Advice for a concerend Mother

We have a boy in the neighborhood who is 12. He has 2 little sisters that my 10 year old daughter plays with. Anyway, this boy comes around alot and has tried to choke my daughter and has threatened my son he is going to kill him. (my son is 6 btw). I put a stop to him coming to our house. He is a bad influence on my son. This boy has tried to get my son to steal the neighbors baby. Then the little baby was at the screen door so, this mean boy goes and opens the door so the baby falls out, then he takes off running. Leaving my son standing there looking guilty. Anyway, I've seen this boy cus out his father and punch him. He cusses at my kids and threatens them. He has even told my kids he is gonna kill me. I'm not scared of the bastard, but I'm scared of what he may do to one of my kids. He is not allowed at our house anymore, but he still stands in the street and yells and cusses and threatens my kids. What should I do? Do I need to get the police involved. And would they even do anything since he's 12. This kid is phsyco. And he is the type that would probably commet a school shooting. Myself and another neighbor lady have talked to the grandmother about this situation with our children and all grandma would say is "words never hurt no one". I think she is just as nuts as the boy. What should I do. I really am scared that this boy may hurt one of my kids. Then, I'll snap and end up hurting this boy.

well its pretty simple, you have one of two choices

1 handle it like me, beat his ass in the street lay him over your knee and do what his dad should do. If his dad takes exception, beat his ass too.

2. make it legal, i.e. catch him in the wrong punish him (wont work but its what everyone else will say) it will just send him to a plcae where he will be taught worse behaviour

Bad situation but you MUST bring in the authorities. Call your local police dept (non emergency #) as to speek to their Juvenille officer/detective. Ask that you may have some of his time when it is conveinient to him to address some of your concerns. He will most likely come to your home within a few hours. Sit with him and calmly explain all of your concerns and tell him you just feel more confortable letting the authority's know before there is a huge problam and god forbid a child gets hurt. I would make the call immediately. Hope this helps.

I've already told my husband that if he even lays a finger on one of my kids...I will beat his ass myself. Except I don't think it would be pretty. I'm afraid I would beat him bloody. That would not be good thing. I would end up being the one in jail.

bigPresser isnt a pleasant looking fellow have him put the fear of god in the little fucker for you

pudgy said:

bigPresser isnt a pleasant looking fellow have him put the fear of god in the little fucker for you

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Bigpresser is a calmer person than I am. The kid would be more scared of my physco ass then BP's! LOL

personally i don't know what i would da done i would prbably have beaten the little prick then denyed it and got someone to lie about where i was but i don't advise this i used to handle kids like him when i taught kicboxing at my local Y and volence only makes en worse ,i think choke had the best idea among us for you to call your local law enfocement .
Don't end up in jail the board wouln't be the same

Follow your instincts on this one, Petite. A womens intuitions, not to mention a mothers (which is even more powerful) will not lie.

My son is 6 and if anyone tried to hurt either one of my kids, I'd let lose on them. I'd probably end up in jail on battery charges Still, nobody messes with my babies. "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned."

I'd file a report so that it is documented. Watch your kids carefully, even more so. Keep them away from that punk.

chelle said:

Follow your instincts on this one, Petite. A womens intuitions, not to mention a mothers (which is even more powerful) will not lie.

My son is 6 and if anyone tried to hurt either one of my kids, I'd let lose on them. I'd probably end up in jail on battery charges Still, nobody messes with my babies. "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned."

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That is exactly how I feel about this. He better not dare lay a finger on one of my kids. People have no idea the rage of a mother when one of her kids has been hurt. I know I would snap. I would end up really hurting this boy. I will call my local authorities and see what they say. But, if they don't do anything about it and the boy hurts one of my kids.......I may end up in jail myself. I won't be able to control my rage. Those are my babies. They are my life.....you hurt one of my kids....you hurt me. :angry:

pretty obvious from Grandma's reaction what your dealing with .... Gotta bring in the Authorities ,., so they can at least start the paper trail .. and you have it on record that there is a complaint on the Kid.... but as a Mom I am sure you know ,, whatever it takes to keep your kids safe .. there is no off limits when it comes to that !!

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pretty obvious from Grandma's reaction what your dealing with .... Gotta bring in the Authorities ,., so they can at least start the paper trail .. and you have it on record that there is a complaint on the Kid.... but as a Mom I am sure you know ,, whatever it takes to keep your kids safe .. there is no off limits when it comes to that !!

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I know thats the problem with this kid. He is not disciplened. Hell, he beats on his father. I may be little, but I'll be damned if one of my kids is gonna walk all over me. This kid is bigger than me....maybe I'll say he was trying to hurt me so I defended myself. LOL After all he has threatened to kill me also.

Video tape the little dick a few times doing his shennagins and then take it to your local police.

I think the only avenue is this. Kidnap the child, put him in a burlap sack, and hang him from a tree in the woods for a day or 10. When he is nice and weak - then you sell him to some loving parents on the black market. You make money, the new parents have a 'child', and the brat is removed from your hood.

Auriflex hath spoketh.

I mean spoken.

auriflex said:

I think the only avenue is this. Kidnap the child, put him in a burlap sack, and hang him from a tree in the woods for a day or 10. When he is nice and weak - then you sell him to some loving parents on the black market. You make money, the new parents have a 'child', and the brat is removed from your hood.

Auriflex hath spoketh.

I mean spoken.

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Thanks Auri! You gave me a good laugh out of this!!

green is right, video tape him, when he sees you taping him he will more than likely at like a bigger asshole on tape. show this to the police or juvie. if you can find the right person in govt, you can get something done.

I agree with Bleed Green on this, proof and the athorities.
dont do anything were you get in trouble over this little POS.

As several others have commented, you need to get this reported to at least have the problem documented. This way even if the police can do nothing at this time, there is record of a complaint and will make for a stronger case if (god forbid) something does happen to anyone.

KR

Sounds like this kid has been at it for a while. Get the police involved and Social Services won't be to far behind them.

if you have proff and you blow on the little bastard it would help your case a lot .

Do both

Follow Choke's advice and ask to talk with the juvenile officer/detective about your concerns. Then the next time something happens that is or could be illegal or dangerous call the police and report it. Tell the responding officer that you have spoken to the detective and ask for a copy of the compliant/report to be reffered to him.

It may be that they already have a file on the boy and that social services is already involved. If you go about this factually - just report what you see, you will either help their efforts or get them rolling on dealing with the situation.

You joke about him making threats towards you, but that really is something to report and have documented. If you ever had to take any physical action, it would certainly help your case as far as explaining that you were worried that the kid might hurt you or your kids.

These are not good situations, but unfortunately there are lots of kids like this and disfunctional family's in every community.