Need some help/advice please, please...

jaywooly

Guru

• Jun 6, 2003

• #1

There is this girl at my work that digs me. She is WAY hot people, damn!

Anyway, I want to pass her a note or something that will really catch her. I know she has some interest, her friends say so. I make small talk with her but she seems WAY shy.

What should I pass to her in a note? Maybe something funny, but I just don't know what.

I have no problem talking to her but it's easier for me to pass a note. Any suggestions people? What do you tell a shy girl that is interested?

Thanks people, thanks

 

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Badgermoon

Guest

• Jun 6, 2003

• #2

Tell her how you feel, that you like her and want to let her know, but don't want to freak her out by just blurting it out in the hallway (where ever). It will help a lot if you can express something about why you are interested, other than she's hot and you want to rub pee-pee's. If you are interested, and have feelings for her, it'll show. just treat her right, and have fun together. If it's meant to be, it'l work out. Sometimes these things are impossible to figure out, you just have to see where it leads.

 

poopoo

New member

• Jun 6, 2003

• #3

ah, just ask her an a date

 

Saks

New member

• Jun 6, 2003

• #4

Hit her over the head and drag her back to your cave........wait that worked a long time ago. Nevermind. Just talk to her. Hot chicks rarely get told that someone (you) has interest in them because they are so damn intimidating. Take a stab, whats the worst that can happen? she sais no?

 

bigshug

New member

• Jun 6, 2003

• #5

Seriously, bro, if you want to do something funny in terms of a note.....pass her the one you used to pass in elementary school - OK, so maybe I was the only one - you know, the one that says "I like you, do you like me? circle one.... yes.....no "

Most girls who know my sense of humor get a little kick out of it, and of course if they circle "yes" it eases the tension of you talking to her

One final note, I've never been turned down by a girl when I approach her with respect. Just be a good guy when you go to talk to her, and things'll work out

 

jaywooly

Guru

• Jun 7, 2003

• #6

Hey guys, thanks for ALL the imput. I have a feeling things might work out with this girl.

I will update you guys.

Thanks again,
jay

 

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scorpio

Guest

• Jun 7, 2003

• #7

Just ask her out to dinner. You'll have plenty of time to talk. Take chances, life's short.....

 

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Chemical Evolution

Guest

• Jun 7, 2003

• #8

Never let a good thing pass you by!

U got to go for it! Nothing ventured, nothing gained!

 

shiko24

New member

• Jun 7, 2003

• #9

I think the little note passing thing might work ! she may think it is cute and want to go out with ya

good luck bro !

 

huntergatherer

New member

• Jun 8, 2003

• #10

tell her that your girlfriend says your awesome in the sack but you want a second opinion...

 

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scorpio

Guest

• Jun 8, 2003

• #11

huntergatherer said:

tell her that your girlfriend says your awesome in the sack but you want a second opinion...

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LMAO, that put a smile on my face!

 

BLEED GREEN

New member

• Jun 9, 2003

• #12

Ask her out in person......TODAY!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

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Max-HC

New member

• Jun 9, 2003

• #13

Go 4 it..just do it...Dinners always an ice breaker...

 

jaywooly

Guru

• Jun 11, 2003

• #14

Get this fellas...

I have two pictures in my desk of my ex-girlfriend. The are INSIDE my desk. When she gave me back the note, the two pictures were in there.

I was pissed that she went through my desk but I kinda like that. It was slick on her behalf and she was trying to send a very clear and stern message. She thinks I'm still with her for some reason or another.

Should I roll on and try to explain were not together, or just leave this one alone?

 

dedprez*

New member

• Jun 11, 2003

• #15

keep after her bro

 

BLEED GREEN

New member

• Jun 11, 2003

• #16

Just her being inquisitive??

 

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Badgermoon

Guest

• Jun 11, 2003

• #17

If she wasn't interested, she wouldn't care right? Go for it.

 

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Choke03

Guest

• Jun 11, 2003

• #18

Bro You live once !! Just say hi, whats up, how is it going, busy with work?? Me I am having a good day, Just small talk bro. If it feels the convo is going right say 'Hey maybe we could hook up one night and hang out movie or something '? If she bites ask for her number, if she seems pulled back then just roll with it. It is easy bro, just be yourself. Good luck. Keep us informed how it goes.

 

auriflex

New member

• Jun 11, 2003

• #19

Why ask? Pounce upon her and overwhelm her with your wit and charm.

 

Saks

New member

• Jun 11, 2003

• #20

Like I said, Hit her over the head........any luck yet?