bro's having a bad night.......

Bro's need alittle pic me up here.........have to go to court on tuesday the 2nd........girlfriend put restraining order on me.
this the 2nd one in this year (first one was dismissed cause she did'nt show up. called 2 days before and said sorry....)
Not happy bro's just is'nt fair ....I did everything for her.....helped raise her kid since he was 4 months(now he is 18 months)
Have'nt seen him or her in 10 days and it's eating the shit out of me. Litlte guy made my day every time I saw him. Just found out while I was working all these hours trying to support myself and help her out once in a while she was talling to some fucken guy
she met at a club 2 months ago.........but on Sat the 23 found her over at his placew and she spent the night.....cops got called ...no hitting or screaming just asked me to leave and have no contact with her........2 days later got served with the papers....all the statments about are so un true and it hurts to think she would say it after all I have done for her......maybe I pushed her away when she wanted me to be around more . just know it's going to be rough tonight and tuesday........later

yeah bro that sucks, well if she was doing that yourbetter off without her, sucks though kids are great man, know how ya must feel
well if she does and you getnthis in time request that if she breaks the restraining order if she can be arrested too, no contact order no matter what settle everything that day so when he dumps her she doesnt come back crying and do it all over again .
Good luck to you bro, and just show up deny everything and explain yopur case, no offensive language be polite NO MATTER WHAT BRO!
let us know how it goes.

That's a tough situation man. Too bad there is a child invovled that you seem to really care about. I've dated chicks with kids before and it's really tough when it ends...so I feel ya. It's tough spending time with a child getting to know them and caring for them and having it end. But you gotta think, do you really want to be with this girl knowing how she is and what she is doing? I know it's tough to accept, but you gotta move on man. Life is tough as it is, there is no room for bullshit like cheating and restraining orders and all. You said her whole argument is false, then find someone who will appreciate you. I say move on, you'll be much happier once you have.

doesn't sound to healthy to me..if she is willin to take things from you includin love and support for her child and then spend the night at another dudes place,then fuck her...get out of there and don't try and contact her..she is not worth going to jail over or a criminal record...

you dont..

man, you dont need that kind of shit...i know you dont like it now, but from my experience...it aint worth...you will find someone who is worth it...there are plenty of women out there...
bigguy

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bro's just so you know he thanks you for all your support..
He got the book thrown at him. All his written statments from the
people that could'nt show up for court got thrown out. All the evidence he put up the junde did not want to hear. He even had his 14 yearold niece testify that he was there at her hous the night before and that she (his ex) called and talked to the niece and had phone records to show the junde. She said he was'nt there that the other guy was. He caught her in a lie and the judge still did'nt throw it out. He did'nt listen to anything bro's

He got a 4year injunction on him and he is taking it real hard.
he won't answer his phone or talk to anybody. His roomate says he's in his room laying in bed stairing at the wall just shaking his head. Guy loved her too much I think. Anyway justed wanted to keep you updated. He also said he can't get on the board anymore his account got denided or some shit. WTF.....What the hell is the world coming to when the system controlls the beast.....
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meathammor said:

bro's just so you know he thanks you for all your support..
He got the book thrown at him. All his written statments from the
people that could'nt show up for court got thrown out. All the evidence he put up the junde did not want to hear. He even had his 14 yearold niece testify that he was there at her hous the night before and that she (his ex) called and talked to the niece and had phone records to show the junde. She said he was'nt there that the other guy was. He caught her in a lie and the judge still did'nt throw it out. He did'nt listen to anything bro's

He got a 4year injunction on him and he is taking it real hard.
he won't answer his phone or talk to anybody. His roomate says he's in his room laying in bed stairing at the wall just shaking his head. Guy loved her too much I think. Anyway justed wanted to keep you updated. He also said he can't get on the board anymore his account got denided or some shit. WTF.....What the hell is the world coming to when the system controlls the beast.....
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tell him to try again, we've been having a little problems but nothing big. we're all really sorry to hear about this and hope he can pull through it.

That sucks very bad.

There's two ways to look at it.

#1 - It sucks and it's the worst thing ever.

#2 - It sucks, but it's a blessing. Thank goodness this happened now, rather than 10 years from now, after they'd been married, and possibly had kids of their own.


Some things really, really suck, but turn out to be the best things in the long run.

tell him to come back bro, we all get knocked down from time to time its how fast you get back up thats important ya know. get up bro dust yourself on and lets get back to life, there are a whole lot of experiences that makes us stronger bro.

man i know what you are going trough bro!! i found out 1 year ago that my wife(the love of my life!) was fucking my best friend!!! it has been the hardest year of my life but i know in the end i will be a stronger person and will find someone who is true!!!
hang in their bro!! it will get better!!!!

Bro's I'm back

Took me a night of hard thinking and some good advice from peopole I can call family(here on the board). If it was ment to be it will return........But you ask yourself these things....is it going to work then? Is it worth the headache? This a sign from up above
and I will take it. Life is too short and you only live once. So it is time to move on to make a freash start on my own. I'm going to dive into work and the gym. Sure I will think of her manyu times and of course her little one. But if someone truely loves you they do not even think twice about doing that. So sail on!!!!! Thank you my brothers for all the help and support. It does hurt and will for many weeks. But WHAT DOES NOT KILL YOU MAKES YOU STRONGER..........Thanks again .later..........One other thing I'm going to appeal the courts just for the sake of getting it off my record.........stickpony

Exactly Bro, Dont wast time on things that you know in your heart are not going to work, find new direction and go that way.

Glad to see things are looking up.