I want advice on a Women

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alpineslide

New member

• Nov 1, 2003

• #1

I met this Women. She's got a great personality and she is absolutely adorable. She even likes me, which is a definate plus.....and hard to find, lol.

Here's the problem. I workout a lot and try to stay in shape like everyone else here on this site. She doesn't and really doesn't seem to have much interest in it even though she used to workout when she was younger ( She's 30 right now ). To be honest I'd like for her to drop a few pounds and get into shape.

Is there a polite way to tell her this. I don't want to be insulting, but I really don't think a relationship will last with her if a healthy lifestyle is not something that we have in common.

 

chelle

New member

• Nov 1, 2003

• #2

Don't tell her that! Just get her doing something fun - go walking with her, do something active together , but don't tell her you'd like for her to start working out to shed a few pounds. Unless you want to run her off.

This is hard b/c training and being fit is a high priority and it's hard for me to understand why a woman would not be into it.

hmmm...this is a hard one....

 

learner202

Banana

• Nov 1, 2003

• #3

I told my gf that she is hot, but needs to start going to the gym because she needs to loose about 10 lbs. I work in this industry and I find nothing wrong with being very very blunt. If she is secure she will not get mad bro.

 

chelle

New member

• Nov 1, 2003

• #4

That will make her feel insecure and crushed. Not good, unless you've been together or are married, and still it's a risk.

Just get her active doing something fun together.
Say how you like a certain outfit and it's one of those cute tiny numbers - size 4/6. I love being able to wear anything I want to.
I don't know.... find a way to motivate her.

 

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alpineslide

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• Nov 1, 2003

• #5

She needs to lose about 10 pounds. That doesn't seem like much, but she's 4'9". 10 pounds on a 4'9" frame is noticeable.

Like I said earlier....She's adorable. Long blonde hair, beautiful blue eyes. If she loses 10 pounds she'll be incredibly hot.

 

learner202

Banana

• Nov 1, 2003

• #6

I will always tell a girl just what is the truth. All girls do not take it good though man. It is up to you wether you would lie to her or just be straight up.

 

chelle

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• Nov 1, 2003

• #7

Being truthful is good but being tactful about it is even better.

 

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alpineslide

New member

• Nov 1, 2003

• #8

^^^ exactly....I'm trying to figure out how to do that.

Would it be a bad thing to strategically place slimfast and hydroxycut all over the house ?

 

chelle

New member

• Nov 1, 2003

• #9

No - buy her the current issue of Oxygen Magazine or Muscle and Fitness Hers.
Just say you thought she'd enjoy reading (from a womens view) about the things that interest you - your healthy life style, lifting...

 

radical_P

New member

• Nov 1, 2003

• #10

LMFAO at this thread. Tactful is the way to go. Take her skiing or rock climbing or something.

 

learner202

Banana

• Nov 1, 2003

• #11

I will just say. ur getting fat. So what. Girls are a difficullt breed

 

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yelis300

New member

• Nov 1, 2003

• #12

Having sex all day would help her drop some lbs too.

 

Munkeee de Sade

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• Nov 1, 2003

• #13

You know I read this stuff on here all the time "my girl needs to loose some weight." WELL THEN DUMP HER!!!! Unless you have been with someone for a while and they gained weight in that time then just don't even bother. If you can't like someone for there personality and how great a person they really are then just find someone else!

 

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alpineslide

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• Nov 1, 2003

• #14

yelis300 said:

Having sex all day would help her drop some lbs too.

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Hey... that's not bad. I could turn the heat up to about 95 or do it in front of the fireplace.

 

learner202

Banana

• Nov 1, 2003

• #15

Munkeee de Sade said:

You know I read this stuff on here all the time "my girl needs to loose some weight." WELL THEN DUMP HER!!!! Unless you have been with someone for a while and they gained weight in that time then just don't even bother. If you can't like someone for there personality and how great a person they really are then just find someone else!

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Because if you love them you will not just dump them

 

chelle

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• Nov 1, 2003

• #16

alpineslide said:

Hey... that's not bad. I could turn the heat up to about 95 or do it in front of the fireplace.

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Now you're thinkin'

 

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alpineslide

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• Nov 1, 2003

• #17

Munkeee de Sade said:

If you can't like someone for there personality and how great a person they really are then just find someone else!

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Your right, I really do like her personality. She's really very cute as well. I just want the total package and aside from that.....I'm obviously very superficial. Hey, at least I'll admit it.

 

chelle

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• Nov 1, 2003

• #18

Did you by chance post in the thread "Looks or personality" ?

 

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alpineslide

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• Nov 1, 2003

• #19

chelle said:

Now you're thinkin'

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I didn't expect you to take my side on this. I'll try pushing it a little farther.

How about if I slip some T3 into her drink ?

 

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alpineslide

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• Nov 1, 2003

• #20

chelle said:

Did you by chance post in the thread "Looks or personality" ?

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I did. Looks get thing started. Personality keeps things going.