3 ways

shiko24

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ok I have a question. I am trying to get my girl to have a 3 way she wants to be with a girl and is ok with the idea, BUT she see's it as sharing me with another girl. I see it as sharing the experience with each other. I just do not understand why is this such a big deal? I mean girls are ok talking about it but not doing it !
 
Asure her its her you care for,and if it happens show her most of the affection and when its over tell her you did it for her and maybe it will happen again it worked for me i had a fffm
my wife my x girlfriend and her best friend...
 
I don't blame your girlfriend because I don't share Harvey with anyone eather. He wants to have a harmonica blow job, I am fine with the idea but I don't want another girl doing that to him.
 
see this is what i am talking about why is it sharing your man with another girl ? why can not both partners share in it together !?

and to Max-HC you the man ! lmao !
 
Just let her be with another girl if she wants and you get to watch but not touch the other girl. But you can f your girl. See it all works out
 
Max-HC said:
Asure her its her you care for,and if it happens show her most of the affection and when its over tell her you did it for her and maybe it will happen again it worked for me i had a fffm
my wife my x girlfriend and her best friend...

I bow my head to you!
 
chelle said:
What if I want my man to be with another man while I watch?
Cool, huh? :D

That just ain't right. Two woman, no prob. That's sexy. Two dudes. Gross. I don't know a single girl that finds that sexy.
 
shyone said:
I am with you Chelle

If you really care for someone the thought of them even kissing someone else hurts - I don't share and never will.


I totally agree with you that is how I feel. I don't think Harvey understands that even the thought about another girl on him hurts!
 
You guys are all freaking out here. I said that just to do that too -make ya'll twist and gag :satan:

Relax, I don't find that stimulating in the least.

Back to the subject at hand - I say again, I don't share.
Why??? Monkeee hit the nail on the head:
"If you really care for someone the thought of them even kissing someone else hurts - I don't share and never will."
 
Well 1st, you need to have a strong secure relationship. My wife and I have been together 15 years, 3 years ago she realized she also likes girls. We had to set some ground rules, but bottom line is that intimacy with another person is not gender exclusive. So basically if she can be intimate with another girl I am also allowed to participate. It has worked out very well so far, I just make sure that I give her 80% of my attention so that she knows it is her I prefer.

KR
 
chelle said:
What if I want my man to be with another man while I watch?
Cool, huh? :D

LMFAO She's got a point!
Dude she is all yours would you share her with another man if she wanted reverse the situation and see how you would view it.
Remember if you share her and she shares you, then you are not solely with each other anymore, once that happens you can pretty much say goodbye to the respect and trust issue.
Some people can do that but whats mine is mine unless she chooses to change all that, then she is everybody's from there on out. Commitment and communication with an open mind will give you the most incredible love life. Try toys, or whatever. You can always imagine thats its going on while your haveing sex, fantasies are better when they dont hurt anyone!
 
strider said:
LMFAO She's got a point!
Dude she is all yours would you share her with another man if she wanted reverse the situation and see how you would view it.
Remember if you share her and she shares you, then you are not solely with each other anymore, once that happens you can pretty much say goodbye to the respect and trust issue.
Some people can do that but whats mine is mine unless she chooses to change all that, then she is everybody's from there on out. Commitment and communication with an open mind will give you the most incredible love life. Try toys, or whatever. You can always imagine thats its going on while your haveing sex, fantasies are better when they dont hurt anyone!

I like this man ;) :thumbsup:
 
I got my ex to have a couple of fourway & threeway hookups with her sororities sisters. It was fun!:satan:

You just have to know how to talk to them. Well the fact that they are in college and are party animals did help.
 
Max-HC said:
Asure her its her you care for,and if it happens show her most of the affection and when its over tell her you did it for her and maybe it will happen again it worked for me i had a fffm
my wife my x girlfriend and her best friend...
:thumbsup:
 
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