Looks or personality

radical_P

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• Jul 24, 2003

• #41

Did the looks thing for a long time and found absolutely no substance. Maybe that one girl but who the F cares now.

 

T82

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• Jul 24, 2003

• #42

I'd have to agree with LA and say that looks are a big part of personality. I dont think I could respect a person much who didnt give a shit how they look/eat/dress/smell/whatever. Someone who doesnt take care of themselves is probably someone with low self-esteem and we all know how fun it is to be with someone with a bad self image!

BUT, if the person takes good care of themself, respects themself, and just doesnt happen to be graced with good genes, I think that would show through and make them attractive to me (as long as he had tons of cash, drove a kick ass car, and was markedly older than I was! HA! ).

 

Munkeee de Sade

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• Jul 30, 2003

• #43

I would have to say personality, I like a great looking guy, but I don't want to be with someone that doesn't have a good personality.

 

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Harvey Balboner

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• Aug 1, 2003

• #44

Munkeee de Sade said:

I would have to say personality, I like a great looking guy, but I don't want to be with someone that doesn't have a good personality.

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Yeah but you got the complete package, a great personality, and I'm a stud to boot.

 

Munkeee de Sade

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• Aug 2, 2003

• #45

Harvey Balboner said:

Yeah but you got the complete package, a great personality, and I'm a stud to boot.

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Yeah, well what are you going to do?

Harvey you are a great looking guy with a awsome peersonality I am a lucky woman!

 

sundevil

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• Aug 2, 2003

• #46

To me personality is the critical factor. A woman must be smart, have a good sense of humor, and be compatible in many ways. However, having said that, I must admit that I have to find the woman to be attractive (beautiful).

 

sundevil

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• Aug 2, 2003

• #47

BTW I'm on board with LA and T82's assertion that there is a link between looks and personality. I mean, look at what we do, could you relate to a woman who didn't take care of her body (or a man who didn't if you are a woman)?

 

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1bigmus

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• Aug 5, 2003

• #48

Doesn't matter how good the personality is if I'm not attracted to the person forget it.

 

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sus250

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• Aug 5, 2003

• #49

A little bit of both I need but when you get a ok lookin girl with a great personality you will fall in love everytime. At least I will.

 

chelle

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• Oct 27, 2003

• #50

Personality! When a guy has the best attitude, funny, attentive, smart, considerate, loving - that is sexy and out of this world.
A good looking guy that is an ass eventually ends up looking like an ass too.

 

SEXYMAMA

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• Oct 27, 2003

• #51

agree 100% with you Chelle... looks are nice of course and that is what you notice off the batt but, of course someone who is fine and and asshole ...bye bye... some people who may not be that
" fine" person u noticed right off & have that KICK ASS personality bam that will blow the FINE guy out of the water.....

 

teekahty

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• Oct 27, 2003

• #52

if i have to choose ,, i want personality ,.,, it is easy to spend the night with a hot chick .. it is impossible to spend a life time with a non personality ,, I want the cool , funny , caring , girl every single time

 

petite

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• Oct 27, 2003

• #53

teekahty said:

if i have to choose ,, i want personality ,.,, it is easy to spend the night with a hot chick .. it is impossible to spend a life time with a non personality ,, I want the cool , funny , caring , girl every single time

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Hey, thats me plus Im hot! LOL Full package with me baby!!

 

SEXYMAMA

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• Oct 27, 2003

• #54

OMG.... petite.....

 

petite

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• Oct 27, 2003

• #55

SEXYMAMA said:

OMG.... petite.....

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learner202

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• Oct 27, 2003

• #56

Sexy Momma you got pm's. And yea personality is good. You have to be attracted to the other person too though. What good is it if they get naked and it turns your tummy>?

 

chelle

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• Oct 27, 2003

• #57

learner202 said:

Sexy Momma you got pm's. And yea personality is good. You have to be attracted to the other person too though. What good is it if they get naked and it turns your tummy>?

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Physical attraction is, of course, the initial attraction.
If an average looking guy has a great persnality, he ends up being HOT! If a hot guy has a dumpy personality, he ends up looking really butt ugly to me.

 

learner202

Banana

• Oct 27, 2003

• #58

lol butt ugly. I like butts (girls!) and I like to grab em!

 

kristylynn

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• Oct 27, 2003

• #59

Personality is what matters overall, although not many of us stick around to find out the personality when the person is butt ugly.

 

SEXYMAMA

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• Oct 27, 2003

• #60

of course they have to be fine too... but this was kinda like what do you want the most is how I took it.... not every guy who treats you like gold if gonna be the finest thing out there but if is then hell yeah....BAM..... you gotta it made... 8 out of 10 times tho you dont find both together...... ya know?