Relationship drabble

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BiggerStronger

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Ok...how come it seems like everytime I meet a "seemingly" nice girl something always goes wrong or they end up being something entirely different....or maybe I just don't see the true colors from the beginning?

Perhaps, I'm just not looking for the right ones. Maybe I should just stop looking. lol. You always seem to meet people when you're not trying or least expect it...

Where do I find someone that is nice, romantic, good looking, and *NOT* a nutcase??? I'm way too nice, understanding, and compassionate towards people sometimes so I have this fear of people taking advantage of me...I kinda felt like the last girl was getting the better end of the stick so to speak so I broke it off. She just wasn't right for me....and it seemed like she had her own agenda as well.

I don't know why I'm telling everyone this...lol.

Maybe I'm looking for some new doors to open. hehe.

Any takers on a 21 y/o, professional, good looking SWM???

going once
going twice
sold to the wacky bag lady in the back with a crazy eye.
 
Cuz they are all crazy bro, some just hide it better than others........and that cheating bitch...that lady with the crazy eye was my girl!
 
juggalo said:
Cuz they are all crazy bro, some just hide it better than others........and that cheating bitch...that lady with the crazy eye was my girl!
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YES! I found a good one now though. I am real happy with her.
 
us women are all MEAN! there is no getting around it :)
and you are right don't look, when you are looking you
only go for looks, not personalities which ultimatly is more
important. Good luck :)
 
Actually when I am looking I don't go for just looks...

I would prefer a girl that is good looking with a beautiful personality over some model like girl that is a jerk.
 
Timbers said:
You are still young! Play the field... have a good time (just let the girl know that you just want to have a good time, as to give them the chance to accept or decline, of course).
My advice - never marry or get serious with a girl until after age 30!
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I wish you gave me this advice before I tied the knot. But then again I didn't listen to anyone else so who's to blame?
 
homeless chics work best in these situations...like most people say if you can take a long road trip with and not want to kill them then you're good to go...so if she starts actin up drop her ass off...its not like she has a set residence. lol I know that was mean but oh well
 
Be yourself - stop overtly looking, but be ready to take hold of any situation that presents itself. Best of luck to you, and enjoy your life before you are old.
 
Well, one thing I'VE learned is that the last thing to do is to expect someone to change after you get married...if they have little idiosyncracies that you get irritated by now, once you have to live with them 24/7 it puts you on the verge of homicide.
No, not really...
But thinking "sex will come more often once we have our own house" or "she'll be in a better mood once we have a BIGGER house"...that shit's just garbage. If your girl loves you all of those things that are necessary will already be there and it should never matter what material things you have or don't have to control her happiness
 
Oh, and by the way - most people have a hidden agenda. For instance, if I (when I) find someone else she'll have a kick ass job and most likely a freakin' doctorate as I'd like to be with someone fully capable of supporting themself...not fair in this day and age to dump all of the responsibility on someone when it means he has to live paycheck to paycheck just to survive - not that I'M doing that of course
 
Funny b2see.

The best advice I could offer, if you bang a chick on the first night, why make her your girlfriend? LISTEN!!!! Sex is something you should look forward to with someone you've been getting at and are REALLY interested in for reasons othet than their looks.

Sex on the 1st night should be just that, a one night stand. Don't let those chics suck you in, they're no good.

I know you know what I mean,
Good Luck Friend.
-Jay
 
jaywooly said:
Funny b2see.

The best advice I could offer, if you bang a chick on the first night, why make her your girlfriend? LISTEN!!!! Sex is something you should look forward to with someone you've been getting at and are REALLY interested in for reasons othet than their looks.

Sex on the 1st night should be just that, a one night stand. Don't let those chics suck you in, they're no good.

I know you know what I mean,
Good Luck Friend.
-Jay
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Good advice that I should listen to...We need to go on a mission to make our selves more available seeing that we are both single now...
 
Well, it works the same way with guys. I'm 21 y/o single gal who hasnt found a "normal," decent, intelligent, and good looking guy my age yet!

I think the part about not looking IS really true though. Thats when the right person will show up (I'm hoping).

Also, I think at this age (21), a lot of girls (and guys) really dont know themselves that well. We're still just learning. And we're changing so fast that even if we do find someone that seems to "click", 6 months down the road you end up to be really different and maybe uncompatible.

But it does get...lonely. I hear ya.
 
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