im so phucked

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trapattack369

New member

• May 10, 2003

• #1

phuck get this, i went out to the club tonight with my wife and some friends who i havent seen for 2 years. anyways we were out and i told my wife to dance with my boy cause they both dance good and i dont have any probs with it. so while my wife was dancing with him a girl i've known since she was 10 and just a friend came up to me and asked if i wanted to dance i said sure, well my wife was sitting there watching me and didnt really like it and flipped out. now she's talking about a divorce and all that crazy shit cause she feels like i cheated on her. i dont know what the point to all this is but i guess i just need some help because i love her and dont wannna lose her over some stooopid shiat like this.

 

Zeca

New member

• May 10, 2003

• #2

Talk to her bro....... strange reaction from your wife, you were just dancing and having fun right? Explain that it was just a friend that you know for a long time and she will understand that you´ll see.
Good luck

 

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scorpio

Guest

• May 10, 2003

• #3

Heh, been there. Let her settle down, and explain how long you've known her. Were you guys drinking? Before I quit drinking hardcore we had some crazy fights over bullshit. Hope it works out for you bro.

 

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Badgermoon

Guest

• May 10, 2003

• #4

? She was dancing with a friend, and you were dancing with a friend... but she got pissed...?

 

dedprez*

New member

• May 10, 2003

• #5

bro hate to say it but if this is ALL that happened then your wife is a bitch and has issues and u guys probably were not meant to be together very much longer......dancing is grounds for divorce

 

footballcat

Hardly a Newbie

• May 10, 2003

• #6

Sit her down and tell her, we were just dancing. I didnt fuck her, i didnt cheat on you. So what did i do wrong?---nothing

 

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trapattack369

New member

• May 10, 2003

• #7

well its morning now and yea im still phucked, ok i'll be honest so you can get a good vibe on the situation. first my wife is Turkish and they tend to be really passionite and emotional. and i was dancing a little freaky with my friend last night but i really didnt have any sexual intentions with her she's kinda like my little sister. yeah we were drinking and i think thats were the jealousy or whatever came from. with her im gonna have to just let her settle down maybe for 3 or 4 days but the shit she's saying like she's never gonna trust my again blah blah blah is what im really worried about

 

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trapattack369

New member

• May 10, 2003

• #8

ok its 20 min later and no real change to current situation, im still so phucked. man im going crazy i hate the silence. wheres everyone at.

 

rugbythug

New member

• May 10, 2003

• #9

sorry bro-there are no real good answers for this. Have you guys had sex lately? If not now might be a good time.

 

jaywooly

Guru

• May 10, 2003

• #10

You may need to beat the truth into her. Sometimes women just need a good beating every once in a while IMHO.

 

jaywooly

Guru

• May 10, 2003

• #11

Though I don't beat women, I can still think this way, right?

 

gymrat

New member

• May 10, 2003

• #12

jaywooly said:

You may need to beat the truth into her. Sometimes women just need a good beating every once in a while IMHO.

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that was not a cool bro. some of the girls on this board, are not gonna like to read that.

 

jaywooly

Guru

• May 10, 2003

• #13

If you read my following post it explains everything. I don't give a shit what they think anyway.

 

gymrat

New member

• May 10, 2003

• #14

what such harsh feelings bro?

 

huntergatherer

New member

• May 10, 2003

• #15

get down and eat dat pussy for an hour and she'll forgive you. works for me every time. a good message wouldn't hurt either.

 

jaywooly

Guru

• May 10, 2003

• #16

gymrat said:

what such harsh feelings bro?

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Why such harsh feelings?

If your speaking of my "mater-of-fact" reply, please forgive me. I had no intentions on speaking to you or anyone in that manner. I just was speaking the truth, I don't care what any female thinks about "jaywooly."

Hard feelings about beating women? I don't know, in a way I did not mean it. You can see that from my follow-up post, I AM NO WOMEN BEATER. I just think this trip that his wife is putting on him is totally fucked IMO.

Sometimes you cant tell someone's tone from the way they type, so excuse me for that too.

Maybe I should have put, "you just need to slap her around a few times, works for me. J/K lol" and put a disclamer.

No disrespect to the women, I love the puss - lol.

 

bigshug

New member

• May 11, 2003

• #17

I'm thinking you were dancing REALLY freaky with this other chick and that's why your wife got so pissed.....if I saw some fucker with my wife grinding away I would (1)fuck him up in front of everyone for disrespecting me and (2) leave my wife there to find her own way home........on the other hand if it was innocent like you say, your wife may just be looking for an excuse to drop the divorce bomb on you...just my two cents worth

 

dedprez*

New member

• May 11, 2003

• #18

jaywooly u need to cool it bro

 

jaywooly

Guru

• May 12, 2003

• #19

Sorry again.

 

Sachet

New member

• May 12, 2003

• #20

trapattack369 said:

well its morning now and yea im still phucked, ok i'll be honest so you can get a good vibe on the situation. first my wife is Turkish and they tend to be really passionite and emotional. and i was dancing a little freaky with my friend last night but i really didnt have any sexual intentions with her she's kinda like my little sister. yeah we were drinking and i think thats were the jealousy or whatever came from. with her im gonna have to just let her settle down maybe for 3 or 4 days but the shit she's saying like she's never gonna trust my again blah blah blah is what im really worried about

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Gotta luv a woman with spunk!
Your wife is turkish & sees you dancing 'freaky' with an American girl after you told her to dance with your friend..
I think you're doing the right thing by letting her settle down for a few days.. *lol*
I dunno, how would you feel if she didn't get jealous?
As far as her saying that she's never gonna trust you again blah blah blah.. that's just the hurt talking
If you've been faithful all this time, she knows she doesn't have anything to worry about.. but, she does have the right to be a lil angry that your 'friend' was a real woman and able to get you to dance freaky in front of her.
She just has the 'I feel like second class' blues.