Freakin' Females!

So, the deal is this:

I've been w. this chic for just about a year and man, Im in love. Not to be a pussy but I am.

I have this ex. beautiful girl, but we just were't cutting it together, but when we broke up almost 2 y/ago we said we stay friends- we'd been thru a lot togethr. Sounds good, right?

My current girl has a HUGE issue with our friendship and thats all it is! She kept saying my ex had motives and this has always been a sore spot for us...

Gues fukin' what! My ex goes to the same gym as me. and the other night, we were there at the same time and she ask me to give her a lift home. Sure no prob. ...she was ALL over me. I went for it a little ( but stopped myself) I mean, she hot, but now I'm concerned about the current girl (remember, I'm in love?)

Dudes, PLEASE, I am lost here. Anyone have an issue with ex's and currents?

the ex is your ex for a reason..get that biotch out of your life...i have been known to do the same but its not worth the drama it causes...me on the other function well with total chaos around me so i deal with it...but really its not worth it and its tiresome..i may toss the ex's and find some new ex's LOL

Just went through this situation about 2 months ago myself. I was really good friends with an ex of mine I had dated for 2 years and its been 3 years after the breakup and nothing has ever happened between us physically, BUT my current girlfriend has a huge issue with it! You gotta figure out who means more to you man. And by that I mean, which one is hotter. Joking! If you value your relationship, then drop the ex dude.

I have yet to meet a female that was cool with this issue. Plus, it's just not worth the headache! Keep your girlfriend happy or you will be miserable!

A few more things and then I'll shut the F up about this LOL.
First, you and your ex agreed to stay friends, however, she was "all over you"? That is total disrespect to you and your girlfriend and your relationship and that is not what a friend does. Is she really your friend or just keeping you close because she's jealous? Second, you have to realize that when a chick is with a guy, she wants to see herself as the most special person in your eyes. If there is another girl "friend" around, she will be extremely insecure about being that important. Jesus, I sound like a chick now...sorry. But if your girlfriend kept an ex-boyfriend around that she has "been through a lot with"...how would you feel? I'm guessing not too good. A relationship is called a relationship because of the emotional bond between two people that shouldn't be there with anyone else. If that's not what you want, then just bang around...that's pretty fun too. Third, you say you are "in love" with your girlfriend, but you aren't sure what to do? This is a no brainer to me man. Just get rid of the ex! Either way, good luck!

If you are really "IN LOVE" you'll cut all ties to the ex....she totally crossed the the line with her behavior.

Straight up. You're an idiot bro'

Ditch the ex completely and remove her from your life.

Go back to your girlfriend and tell her how much you appreciate her.

I think you have to follow your heart.
I think if you love this current gf you wouldnt be posting this on MC at all and you wouldnt have put yourself in a situation where you had the potential to damage your relationship at all.
To me cheating is anything that my significant other wouldnt do if i was standing right beside him. So i really hope that nothing happened in that car with your ex that wouldnt have happened if your gf was standing beside you or riding in the backseat of that car.

I dont think you ever fall out of love with someone. I think you lose them piece by piece until your at a level where you can be alone but i think theres always a part thats gonna care for them.

I think you have to feel for both girls. I mean this ex obvioulsy overstepped her bounds but on the other hand she overstepped those boundaries for a reason. I think she still has feelings for you and i think you need to discuss it with her and tell her how you feel and what you want. i think every girl deserves to know how someone feels about them. No one deserves to be that girl standing in the dark with hope dangling on a string that one day things are gonna work out oblivious to the fact that while shes sad and waiting the guy she adores is numb to her existence.

You gotta do what your heart tells you.
YOu have to make a decision of what girl you want to be with and commit to her exclusively. If you have any doubt in your mind then its time for a reassessment.

Good luck

why do women have smaller feet then men?>

so then can get closer to the kitchen sink when doing my dishes LOL

irishpride said:

why do women have smaller feet then men?>

so then can get closer to the kitchen sink when doing my dishes LOL

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lmao, whats wrong with u

Hit it once or 50 times on the ex then let her know you're in love with your current girl and can't keep this up. Then hit it again a few times.

jaywooly said:

Hit it once or 50 times on the ex then let her know you're in love with your current girl and can't keep this up. Then hit it again a few times.

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maybe even invite your new girlfreind to join LOL

You suffer from what every man suffers from, having a Dick in between your legs. I been in many situations like this (OK just once.....) If you are really in LOVE, which I don't doubt you are, stay out of the way of temptation. Temptation is a bitch. As long as temptation is in the form of a female (especially an ex), stay away. From experience, the female has what I call the smart box (her "pie") to controll all. As men, we are just the nature of the beast. Good luck and stay away from temptation. Or enjoy the hand that you are dealt. But with every gamble, there is a consequence!!??

Or maybe you could put yourself in the ex gfs shoes and see how messed up it is to even suggest that this guy go out and have sex with her and then ditch her.

Sorry boys you pushed a huge buttton with me tonight im not hating you but i do find it pretty disrespectful.

I think you have to put yourself in someone elses shoes. Picture some girl not liking youbut having sex with you and then telling you to that she wants nothing to do wit you.
I know you boys are joking but honestly i found it super degrading and disrespectful.

Is that how you would want your mom or sister to be treated by some guy ?????
I really dont think so.


NO hard feelings but sometimes i think its better to post good advice for people rather than turning the thread into a joke. Obvioiusly this guy came on here and was really seeking some advice on what to do.

objection noted and i see what your saying..but its a pretty point blank answer he has gotten..if he is in love with his current girlfreind and not with his ex girlfreind (there is a reason she is the ex) then this shouldnt be has hard to figure out..i know there could be other variables but he said he is in love with his current girlfreind then tahts his answer right there..i knw what your sayin but everyone has given and most likely will give the same answer...i joke because i enjoy the interactions with others and enjoy the commardery..he most likely knows what he has to do but was lookin for validation from others...but i do see what your saying...no offense..

am i missing something here? first post, and its about love? man i know some things changed around here..... but that is weird. is this a gay site now. by the way, im six weeks out from a BODYBUILDING show. sorry to hijack your thread bro, but im in a fucked up mood. gotta love test and tren!

Just another note. No disrespect, but I am going along with IP on this. He is a big boy and he is going to what he wants to do regardless. Remember this is bodybuilding board, not Oprah. No one's trying to get in the way of anyones feelings. I'm sure his skin is thick enough to take the heat. It's all in fun.

Locker room conversation. Girls really do not have clue what guys say around guys only, fitchick is getting valuable insider tips that she could use to her advantage for the rest of her life. You just gave to accept it and learn to deal with it. Everyguy has the battle between the locker room conversation in their heads and trying to be "sensitive" and "caring" according to the standards of a woman. Maybe if we find a female volunteer to shoot up a 100mgs of suspension for a day she will be able to explain to other women what we have to deal with. Its amazing the power of test and I swear thats what women just dont get cause they really dont have it the same.

askmen.com could also give her a huge advantage if she could stomach the truth(some of the articles might sound mean or whatever but its true stuff) , one of my friends showed me that shit, and it has some dope articles especially about how to read women to keep the homefield advantage and get what you want while keeping her happy.

How in the hell is having 2 women wanting some a bad thing? I swear, some of you guys have the wierdest problems.

Dude if u r seriously in love tell the ex to bang tar, she is a problem and if u r truly happy with your girl u dont need some other chic (especially an ex) to come between u 2. Just MHO

Missfit said:

If you are really "IN LOVE" you'll cut all ties to the ex....she totally crossed the the line with her behavior.

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ex's as friend just does not work! say good by for good and start a new life with the one you love