cybersteffan
New member
Well I’d thought I’d post my share of relational problems…
Strange situation really and don’t know what to do or how to feel. I broke up with a girl after a couple of months at the beginning of this year. Main reason was she was under a lot stress and always took it out on me. She always bit of my nose and yelled at me for no good reason at all. So in the end it got to much for me and I broke up with her.
At the beginning of last week, she al of a sudden came online at MSN Messenger after more than half a year. She started apologising for the way she behaved back then and said she was truly sorry and that she realised now that she ruined everything herself.
She went on for a few evenings in a row and out of curiosity, I eventually agreed to go for a cup of coffee with her. She was really nice and relaxed and friendly. She said she hadn’t dated since we had split up and that she still wore the ring I bought her. She even still had my picture hanging up the wall.
She really seemed changed in at lot of ways and being the sucker for affection that I am, I kissed her when I dropped her of at home. So I guess that puts us back together. But when I went to bed all of a sudden all the bad things that had happened between us started to come back and I felt very afraid. Which I guess is what I am: afraid that all is not what it seems and that she will soon be again how she was back then. I really feel uncomfortable although I have spent another evening with her on Monday and I really felt good with her. But when I’m home I always start thinking and feel uneasy.
I don’t know what to do. Deep inside she is a really nice and good person and she obviously still loves me a lot so I don’t want to hurt her. I would really hate it to brake up with her in a few weeks, but if I don’t give it some time, how will I know she really changed?
Strange situation really and don’t know what to do or how to feel. I broke up with a girl after a couple of months at the beginning of this year. Main reason was she was under a lot stress and always took it out on me. She always bit of my nose and yelled at me for no good reason at all. So in the end it got to much for me and I broke up with her.
At the beginning of last week, she al of a sudden came online at MSN Messenger after more than half a year. She started apologising for the way she behaved back then and said she was truly sorry and that she realised now that she ruined everything herself.
She went on for a few evenings in a row and out of curiosity, I eventually agreed to go for a cup of coffee with her. She was really nice and relaxed and friendly. She said she hadn’t dated since we had split up and that she still wore the ring I bought her. She even still had my picture hanging up the wall.
She really seemed changed in at lot of ways and being the sucker for affection that I am, I kissed her when I dropped her of at home. So I guess that puts us back together. But when I went to bed all of a sudden all the bad things that had happened between us started to come back and I felt very afraid. Which I guess is what I am: afraid that all is not what it seems and that she will soon be again how she was back then. I really feel uncomfortable although I have spent another evening with her on Monday and I really felt good with her. But when I’m home I always start thinking and feel uneasy.
I don’t know what to do. Deep inside she is a really nice and good person and she obviously still loves me a lot so I don’t want to hurt her. I would really hate it to brake up with her in a few weeks, but if I don’t give it some time, how will I know she really changed?