Marriage Question
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This post got a little sidetracked - You never know - I think there are so many
divorces nowdays because it is eaiser to say screw-it then sticking around
and making it work. Marriage is hard work and you have to have two people
who want it to work. The only advice I would tell you to give him is to make
the "kid" his first priority even if it dosent work out. I think it is sometimes better
for a child to COME from a broken home then to LIVE in one. I have seen too many
people hate their ex's more then they love their kid. Not good for the kid.
Hey, My friends had a pool (like a football pool) at my wedding - I'm serious -
on how long it would last - 6 months was the longest. 16 years later we are still
married and still kind of like each other. We have outlasted almost everyone I know.
So, you never know.
divorces nowdays because it is eaiser to say screw-it then sticking around
and making it work. Marriage is hard work and you have to have two people
who want it to work. The only advice I would tell you to give him is to make
the "kid" his first priority even if it dosent work out. I think it is sometimes better
for a child to COME from a broken home then to LIVE in one. I have seen too many
people hate their ex's more then they love their kid. Not good for the kid.
Hey, My friends had a pool (like a football pool) at my wedding - I'm serious -
on how long it would last - 6 months was the longest. 16 years later we are still
married and still kind of like each other. We have outlasted almost everyone I know.
So, you never know.
16 years sweet bro! and the dating for us was fine for 3 years then once we got married the next 2 years were pure hell! i think we hated loving one another or someshit i cant put my finger on it, but were now as we once were best friends, and in love, but i cant for the life of me figure out why we fought so much the first two years of marriage, all is more then well now ofcourse, its strange i gues at first being married and i know why 50% wind up in divorce, if we werent christians or had some type of faith then im sure we wouldnt be here today still,
it was alot of work the first couple years of marriage!
it was alot of work the first couple years of marriage!
7 yrs huh thats a first time hearing that but I am with you on the faith thing. You have to be willing to forgive unless someones cheating and move on. You can forgive for the cheating but you would have to leave for sure. My wedding day is getting close guys and I feel great about it plus she has the hottest to twin sisters you will ever see, so Im always down for family events 
Hot sisters - thats funny - thats how I think but my wife has defanged me - I am
all bark and no bite. Presser - you lasted out those rough 2 years (like I said most
people dont) thats why you are where you are now (just my opinion) My wife and
I now laugh about all the crazy knock down drag out crap we went through. Going
through that and still sticking together (and learning from it) is a big part of us now
being so close.
all bark and no bite. Presser - you lasted out those rough 2 years (like I said most
people dont) thats why you are where you are now (just my opinion) My wife and
I now laugh about all the crazy knock down drag out crap we went through. Going
through that and still sticking together (and learning from it) is a big part of us now
being so close.
pincushion
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tyciol said:
You definitly have to work at marriage and sacrifice things so it can work because there will be things in a marriege that your both are not going to agree on, something as simple as what parents house are we going to eat Thanksgiving dinner at. Or if you want a dog and she doesnt. Or does she really need another fu--ing hand bag........
I guess I can't see it being an issue, as I don't go for that family stuff. Thanks!
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