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matarazzojr
03-05-2003, 04:53 AM
i was just reading 92stangmans thread about his girl. i feel for you bro. i've just been jerked around by a girl who i liked so much. the hard thing i can't get over is that we were friends and i wanted to stay that way but she wanted more. after some intense dates(which were so good) she just says we should go back to friends .

anyway what i want to know is how can i go about this without it affecting me negatively, like working out and eating right. what should i do with my anger/hurt? block it or use it?

viper10139
03-05-2003, 10:49 AM
bro If I were u...I am sure u read my reply to him, dude take that anger to the gym..and bust your a$$ int there...and focus 110% you.....and only you....train hard to make yourself better bro!!

Badgermoon
03-05-2003, 11:01 AM
I am amazed a little by the number of guys that go through this shit. Myself included. (married a long lost love who got bored in 2 years and divorced me) I am beginning to think they treat men like chocolates, take a big bite, and then put it back in the box, to be tasted again later, or just left alone. Sometimes I think the hardest substance known to man is a woman's heart. They'll rip your heart out like a storm trooper, and then complain about the mess it leaves. All the while putting on like they are so defenseless and tender. What really escapes me, is that I am right back in the chute with the rest of the cattle, heading for the kill floor once again. :eek: I guess that in the end, all we can do is take pleasure in the knowledge that we got to f*ck them. And I don't mean that in a bad way.

dedprez*
03-05-2003, 11:32 AM
you know...it goes both ways tho....many men go thru women like they are candy with no regards to the womans feelings..but with how emotional woman are you would think that the number would be somewhat less

matarazzojr
03-06-2003, 12:20 AM
well what do you know, she wants more again. i told her best friend that i'd pick her up from this party on friday and all of a sudden shes keen! damn, i don't know what i'm gonna do.
thanks for all your help bros, the experience has changed me and now i am going hard in everything, not just workouts.

has anyone noticed that the females have the upper hand when your younger (like 16-26) then after that the males get it. the women lose their looks and men become more "handsome" and desirable. it may have to do with money as well. thats my theory, and i hope it works cos i'm 21!

hey badger, that's heavy man.keep your head up. hopefully i'm learning my lessons now.you'll like my theory too!

Max-HC
03-06-2003, 12:29 AM
Women are crazery than shit these days.
I been thur it to had my heart ripped out
stepped on and shit on.I craped my pants like a frekin baby over
it You will over come it, it takes time stay busy workout stay on track,erase anything that reminds you of her.it worked for me.
Good luck...

Nitrous Oxide
03-06-2003, 02:10 AM
Sometimes its just better to lay off and fuck everything in front of you ( of course I mean females "no animals" :D ) ! I think, the reason many males.. have problems with their girlfriends is because many males don't live the good life (including myself).
When you fidn the girl..and you starting to like her..then the word like becomes love. And then you're in love with the girl..BUT what girls love to do..is go through life..meet different guys until they are 100% sure they found the right one..to us..every single female is the right one.. and if I was single.. I would find the worst reputable girl in the world..what I mean by this is a girl who is a total BITCH. who fucked with so many guys..went thru alot in her life..will respect you the most..if you go down with a virgin girl or some college down to earth chick most likely you'll get screwed..

Zeca
03-06-2003, 07:44 AM
Women are the most complicated living creature, but thatīs what man say....... in the otherhand women say that man just think in one thing...sex! Strange game isnīt???

dreww
03-06-2003, 10:10 PM
i've learned to take everything with a grain of salt, except my training.

The way I see it is lifting is the one thing I always got and no one can take it. You start caring about the relationship more than lifting and then when you dumped, you are back to what? all that time wasted when you could have bee focused and making gains.

I now always take my lifting serious and put a relationship on the back burner.
Im actually with someone now and she hate me going to the gym all the time. She puts up with it cause she's in love with me. Gee, that will last how long? Maybe a few months and maybe a few years but granted, she will fuck me over and move on.

Just get used to that. My training is the only thing I am faithful to anymore.

madchemist36
03-06-2003, 10:27 PM
i feel u too man. if u remember. i had the same prob a while back ago. but u'll get over it just focus on your self.

Amrcn1977
03-07-2003, 12:15 PM
use your anger in the gym. Almost the same thing happened to me and used my aggression and youll be surprised how much weight you can do with all those endorphines pumping through your head!

Saks
03-08-2003, 01:23 AM
I'll tell you what, either get a real sewer rat who has never had anything nice in her life. Or you could get a "good" girl and sock her one the first time she gives lip. Then she will either leave or stay and never think about disrespecting you again. Of course never let my wife hear that one, cause I'd never do that. I'm whipped!

matarazzojr
03-09-2003, 02:22 AM
yeah thanks bros. it's sounds bad but it's good to know i'm not the only one to go thru this. well we're starting again as friends and this time i'm calling the shots and i will not be taking it too seriously. training truly is the only thing in life that is worth dedicating yourself too an i'm real glad i have discovered that.

i was in the city yesterday and i see alot of guys walking around in expensive fashion labels, and they're just skinny guys that have no idea that you can benifit physically from training. i was wondering to myself that "what would these guys do if they have girl troubles?" they would prob go buy some more expensive clothes and think they have improved. well i believe you haven't truly improved yourself until until you bench press until you your arms are like jello or you've just forced down another protein shake before you go to bed or been dedicated enough to miss a party for your scheduled arm session. so in a way we're the luckiest guys on earth.