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trapattack369
05-10-2003, 05:36 AM
phuck get this, i went out to the club tonight with my wife and some friends who i havent seen for 2 years. anyways we were out and i told my wife to dance with my boy cause they both dance good and i dont have any probs with it. so while my wife was dancing with him a girl i've known since she was 10 and just a friend came up to me and asked if i wanted to dance i said sure, well my wife was sitting there watching me and didnt really like it and flipped out. now she's talking about a divorce and all that crazy shit cause she feels like i cheated on her. i dont know what the point to all this is but i guess i just need some help because i love her and dont wannna lose her over some stooopid shiat like this.

Zeca
05-10-2003, 06:05 AM
Talk to her bro....... strange reaction from your wife, you were just dancing and having fun right? Explain that it was just a friend that you know for a long time and she will understand that youŽll see.
Good luck

scorpio
05-10-2003, 07:59 AM
Heh, been there. Let her settle down, and explain how long you've known her. Were you guys drinking? Before I quit drinking hardcore we had some crazy fights over bullshit. Hope it works out for you bro.

Badgermoon
05-10-2003, 08:39 AM
? She was dancing with a friend, and you were dancing with a friend... but she got pissed...?

dedprez*
05-10-2003, 09:50 AM
bro hate to say it but if this is ALL that happened then your wife is a bitch and has issues and u guys probably were not meant to be together very much longer......dancing is grounds for divorce :rolleyes:

footballcat
05-10-2003, 10:25 AM
Sit her down and tell her, we were just dancing. I didnt fuck her, i didnt cheat on you. So what did i do wrong?---nothing

trapattack369
05-10-2003, 12:25 PM
well its morning now and yea im still phucked, ok i'll be honest so you can get a good vibe on the situation. first my wife is Turkish and they tend to be really passionite and emotional. and i was dancing a little freaky with my friend last night but i really didnt have any sexual intentions with her she's kinda like my little sister. yeah we were drinking and i think thats were the jealousy or whatever came from. with her im gonna have to just let her settle down maybe for 3 or 4 days but the shit she's saying like she's never gonna trust my again blah blah blah is what im really worried about

trapattack369
05-10-2003, 01:01 PM
ok its 20 min later and no real change to current situation, im still so phucked. man im going crazy i hate the silence. wheres everyone at.

rugbythug
05-10-2003, 01:59 PM
sorry bro-there are no real good answers for this. Have you guys had sex lately? If not now might be a good time.

jaywooly
05-10-2003, 09:46 PM
You may need to beat the truth into her. Sometimes women just need a good beating every once in a while IMHO.

jaywooly
05-10-2003, 09:47 PM
Though I don't beat women, I can still think this way, right?

gymrat
05-10-2003, 10:23 PM
Originally posted by jaywooly
You may need to beat the truth into her. Sometimes women just need a good beating every once in a while IMHO.

that was not a cool bro. some of the girls on this board, are not gonna like to read that.

jaywooly
05-10-2003, 10:33 PM
If you read my following post it explains everything. I don't give a shit what they think anyway.

gymrat
05-10-2003, 10:35 PM
what such harsh feelings bro?

huntergatherer
05-10-2003, 10:35 PM
get down and eat dat pussy for an hour and she'll forgive you. works for me every time. a good message wouldn't hurt either.

jaywooly
05-10-2003, 10:43 PM
Originally posted by gymrat
what such harsh feelings bro?

Why such harsh feelings?

If your speaking of my "mater-of-fact" reply, please forgive me. I had no intentions on speaking to you or anyone in that manner. I just was speaking the truth, I don't care what any female thinks about "jaywooly."

Hard feelings about beating women? I don't know, in a way I did not mean it. You can see that from my follow-up post, I AM NO WOMEN BEATER. I just think this trip that his wife is putting on him is totally fucked IMO.

Sometimes you cant tell someone's tone from the way they type, so excuse me for that too.

Maybe I should have put, "you just need to slap her around a few times, works for me. J/K lol" and put a disclamer.

No disrespect to the women, I love the puss - lol.

bigshug
05-11-2003, 01:29 AM
I'm thinking you were dancing REALLY freaky with this other chick and that's why your wife got so pissed.....if I saw some fucker with my wife grinding away I would (1)fuck him up in front of everyone for disrespecting me and (2) leave my wife there to find her own way home........on the other hand if it was innocent like you say, your wife may just be looking for an excuse to drop the divorce bomb on you...just my two cents worth

dedprez*
05-11-2003, 02:24 PM
jaywooly u need to cool it bro

jaywooly
05-12-2003, 08:00 PM
Sorry again.

Sachet
05-12-2003, 09:03 PM
Originally posted by trapattack369
well its morning now and yea im still phucked, ok i'll be honest so you can get a good vibe on the situation. first my wife is Turkish and they tend to be really passionite and emotional. and i was dancing a little freaky with my friend last night but i really didnt have any sexual intentions with her she's kinda like my little sister. yeah we were drinking and i think thats were the jealousy or whatever came from. with her im gonna have to just let her settle down maybe for 3 or 4 days but the shit she's saying like she's never gonna trust my again blah blah blah is what im really worried about


Gotta luv a woman with spunk! :D
Your wife is turkish & sees you dancing 'freaky' with an American girl after you told her to dance with your friend..
I think you're doing the right thing by letting her settle down for a few days.. *lol*
I dunno, how would you feel if she didn't get jealous?
As far as her saying that she's never gonna trust you again blah blah blah.. that's just the hurt talking ;)
If you've been faithful all this time, she knows she doesn't have anything to worry about.. but, she does have the right to be a lil angry that your 'friend' was a real woman and able to get you to dance freaky in front of her.
She just has the 'I feel like second class' blues.

Sachet
05-12-2003, 09:05 PM
Originally posted by jaywooly
If you read my following post it explains everything. I don't give a shit what they think anyway.

That's a shame, jay.
*shrugs*
If I didn't give a shit about what the people here thought, I wouldn't waste my time on this site ;)

Badgermoon
05-13-2003, 08:31 AM
I think Sachet hit it on the head. She wants to be the one that makes you want to get freaky, not witness it right in front of her. IMO, that's your wife. You owe her a little extra consideration than another person warrants. Doesn't neccesarily have to make sense to you, but her feelings should carry a little extra weight just because of who she is.
Of course you should remember that this opinion is comming from someone with 2 marriages behind him. LOL

BLEED GREEN
05-13-2003, 08:41 AM
Quick question trap-Is this the 1st time something like this has occured between the 2 of you?

Choke03
05-13-2003, 12:00 PM
Poor guy, I hate Dramma. Hope it works out for you bro.

Sachet
05-16-2003, 09:02 AM
Has anyone heard from trap lately? :p
I hope she didn't smoke him.

Incrediblebulk
05-16-2003, 09:24 AM
First, bring her home some flowers and then go down on her for an hour.

Ok, and when she trys to drag you down into that Im pissed at you mode sort of ignore it and tell her you love her and call her from work with short conversations telling her you love her.

I'd try this strategy for a few days. If the bad mood persists abandon strategy because she will thoink you are ignoring her. Even though you were only ignoring her bad mood.

Why do this, because like a child wanting attention for a scraped knee or something she may if this persists try to milk this for more then its worth. A few days is more then enough time to be upset!

PS lol when you chimed in ok its 20 minutes later and the situation is still phucked.

Glad you havent checked in evey 20 minutes.