Is sex on the 1st date ok?

sugaa

New member

• May 11, 2003

• #1

Would you or did you ever have sex on the 1st date? If you did have sex on the 1st date with someone what questions went through your mind about them and did you still respect them as much as you would have if they waited a little longer to have sex with you? Did you keep them as your bf or gf for a long time or just use them for sex and didn't get emotionally involved??

 

japan69

New member

• May 12, 2003

• #2

Yes, Sex on the first date is always OK. And I am here to help you, as a woman, realize this, and spread the world to all womankind, that you should definitely be having sex on the first date.

*smile*

Actually, everytime I tried to postpone sex to make the relationship last longer, it never worked.

With my wife... I met her in a bar, and we went home about 30 minutes after meeting and started hittin it. less than 2 years later we were married.

So, it isn't necessarily bad. just go with the feelings and don't reject it just cuz it's the first time.

To be honest, as a guy.... if i like a girl, I'll want to be with her, and whether sex happens on the first date or later, wouldn't change my opinion of her one bit. In fact, I would probably dig her more if she attacked me on that first date.

anywho... that's my 2 cents.

-j69

 

UCDFuBoO

New member

• May 12, 2003

• #3

when u say sex on the first date do u mean like a 1 night stand?...


well i've banged a girl within an hour of meeting her before, and was not emotional involved at all... it was a 1 night stand... well actually a couple night stands... heheh

i kept her number just in case I got lonely 1 night... so it was a mutual understanding...

but to be honest... sex on the first date isn't that bad... I won't respect a girl any less if we do it or not... but it's really up to u... just make sure the line of communication is definitely open..

 

superman1975

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• May 12, 2003

• #4

sex on the first date is mandatory with me if you want a second date

 

dedprez*

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• May 12, 2003

• #5

the woman i am with currently gave it up on the first date and we have been together ever since...about 1.5 years now....personally i think it is the personality of the individuals that are involved that factor in most

 

BLEED GREEN

New member

• May 12, 2003

• #6

If you give it to me on the 1st date the odds of a second date drop pretty dramatically-I can pick up anyone at a club/bar for a one nighter and not have to spend the entire evening with you.

 

elemental

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• May 12, 2003

• #7

i don't have as much respect for a girl who gives it up on the first date. not saying that i would turn it down, but a second date wouldn't be happening.

 

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Incrediblebulk

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• May 12, 2003

• #8

Those that give it up right away are great, but I think it always makes the guy wonder how many other times has she met a gut and then given it up right away.Maybe never it is possible that you just clicked and boom wanted each other instantly.

Hey if the right chick gave it up to me on the first date and I liked her enough I'd stay with her too regardless of her past flings.

 

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BodyForLife

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• May 12, 2003

• #9

No

 

Sachet

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• May 12, 2003

• #10

Sex on the first date? *lol*
It wouldn't even cross my mind because I view intercourse as something only shared when deeply in love.

 

Nicole

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• May 12, 2003

• #11

superman1975 said:

sex on the first date is mandatory with me if you want a second date

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haha slut!

So you banged your girlfriend on the first date??

But by first date- Im guessing you mean the first time you go out alone with someone.. like not meeting up with them and friends at a club..

Sometimes- with the right chemistry- Id say itd be a go..

 

dedprez*

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• May 12, 2003

• #12

i guess sorry..my post was inaccurate the lady told me....we had been acquaintences along time ago and met up again...she came over to my house spent the nite for a few nites with us only "cuddling" and then when we had our true first date we HIT IT

 

shiko24

New member

• May 12, 2003

• #13

sex on the first date is ok with me as well. I would question how often she does this.? I would prolly date her if she did give it up on the first date or even if she didn't. umless I got the feeling that she was a total slut then it would just be for the sex !

sex is sex

fucking is fucking

and making love is something diffrent altogether !

you can have sex and or fuck anyone
but I would say to make love one would have to be in love !

 

jaywooly

Guru

• May 12, 2003

• #14

No sex on the first date, I'd take it most certainly but I would not want a girlfriend out of her if it happened.

 

rugbythug

New member

• May 14, 2003

• #15

How could a woman not have sex with me on the first date? Damn near impossible. But then again I am the SHIT.

 

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WeirdAl

Guest

• May 14, 2003

• #16

No kidding! Heck, you're lucky you're all the way (wherever you are), or I might be all over you just from reading this

 

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Choke03

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• May 14, 2003

• #17

Sex on 1st date = no real relationship. If I like and respect a girl I most likely wouldn't even try.

 

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scorpio

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• May 14, 2003

• #18

Choke03 said:

Sex on 1st date = no real relationship. If I like and respect a girl I most likely wouldn't even try.

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agree 100%

 

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BiggerStronger

Member

• May 15, 2003

• #19

It depends on the girl, really...

If you know the intentions are to just to have sex then leave then it's all good.

Also if you got into some deep conversations with the girl, and you both weren't really drunk then having sex on the first date and perhaps turning it into something more could be a possibility.

 

elemental

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• May 15, 2003

• #20

i agree totally w/choke