What's a good way to win a woman from her douchebag boyfriend?

Well, I've been having a rough time since my last break up and last night I was on the computer when a girl stopped by my house and I didn't know who it was at first. I went outside to see it was one of my ex's and damn, she looks good! The whole time I was talking to her, she had her cleavage right in my face! I couldn't help but NOT to look but didn't want to make it obvious since her friend was in the driver side.

We've talked some online and her boyfriend is a little bitch. He's always caling her a whore, bitch, ass, saying that she's not the better one in the relationship, blah, blah, blah. He's implanted in her head that she cannot do better and she deserves a hell of a lot better than that assbag.

The boyfriend already hates me and one of my co-workers that knows the guy said he's a "tough and crazy SOB" but I'm not worried about him. The guy's a pos for treating a girl like that. I honestly think that maybe she's scared of the dude that if they break up, he'll go after her. I already asked her about that and she said that's not the case and she realizes that she wants better but says that she maybe cannot.

Anyone been in this situation before? We had an off-and-on thing all through high school so I know once we started to hang out, things would click just like before.

Any ideas, bros?

Been through it. The best way is to be the bigger and better man. He treats her like shit, you treat her like a god. Keep talking to her about how her boyfriend is a jerk and how she deserves better. Remind her of the good times you had and how you miss them. She'll come around, trust me.

That's what I'd do too. Just give her time and keep reminding her of how you feel about her and treat her that way. Good luck, hope things work out for ya.

Any guy that speaks that way to someone about whom he supposedly cares has insecurity issues he's trying to boost by making someone else feel lower than he is......he's trying to give off the tough guy image so no one'll call his bluff. Punk his ass down, he'll melt through the grating in the floor. As for the girl? I'd be careful about messing with someone who would allow another to treat her that way. I'd want someone with a strong enough mind to know when to walk away from some asshole.......

We'll, I've come to find that women who put up with all that crap like it. Well maybe not like it, but can't get away from it. There's nothing you can do to make her change her mind, she's got to do that on her own. Nice guys finish last bro.

yeah, man. Also be careful of being the shoulder for her to cry on. That kind of leads to her putting you in the "friend" category, which is hard to break out of.

Personally, it is my opinion that ALL girls have boyfriends... and if you want a girl, you need to "be the wedge."

Basically, you can be nice and romantic... and get down her pants. Then she'll see she has another option...

COntinue to be a nice guy... and then let her know she has to make a choice. If she choose you, cool. Have fun with it. If not, don't sweat it, just go find another.

Good luck, either way.

-j69

do you really want this kind of drama in your life?? ask yourself that before you decide anything

i am going through a similar situation with my current thing---her ex is a nut job and we have even seen him driving around my place to see if she is there--it has gotten so bad that i now pic her up every time she wants to come over----and just so you know i took her from him---all it took was being super nice to her and treat her better then any guy has treated her

Superman1975 makes a great point.

wow bro..take it easy man..we talk all the time..so u know my thoughts..I say go after her..but that's just me man....she is so into you...In my opinon oh well man take care and just keep being there for her and keep talking to her...she will eventually figure it out....and if she doesn't then it will be her loss...

Tell her that midwtchamp says, "ditch the zero and get the hero!"
Actually you all have heard my drama well my current lady I kinda stole her from another man and I did as someone said treated her better than any person could imagine treating her! Her ex did wait around and follow her and shit, but he got over that real quick when I had a talk w/him...so life is good and good luck bro!

money is the sure fire way to get her back,lol, if ya aint got it, borrow it, if ya cant borrow it steal it,lol, if ya cant steal it ...uhhh well your shit out of luck, yeah thats it,lol

Ah, Presser, you're so nice for letting me borrow YOUR dough

Can you lend me, say, a couple hundred?