most women don't like to do the calling.

MacGyver
08-14-2002, 12:19 AM
I agree with Taz.....Playing hard to get drives women crazy but only for so long.

PLUSA
08-14-2002, 12:46 AM
Shes a very cute white chick...

I'm a hot korean fella...lol

superchicken
08-14-2002, 01:15 AM
maybe she lost your # and didnt want to tell you?

or maybe shes insecure about herself and you cause you were out of touch for so long, she might figure that since you finally called her that your def intrested and you would get in touch w/ her again. (she might not wanna make herself look stupid and jock you if shes unsure about what you want)

46and2aheadofme
08-14-2002, 03:12 AM
put it in her butt.

MacGyver
08-14-2002, 03:16 AM
Originally posted by 46and2aheadofme
put it in her butt.

LOLOLOLOLOLOL

That is the best advice you will ever get and should be used in any women problems that you may have.

46and2aheadofme
08-14-2002, 03:20 AM
:D

Taz30
08-14-2002, 07:03 PM
Originally posted by 46and2aheadofme
put it in her butt.

LOL . :D

the herbalist
08-14-2002, 08:23 PM
Don't mean to flame you, bro-but she's done everything except rape you. Are you that dense?

PLUSA
08-14-2002, 09:06 PM
lol.
yes i must be real dense. I knew that she was sort of interested from the start, but then everyone started asking me lots of questions and wondering what was going on between us.

I dont think i have ever had a girl this forward that WASNT drunk...

I just thought that with those weird emails and shit that maybe her thoughts or whatever had changed. I'll give her a ring once my law school starts...

about the long wait to call, it wasnt really intentional, i actually couldnt find the number and didnt give her mine. just told her that i would call...when she asked for it initially...

PLUSA
09-01-2002, 06:40 PM
well i finally gave her a call a couple of weeks ago.

we've been talking several times a week now...and she is definately still interested...in me either seriously or at least to sleep with...

i assume that in this situation ...someone is not looking to "hook up" though...she seems to like the idea that im gonna be coming back out west soon...in her town...but right now...im confused bc i just started going out with a girl in my graduate school...