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cybersteffan
09-17-2002, 11:39 AM
I never had many girlfiends in my life. Hell I only had my first when I was 21. I'm now almost 25 and I have finally discovered the world of dating.

I managed to go out with 15 different girls the past 5 weeks. But I don't know what's wrong. The dates never are a real match for both or a total knock-off for both. 12 of the 15 wanted me, but I didn't want them. The three I wanted, didn't want me. It sucks.

And what is this hunting feeling about? I am developping a strange sense of girl hunger. Where I always wanted a serious realtionship I now just wanna seduce them and when they fall for it and I can have them, I don't want them anymore. I find this not too healthy, but I just can't seem to help myself with this feeling.

Anyway I got 5 more dates coming up this week. Two of them bluntly said they wanted to screw me for a night and nothing more. Obviously I'll accept the challenge. One is a bit of a fat chick, but I think she is gonna be really good in the sack. The other is quite beautifull.

Anyway I am feeling lost. This doesn't seem to be it. But I just can't help it.

Harvey Balboner
09-17-2002, 12:49 PM
Your just going through a wild stage, hit as many as you can, but it sounds like you have a conscience about messing around with girls you don't care about. You will find someone to settle down with later.

cybersteffan
09-17-2002, 01:03 PM
Originally posted by Harvey Balboner
it sounds like you have a conscience about messing around with girls you don't care about.

Very correct actually. I am really scared about hurting people. I don't like to get hurt myself.

bjtheman
09-17-2002, 01:07 PM
Originally posted by cyberstefke


Very correct actually. I am really scared about hurting people. I don't like to get hurt myself.
I understand that completely!! I'm not the type that can do that..even if she's willing I'm still skeptical! I feel like what i'm doing is wrong! I'm also the type who doesn't like to date more than 1 girl at a time...I'm such An Idiot!
FLAMERS GO FOR IT...but be gentle :(

cybersteffan
09-17-2002, 01:12 PM
Hey, I never date more than one at a time either. Some of the girls I still go out with as just friends, but that's not dating. I'm currently seeing one girl quite often now, but she doesn't seem interested. Because I'm interested in her, I indeed feel quite akward about going out with these other girls this week.

I'll probably be direct. I'll ask her tomorrow if she onlywants to be good friends, and if this is the case... I'll tell her honestly that the search goes on and I'll tell her about the coming dates.

bjtheman
09-17-2002, 01:18 PM
Good Luck!

LaMastaKilla
09-17-2002, 01:24 PM
let me guess, mailboxkillr hooked you up with the fat chick. . . .LOL

bjtheman
09-17-2002, 01:26 PM
Originally posted by LaMastaKilla
let me guess, mailboxkillr hooked you up with the fat chick. . . .LOL

That was wrong....I'm getting sick thinking about that one too! :(

superchicken
09-17-2002, 01:49 PM
i think you respect women too much bro. im not saying women dont deserve respect, but the ones that that outright say they wanna get dickd down get no respect, just hit it and dont call them again, thats what they want.

hell, on saturday me and my bud made these 3 girls look like straight whores. met them at a club, 2 were sisters, 1 a freind, 2 w/ boyfirends who werent there.

we passed them back and forth between us sucking on thier titties outside on the street in fron of the club w/ like 50 people out there. of course they went home w/ us too.

were they tripping about getting demeaned in front of so many people? heel no. they wanted to be whores that night so we treated them like it.

do i normally do things like that? no. i was just having fun, and treating a few girls how they wanted to be treated.

its really no big deal. but i feel you on when its too easy its not appealing anymore, and i too have a prob where girls want me and i dont want them, or i want them and they aint intrested. eventually well meet girls worth our mutual time.

cybersteffan
09-17-2002, 02:15 PM
Originally posted by superchicken
eventually well meet girls worth our mutual time.

You're right! I hope it happens soon. Anyway the more I date the better the chances of meeting a good one, I guess.

cybersteffan
09-17-2002, 02:16 PM
Originally posted by LaMastaKilla
let me guess, mailboxkillr hooked you up with the fat chick. . . .LOL

That's a pic of his mistress. And I wouldn't dream of stealing a bro's girl! :D

Larsin
09-17-2002, 02:17 PM
we passed them back and forth between us sucking on thier titties outside on the street in fron of the club w/ like 50 people out there

Did your pecker get in the way? :P

1bigmus
09-17-2002, 05:40 PM
Hey cyberstefke

Don't worry the right one will come along. Guess the phrase all men are pigs applies to women too. We are all human. Just if your going to have fun be sure to protect yourself.

Best way to find a decent girl is to stop looking. Your so busy dating all these girls when the right one is infront of you, cant see it. Oh and the Movie "Something about Mary" has the right idea. Get the baby batter off the brain.

superman1975
09-17-2002, 08:55 PM
whats the problem--i would have fucked everyone of them--you're young, dumb, and full of cum--use that cock before it falls off--but i am jaded about the opposite sex lately--so advise from me should be taken with that in mind

mcinfo
09-17-2002, 09:08 PM
GUE is the way to get more boodie!!
It works every time!

Go ,Ugly, Early =GUE

Sorry - Get married - fuck that dating bullshit

boking
09-18-2002, 04:50 AM
LIFE IS LIKE A BOX OF AS, YA DON'T KNOW WHAT YOUR GONNA GET. REAL DEAL OR FAKE SHIT

mailboxkillR
09-18-2002, 05:54 AM
Fat chicks are like mopeds fun to ride you just don't want your friends to see you on it. Damn cyber just keep a banging till the time comes for mrs right and even then it's not always what it seems. It's a fu(ked up world out there just take care of #1 yourself cause no one else is gonna.

cybersteffan
09-18-2002, 06:02 AM
tnx mailboxkillR. it is indeed never what it seems.

mailboxkillR
09-18-2002, 06:16 AM
No prob bro I've been through the mill a few times even lost 2 kids thanks to 1 bitch. Sometimes I just fuggin hate women. Off to work now and then anger management classes LMAO

Bigup
09-18-2002, 06:21 AM
Hey Cyberstefke, Im in the same position as you. I was in a relationship for 4 years from 19 yrs old and when we split i went crazy for 2 years. This is actually about the time i started experimenting more with the weights and fitness etc.

The one night loose screwing shit gets boring too after a while and you want a more complete girlfriend. If you were in a steady relationship, trust me you'd wanna f*ck every female with a pulse!

Just go with the flow and dont stress about anything.

cybersteffan
09-18-2002, 06:33 AM
Man it's getting even more frustrating. There is one girl I really like a lot and she is awesomely pretty. Way outta my leaugue actually. For some reason she does put effort into me. She calls all the damn time and sends tons of mails and sms's. We went out a couple a times too. But she is givin so damn opposite signals. Like tonight when I woke up to pee at 4 am I had an sms in which she said that she couldn't sleep and that she probably would if she didn't have to sleep alone. But when I reacted she all of a sudden withdrew and said she had no one or anything specific in mind when she said that. Aw c'mon why sent such a message to 'just a friend' at 4 am?

The other day I sent her the message that I would have liked to kiss her, but was afraid to get a black eye out of it. She replied I wouldn't have gotten a black eye at all. So I replied that I would go for that kiss next time than. She answered that it was not because she wouldn't hit me, she'd allow me to kiss her.

Man I hate these mixed feeling. She messing with me and I hate that. She's constantly begging for my attention, but everytime she gets it, she holds me off saying we're just friend. Aaarrggghhh.

Anyway, I got date 16 coming up tonight. Let's see how this one checks out :D

Bigup
09-18-2002, 06:40 AM
Just tell her straight. Women like that f*ck with your head by leading you on etc. She has the power because you respond to her flirtations. Next time she sends you an email or sms with something like, "i cant sleep alone" tell her to get a fcuking teddy bear or a dildo. The only reason she's doing it is cos you're letting her. Turn the tables on her and make her chase you and you'll have her eating out of the palm of your hand or even better, your crotch!

cybersteffan
09-18-2002, 06:43 AM
Tnx bigup. I was just typing a mail in which I was gonna tell her how I felt for her. But I guess your right. I wont send the mail. I'll try to let her chase after me, although she has so much guy's running after her, I don't really think she's gonna put effort in me.

Bigup
09-18-2002, 06:49 AM
Well im in the same position as you bro. Its taken me a year to realise what to do and now i know. If its gonna happen it will happen, you cant worry about it all the time. You'll just end up miserable.

GetnBigr
09-18-2002, 08:13 AM
cyber- don't respond to that girl for a few days and when she asks why you've been avoiding her tell her this: tell her you've gone out with a few other girls, and you wanted more than a casual relationship with her, and she doesn't want that then move on.

p.s. and if you ever get the change to do her, take advantage of it since she played all those games with you

good luck

babysiren
09-18-2002, 08:43 AM
Originally posted by GetnBigr
cyber- don't respond to that girl for a few days and when she asks why you've been avoiding her tell her this: tell her you've gone out with a few other girls, and you wanted more than a casual relationship with her, and she doesn't want that then move on.

p.s. and if you ever get the change to do her, take advantage of it since she played all those games with you

good luck

I agree with GetnBigr...From a woman's point of view.. I think she seems like she's confused on what she wants from you, whether it be just friends, or more....Don't let her play you like that....If she wants to be with you, she should know...you shouldn't wait around for her to figure it out...Just keep going about what you were doing before....and if it's meant to be, she'll come around, and you get to decide if you want to be with her...

cybersteffan
09-18-2002, 09:05 AM
Tnx siren. I gues you're right. I'll try it your way and see how it works out. Already got a new date tonight so life is moving on.

highlandgamer
09-18-2002, 10:53 AM
Well cyber I say you should whore while the whorin is good. get laid as much as you can right now and it wil help you to see what it is that you really want and you will konw when that one comes along.

As for that girl that is f'in with your head, ignore it and don't let it get to you. the get a teddybear or a dildo comment is the type of mentality you must have when dealing with girls like her. Some will say she is confused but she knows exactly what to do to get you twisted around her finger. If you show her a little don't give a shit atitude then she will come crawling to you with the respect you deserve.

You sound like a good guy not wanting to hurt people and wanting to treat all with respect. but remember that somethings (people) are not respectable and therefore do not deserve to be treated with respect.

BiggerStronger
09-18-2002, 06:45 PM
Everyone's right. You should just go out and date some other girls. If you have the mentality that you're just going out to have a good time, no strings attached then you will start to feel better about the whole dating thing. It seems to me the moment that I have stopped going after a girl they usually come back twice as strong as before and are usually down for business....but by that time I usually have dated a few different girls with my adjusted attitude so I end up keeping my options open. Once you find the right one everything will fall into place.

Remember girls are attracted to something that takes a little work to get (don't go overboard). Girls don't like clingy guys. Girls will get scared off by guys are too serious from the get go. Let things develope. Good luck.

cybersteffan
09-18-2002, 07:38 PM
Well I told the girl that I had another date tonight. She was pretty shocked and upsett. I told her she had no right, since she was the one who didn't want me. She admitted she really liked me but that there was no spark. And so I said I wasn't going to bother myself with her anymore untill she figured out what she wanted and that I was just gonna keep on dating.

Anyway, I accomplished this because off all you peoples advice and I just wanted to say thanks to you all, it was very appreciated.

The date went quite ok. No fireworks, but definitely repeatable.

I am really glad it's over and that things are back to what they were.

violator
09-18-2002, 07:52 PM
i understand what you mean. i have never dated. i have had 3 serious relationships since i have been out of high school. im 25 now and just starting to date. i have yet to have a match. i have only been on about 5 dates in the past 5 months.

im not really looking for a girlfriend right now. i just got out of a relationship of 2 yeas. actually, not just out of it, but it feels like it. we have been broke up for about 9 months. im happy being single. if i met a girl, great. im not on the hunt though.

cybersteffan
09-20-2002, 05:24 AM
Well I must say thanks to all of you. I followed your advice and played hard to get with the beautifull girl and she caved in after one day. I just spend the night with her. She 's real nice and I think I am gonna be settle for a while.

This means posts will go down off course!

Tnx to all of you!!

morbid316
09-20-2002, 10:23 AM
screw the woman before they end up screwing you. Trust me woman are worse then men they will use you to there full extent they will use you like a piece of meat and when they are done they will spit you out.

If you fall for a woman you are really screwed because thats when she will really mess you over. It happened to me if you can belive it LOL.

WOMAN ARE WORSE THEN US MEN TRUST ME THEY JUST DON"T TALK ABOUT IT LIKE WE DO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

mailboxkillR
09-20-2002, 11:53 PM
Yea rigth posts go down you'll have a lap top in the bathroom posting how many times you banged her tonight you little post whore slut ;)

cybersteffan
09-21-2002, 02:59 PM
Originally posted by mailboxkillR
Yea rigth posts go down you'll have a lap top in the bathroom posting how many times you banged her tonight you little post whore slut ;)

No I have no lap top. I am putting markings on the bathroom wall however, counting the number of times I banged her. Banging is by the way the only thing we do. I don't think this is going anywhere than just a sexual relationship.

superchicken
09-21-2002, 04:17 PM
even now that you hooked up, still do things to remind her everyday that SHE is lucky to be with YOU. not vice versa.

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