I'm screwed, need some advice.

jaywooly

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I was at a party with my GF. Well I guess I drank a little more than I intended.

Well today she's all pissed off that I told her how atractive I thought her friend was.

What can I do? I need this nightmare to end.
 
lol, you sound like me, usualy I wake up and peices come to me slowly and then I remember I am to embarresed to go back tot he bar I was at the previous night,lol, usualy playing grab ass with my wifes friends,

break it off bro, if you cant hit on other women in front of ur girl get rid of her! lmao
 
leave her and date her friend...but make sure she doesn't mind you tellin her how hot you think her friends are...lol
 
i've done the same thing almost everytime we are out, she just laughs and blows me off. she is not insecure...but it is funny as shit...

insecurity is a bitch...i couldn't do it bro
 
That is the thing- if she is not insecure then you're ok, if she is and think every chick other than herself is a threat, then you really need to re-evaluate your relationship with her.
 
I'm on her side. Sorry bro'

Don't be an ass next time.

Of course she's pissed. You told her you thought other girls were hot.

Is she insecure? I don't think so. That's a normal reaction.

How would you feel if she was drooling over your friends ripped abs and said how big and hard his muscular arms looked?
 
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THanks Zylo, I appreciate your honesty. I'm on her side too.

So don't be an ass the next time, hopefully I can follow instruction.

What to do now though.
 
But on the other side of it too, she gets pissed when I talk about famous people, Spears, Aguilerra, Duff, etc.

And no, I dont get upset when she talks about Matt Damon or that detective on Law and Order SVU. I thnk he calls himself "Stabler."
 
ha ha ha, I was coming here to edit my post because I thought saying "Don't be an ass" was a little bit mean. Too Late! :laugh:

Anyhow, she shouldn't get upset about movie stars and stuff though :) I think most people are okay with that.

But the friends and people around you are close and personal. So they are seen as more of a threat ;)

What to do now? Just apologize to her, tell her that she is the most beautiful girl to you and that's why you're together with her and not anyone else. Give her a big hug, tell her you love her and again you're sorry for saying something you shouldn't have and that you won't do it again.

If she's still mad after that, there's some other issue here that you're missing. You didn't really do anything that bad for her to stay mad at you if you make a sincere apology and let her know you love her and that she is the most beautiful girl to you.
 
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what the fuck is the difference between saying a movie star is hot and a regular person? NONE, so I dont know why one would be ok and not other not, its not like jay can pull anything anyway
 
I'm fucked. I guess I went a bit further than telling her how hot her friend was.

I guess I'm going to put the ball in her court. I'm going to say, "Look, I shouldn't have said such things and I'm sorry for it. I'm with you for a reason. If this is something we can't work past, then let me know."

Any objections?
 
jaywooly said:
I'm fucked. I guess I went a bit further than telling her how hot her friend was.


Ahhh, so there was a little more to the story. I thought so :)

Yes, just apologize, admit you were wrong and that you love her.



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Presser, the difference between a movie star miles away who you will never meet and a BEST FRIEND who's standing right beside you at that very moment should be pretty obvious bro'

You can go home and fool around with the best friend beside you. There is potentially a higher risk of infidelity involved.

The movie star is in another state and doesn't want anything to do with you. There is pretty much ZERO risk of infidelity involved.
 
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what the fuck is the difference between saying a movie star is hot and a regular person? NONE, so I dont know why one would be ok and not other not, its not like jay can pull anything anyway
the difference is the fact taht most movie and shit like that stars are out of most peoples reach and a girlfreind or wifes freinds are close by and ona personal level with the girlfreind or wife and that can hit close to home with some women..i know this the hard way LOL my wife said some guy on tv was good lookin and i told her i wouldnt mind bennin over her best freind LOL my mistake
 
irishpride said:
my wife said some guy on tv was good lookin and i told her i wouldnt mind bennin over her best freind LOL my mistake

Thats fuckin funny, I can only imagine the look on her face. Jay, I think she is insecure, and a little irrational. I mean hell your a person, thats how your mind works, your gonna see shit that is attractive, its life. I'm not sure how far you took it, but the simple fact that you find some one else attractive is gonna happen, shit maybe a few times a day. She should only take it personal when actions are taken on those feelings.
 
You need to apologize with all your heart and hope she forgives you.

I dont think that girls get jealous too too much of movie stars because they are intangible in most cases. I did however get a bit disturbed when i found a mag of christina half clad floating in an intertube before. I think its a normal reaction. I mean how would you feel if your gf was in love with brad pitt or some other actor. Its a normal reaction i think. The only difference is actors are intangible while people in real life are not.

Apologize.
and
Assure her that you care about her and not her best friend.

Good Luck
 
break it off bro, if you cant hit on other women in front of ur girl get rid of her! lmao [/B][/QUOTE]

HA HA, now thats right, hooked up with my ex's BF right in front of my ex at a club few weeks ago,, talk about what goes around comes around! LMAO,,,, Yeah just apoligize, and if all fails, Call up the BF...
 
irishpride said:
the difference is the fact taht most movie and shit like that stars are out of most peoples reach and a girlfreind or wifes freinds are close by and ona personal level with the girlfreind or wife and that can hit close to home with some women..i know this the hard way LOL my wife said some guy on tv was good lookin and i told her i wouldnt mind bennin over her best freind LOL my mistake
She didn't mind did she IP, i mean as long as you let her hook up with the actor tehn it should all be hunky dorry...lol
 
Mace always comments on hot chicks even my friends....it doesn't bother me...in fact I usually point them out to him first....LMAO!! Gotta look out for him...we make a good team! :laugh: Being jealous and insecure does not belong in a relationship....
 
Well put Missy, if she cant take you noticing someone who is hot then cut her loose. She's got issues, not like any of them dont LOL, but she sounds like a kill joy. Unless you plan on marrying her i would throw up the double deuce and find another woman.
 
I agree with misfit, at least you didnt lie to her. Most guys will never say anything and just sneak a peek every chance they get. I once told my woman her friend was hot and she asked what makes her hot? I told her. simple as that.
I think she is upset because you were honest with her and drunk so it worse. talk to her bro, apologize for offending her and make sure she knows that you love her and no matter what she is more beautiful than any woman can ever be. Because you think a woman is hot for something she does or looks like or is wearing its not always a good thing.

she thinks other guys are hot, women just dont admit it to you, ask her friend then im sure she will tell you! lol
 
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