How is everyone today?

sucky i went to lift got through legs, and everything but lats and bis, and felt like i was gonna puke. The mile walk back was long, legs didnt want to work
 
I'm ok. But I have a long evening ahead of me, so I will report later. I swear I'm not a pessimist.
 
not too great of a day or week, cant sleap for shit and have abunch of midterms this week too!
 
I guess I can't complain about my day...wasn't the best, but also wasn't the greatest either...not to mention that the weather in New England sucks right now...:(
 
I'm terrible today and I was yesterday when you made this post. My girlfriend broke up with me for no good reason and this time she was really someone who had everything I needed and wanted in a girl and I consider this a very serious loss although we weren't long together, but still. I feel like I've run been over by a train.
 
Hopefully better have had to seek professional help though UGH. Hope things are back on track for you latin and cyber sorry to hear but don't worry bro more fish in the sea.
 
damn, you guys had a rough day....

i don't mean to make light of the situation, but things are going pretty well for me right now..... I have sold my house, found the perfect apartment to rent while my new house is being built, and I will be working from home starting in late December. I will also have my 2 year degree complete on December 19th. (only took 10 years)... traveling with work, brief stint with the United States Marine Corps, married, divorced, travel with work again, married, baby..... took a long time, but I made it damnit....... I still got more to go for the Bachelors..... overall things are good...

I hope you guys find some peace or piece, which one will make your days better.... good luck to you guys (and girls)
 
cyberstefke said:
I'm terrible today and I was yesterday when you made this post. My girlfriend broke up with me for no good reason and this time she was really someone who had everything I needed and wanted in a girl and I consider this a very serious loss although we weren't long together, but still. I feel like I've run been over by a train.

I'm sorry to hear about that...cyber...hope everything gets better for you down the road. And I know it's hard, but like mailbox said, there are more people out there, and you will find the right person for you, maybe even when you're least expecting it...Good Luck!!
 
babysiren said:


I'm sorry to hear about that...cyber...hope everything gets better for you down the road. And I know it's hard, but like mailbox said, there are more people out there, and you will find the right person for you, maybe even when you're least expecting it...Good Luck!!

I guess that 's just the problem, I'm always expecting too much. Don't really know how not to. I always seem to suffocate girls with being to nice. Everytime I meet someone I like, I really do a lot for them. I bought her flowers, made her dinner, brought luch to her work, wrote her a nice card and so on and so on. And as a thank you, I got dumped because I am too easy. They want someone who they have to fight for and who doesn't do all those nice things out of himself. I really don't get it anymore. I always get punished for being kind and honest and giving. I really need some more experience on how a woman thinks and I need to stop being mister nice guy, cuz it has gotten me nowhere in my life, on the contrary. I am not only feeling hurt and lonely, I am also feeling lost. Now, I am very aware the sea is full of fish and I'm confident that I will find someone new, but everytime I do, I always screw up and I really need to find what it is I'm doing wrong!
 
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I would think most girls would want a guy like that. I know I sure would. But maybe you should look at this experience as what you would like and look for in a woman. I know that there are some women out there that are like that, who don't appreciate a good man when they have him right there, someone who cares so much about them, and would do anything to make them happy. I'm not saying that all women are like that. There are a lot of women who would appreciate the way you are, and would love everything you would do for them. I don't think there is anything wrong with the way you are towards women, it is how you are, and you shouldn't have to change for anyone. But I feel like you just haven't found the one person who will make you feel happy about how you are to them, and appreicate you for you. Someone who would do everything back to you that you do for them, and appreciate it. I really do wish you the best though..
 
babysiren said:
I would think most girls would want a guy like that. I know I sure would. But maybe you should look at this experience as what you would like and look for in a woman. I know that there are some women out there that are like that, who don't appreciate a good man when they have him right there, someone who cares so much about them, and would do anything to make them happy. I'm not saying that all women are like that. There are a lot of women who would appreciate the way you are, and would love everything you would do for them. I don't think there is anything wrong with the way you are towards women, it is how you are, and you shouldn't have to change for anyone. But I feel like you just haven't found the one person who will make you feel happy about how you are to them, and appreicate you for you. Someone who would do everything back to you that you do for them, and appreciate it. I really do wish you the best though..

I really needed to hear that. Thanks a lot baysiren!! You deserve a big hug!
 

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There is nothing intended by the pic off course. Just wanted to say thanks and it was the cutest I have around. Hope I haven't overdone as usual ;)
 
No...I think it's cute :) , But you're welcome, I'm glad I made you feel better. Thanks for the hug, after the day I had yesterday I needed that...Good Luck cyber..:)
 
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