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basbolstar

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• Oct 24, 2002

• #1

My gf just started working at this new job...she is always kinda moddy, but a great girl. dating over a year..says she wants to marry me in the future...but she seems to have no sex drive.. she is also taking some medication...should be worried or what?? we are both 23...what should i do u think?

 

babysiren

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• Oct 25, 2002

• #2

basbolstar said:

My gf just started working at this new job...she is always kinda moddy, but a great girl. dating over a year..says she wants to marry me in the future...but she seems to have no sex drive.. she is also taking some medication...should be worried or what?? we are both 23...what should i do u think?

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Well if you don't mind my asking, what kind of medication is she on? Maybe it's making her kinda moody, and possibly be causing her to have no sex drive..

 

MacGyver

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• Oct 25, 2002

• #3

lots a meds cause no sex drive but tons of females have that normally.

 

MacGyver

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• Oct 25, 2002

• #4

you are only 23 so don't limit your options. Plenty of time to decide who you want to spend the rest of your life with.

 

GetnBigr

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• Oct 25, 2002

• #5

take it from me, I'm 30 and my wife doesn't have much of a sex drive either (she is only 26), find someone new!!!!

lack of sex will make you moody as well, then you guys will fight all the time.

there is enough stress being married anyway, no need to get married to someone you already know doesn't want sex very often......

 

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basbolstar

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• Oct 25, 2002

• #6

well the thing is we used to have sex all the time....but now we only see each other a few times a week. so she just likes to relax, with work and all....so i dunno.... but thanks for the input guys...

 

BStrongBwell*

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• Oct 25, 2002

• #7

a busy lifestyle is a sex-drive killer! Find a girl that can either have the drive through the busy lifestyle, or one that knows to slow down and enjoy the sex along the way!

 

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LUV2LFT

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• Oct 25, 2002

• #8

Whatever the cause, at 23, you have A LOT of time left to decide.
I have gone both routes myself. Great sex, but no relationship or trust, or much of anything else... and then, great everything else, and NO sex at all practically because of incompatibility... I'd say you need to find the right balance of both. "forever" is a VERY long time, believe me!! Get out there, and take your time.. you have lot's of it!

 

superman1975

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• Oct 25, 2002

• #9

dumb the bitch--chicks fuck with your hwad

 

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basbolstar

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• Oct 26, 2002

• #10

well guys i saw her tonight, we watched a movie..we did hav sex 1...i got her inot it, but thats it..we then got inot a fight....i called her selfish(lol), cause my sister came home and was talking to us, so she just decides to leave, sayign she was "tired" she did not take it too well, oh well.....let me know whatu guys think????

 

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basbolstar

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• Oct 26, 2002

• #11

thANKS FOR THE INPUT GUYS

 

GetnBigr

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• Oct 30, 2002

• #12

don't call her anymore; make her do all the work in the relationship and she will either learn a lesson or be too stupid to realize what she did, in which case you get rid of her totally.