I messed up!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I don't normally post these things but here it is:


Here's the skinny,

I've had this girlfriend for 2+ years and I was friends with her a year before. We'll just call her "Girtrude."

I have a lot of respect for this girl, she's been through so much with me. She's done a lot for me. That's where my problem comes into play...

She told me that if I was ever going to cheat on her I better just break up with her first. I have so much respect for her, this is what I did. You see...

This girl at my work has been flirting with me for a long time. The way that she was flirting with me I knew she wanted to hook up. I guess I just wanted it...so I told my girlfriend EVERYTHING. She made me break up with her and I did. I was a terrible night, all that crying - even SHE let out a tear. So get this.........

I go into work the next day and see what advances this girl is prepared to make. I take her out to lunch and I get the, "Well you're cool, just not my type though...thanks for lunch, it's real tasty."

So how do I get my girlfriend back?

Damn...WTF did I do???

The grass is always greener. The other girl led you on that sucks. Give your ex a little time, it'll be tough.

Kiss a whole lotta ass my brudda, Start with the I miss you, I don't know what I was thinking, I never went thru with anything with girl # 2 cuz I can't get you off my mind, etc etc. Flowers the whole bit. But she'll probably see thru it and toss you to the curb, not a very well thought out plan bro. You can try maybe she'll buy it. Good luck

Tell her, you thought u wanted to leave, but u tested the waters, and really didnt like what happend

yeah, just tell her that you cant see yourself with the other one and that you miss your ex

You are in some very deep kim-shee my friend. I hope you get it turned around.

Let us know how you make out

you should of followed through with girl # 2 before telling your girlfriend. If something came out of #2 then you could've broke up with your girlfriend.

I wish we could all give you something to hang your hat on but this one is tough. Grovel?

damn sorry bro..to hear that...If u really want your girl back, u better make her realize how dumb you were..no offense bro..but you have to make her understand that you need her in your life in order for it to be complete, have to be mushy and stuff bro....write her a poem and send it to her....tell her you have been thinking about her and can't get her off your mind..they like stuff like that...it's going to be tough bro..but keep your head up and if u need anything PM me...

Thanks guys for the support.

I agree with gymrat completely, I should have followed through with the other girl.

I tried to explain it as a joke but that didn't work one bit.
I'll try the other stuff, actually they're very good ideas. Now I just wish I wouldn't have explained it as a foul joke that went terribly wrong. I seem to be digging myself a very deep hole...

If things don't work out it's all good. I'm only 21 and I have plenty of time ahead to meet new femes. In a way, maybe it's good...I've been thinking for a while now, "is this it - bunked down with the same braud since I was 18?" In a way, I don't want to look back on my life with all of the "should've" crap.

Also, if things don't work out with "Girtrude," there is another girl at work that's been digging me for a while. She's not as hot as the other girl, but maybe she's a better person. What am I saying!!?? I want the hot girl!!! *crying to myself for a while*

SOL

If you are still thinking of stepping out on this girl, you don't sound like you wouldn't do it again. Maybe you need to move on and play the field for a while.

You broke up with "Girtrude" cuz you wanted to play. You might as well play. You've been with her since you were 18... you do actually need to test some waters. Maybe you'll lose the chance to be with her, but maybe you'll find something better.

Shit, man... seems to me you just need to go get laid a bunch. Might want to avoid the girls at work tho... that usually turns out messy.

well, good luck, however you decide to handle it.

-j69

good luck bro....keep us updated....

I'm still trying with Girtrude, but I think it's over.

Relationships at work do usually end up messy, and I will NOT seek that angle. Thank you j69 - good shit, I guess I just needed to hear that again.

I'm going out tonight but the problem is, I'm in mid-cycle and I refuse to drink. Bars aren't any fun at all unless you're drunk. I don't know...

I'll check in with you guys later, thanks again for the help.

Bumpin' it up for Morgan