What would you have done?

I just want to see what everyone would have done. I am more laid back and am not the person to fight over a girl.

A while back I was in Vegas playing craps at the Hard Rock. I had my 5 dolla chips and there was a guy in his 30's or so younger guy playing craps at the same table with at least 3k on the table and his friend comes up to my left side where my girlfriend was standing and asked her if she would hold his friends hand for good luck. I didn't say anything and waited to see what she said. She walked over and held the guys hand. I was shocked and pissed off. I ended up walking away from the table and sending her home. Unfortunately I was on a family trip and she was with me. I sent her home that night and stayed out all night with a few bro's and came home. I just told her that I really felt belittled by the whole thing and was disappointed. I don't think I ever forgave her for that or ever in mind forgave her for it. I think it just gave me a reason to not want to be with her even though I stayed with her for 3 years after that. What should I have done in this situation? Please let me know because it is ammunition in my arguement. Thanks guys.

Yeah, i feel like that was wrong on her part. She should have asked you, but even then I would think there is something basically wrong with that. You 2 should have talked about it later that night or next day. Bro-communication is the key!! Better to talk about stuff instead of letting it build up into a full blown argument. Even with that said, she shouldn't do something like that. If it happens again ask your GF-"well how would you feel if I went over to some girl and held her hand for good luck?"

why is this still an arguement from over 3 years ago? I would have said something to the guy that asked. Politely to start with. Most decent guys would move on (actually wouldn't have asked to start with).

I guess she could of asked you first, BUT who the fuck cares...she just held the guys hand...I'm sure it was all in good fun...and what really matters is who is she coming home with??? There's a line between disrespect and being fun. I honestly think in that moment she was just having fun with it.

Yeah it is tuff to decipher... Being a man ( i wanted to say hey jagoff can't you see she is my good luck charm) but I felt like if she really thought she was she would have told him to find another woman. But she didn't.

Getnbigr- It isn't I am just trying to justify reasons why I shouldn't get back together with this one. I am pretty sure I want to move on but I still care for her.

She may have seen no harm in it, however from a guy's perspective that would be deemed a "pick-up line".
Maybe that's what bugs you about it, is that she would fall for a line like that?

KR

yeah probably... we just broke up this week. I am sure some dude is going to try to get in her panties trying to act like he really cares about her just to get some nappy dugout.....

What was her explanation? Sounds like a gold digging slut!
My g/f would no better than do that and disrespect me like I would do same with her.

damn sorry to hear bro thats a tuff one.

She says it was no big deal.... but then agreed it was disrespectful..... She is constantly getting hit on or stared at. It gets old real fast...... It is like playing football you just have to keep stiff arming them when they come at ya!

well you seemed a big man to not do anything and walk away instead of making a scene and acting like angry jealous boy friend.

I am not sure what I would have done it depends on the relationship we have.

My brother was there and he calls her a chip whore now! Still to this day. He said the only girls who do that are whores and strippers..... Who knows.

I'd probably blow it off. Minor incedent. Now if there were a track record of this kind of behavior I would worry.

She is a waitress and I have found a (regular) customers phone # in her phone. He is a older guy and told her if she ever needs anything ie. money just give him a call. Why would she even take his #. I think she is too nice and I also think she is sandbagging for the future. That was really bothering me. I end up doing things because she does this. Like throwing a poker party with topless waitresses......