Wonderin bout new relationship with ex

Hey bros, look me n my x were goin out for 2 years then i broke up wit her for the last time..... we were always have some sort of problem but for some reason we were best friends always talkin n all..... well i at one point during this last month wanted to get back with her..... ladddadada she told me it was the last time and was fed up with it... well look i have realized if its ment to be its ment to be and it honestly wasnt... the last 6 months of pour relation ship were vvvvvveeerrry rigid. fighting and breaking up with her.... well now jus today we decided to be friends ... shes with anouther man and im 100% comfortable with that. She told me what theyve done and how sweet he was and how they met...we broke up a month ago but i seem so fine with that based on how things were between me n her... well shes tellin me she did this and that , hes so sweet n all.. n i told her i was very happy 4 her n glad she got someone she could work with... well now were spposed to be goin to her new bfs beach house and im gonna bring a girl or 2 and she didnt care at first then she was all bitchy tellin me im too jealous ... ladadada... we were talkin b4 and i was helpin her out with her ex n issues they were havin she was gettin bitchy..... she seems jealous guys... BUT FOR WHAT. I Figure a mutual friendship and shes agreeing on most points but then after she told me her b/f ight not want me to come to the beach hous.... WTF... yo im bring a girl... id honestly like to meet her new bf and see what a guys he is.. I happy she found someone she really likes and Id like to see the same from her. Im jus confused man.. I thought by how me n her would talk about new ppl things were goin good with a friendship.... I jus dont know what shes pullin sayin one thing agreeing wit me then pullin some dum shit. PLLLLLEEEAASE EXPLAIN.. I truly am looking for a friendship outta he and she tells me one thing but reactes anouther... Im jus lookin for a mutual understanding cuz me n her do talk EXTREMLY WELL and have had many good convos bout eachothers life/sexlife scince the break up..im jus lOOOoOoST
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LOL.....bro'...it's not you...it's women...they can handle things as long as they are the ones dishin it out. When the tables turn and we are the ones talking about a new chica or something they start getting jealous and stuff. I've been right where youa re and it sucks trying to amintain a friendship that seems like it will be fine at first and then she changes her mind....if you ahve to work hard for it then its not worth having....but that only applies in relationships...Md

lol my man... it seemed like when i told her... "look jus explain to your b/f me and you have NOTHING going for eachother and i have no intentions of gettin back with you"" she gets all bitchy and is like "OK! we can stop talking about this!"... im jus tryin to get in on that party like i told her to meet a few new girls and she gets all "flipsided" about it and tells me her b/f prolly wont want me there.... Bro I love this girl AS A friend and Im tryin to Maintain a "MAn 2 MAn" relationship with her... as Ive explained shes talked about her sex life with this guy and how they met and how cute he is to her. I told her i was happy for her scincerly and wen shit flips to my point its "different" ... GImme a break I feel she needs to grow up and realize what friends are I assume. Or am I wrong?

hey bro, in my opinion, shes still in love with you, and bottom line is is that girls get jelous pretty easy, well a lot of them that i know, like md said, girls can talk all the crap to the guy and think nothing of it, but when its the other way around, they get bitchy and jelous, i just think its kinda hard going from someone you love for so long, to friends that have NO feelings for eachother anymore, seems to short of time, not saying your not just wanting to be friends or anything, but she still has feelings for you and gets easily jelous, but thats my opinion, hope things work out for ya, later bro

I agree with bigworm. She still loves you and thats why she wants to keep you close as a "friend" ..........Ultimately your her back up plan when all else fails.........This type of deal rarely works and just puts unnecessary strain on life.

Move on.

Cyphon said:

I agree with bigworm. She still loves you and thats why she wants to keep you close as a "friend" ..........Ultimately your her back up plan when all else fails.........This type of deal rarely works and just puts unnecessary strain on life.

Move on.

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big ass bump to that she is a ex for reason..no point pretending to be freinds..your a back up plan for when she goes south she can have you as a back up boyfreind..fuck her mom or one of her freinds then move on

lol thats some awsome advice IP, i like that one

U guys are great

We worked it out, were not gonna be friends... too much drama... Im goin female huntin verrrrry soon :thumbsup: Jus wondering would u guys consider pick up a female at the gym.?

Yeah guys dont chase any girl you make yourself look like a fool.

stlxnstones said:

We worked it out, were not gonna be friends... too much drama... Im goin female huntin verrrrry soon :thumbsup: Jus wondering would u guys consider pick up a female at the gym.?

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Gym's are great places to hook up.........Just keep going around the treadmills and say " Nice ass baby" until one doesnt slap you..........Then offer her a protien smoothie at your place.

lol thats funny, but i think itd be pretty sweet to hook up with a girl from tha gym, long as she aint as big as you, lol, but i mean i like a girl who takes care of her body and likes to work out, and yall would have something in commen right off the bat also, so i dont think its to of an idea to meet sum chick at the gym..good luck

playaz i got this down... i gotta potential target already.. a nice lil female who been givin me eyes for some time now, but never reacted cuz i was gettin over ex.. now im seek n strike;-)

stlxnstones said:

playaz i got this down... i gotta potential target already.. a nice lil female who been givin me eyes for some time now, but never reacted cuz i was gettin over ex.. now im seek n strike;-)

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whats his name?

That's women for you man, i say go to the beach house with 2 ladies. She must still have feelings for you also, so when you said that you don't intend on getting back with her ever she got pissed. I REALLY don't see how ppl can stay friends with ppl when their relationship failed, i've tried and it just doesn't work, either i get jealous or i just don't wanna be around the person anymore. It's like when you like them you don't see their faults but then when you just friends you realize u could never be friends cause she gets on your damn nerves, i'm done with my rant, lol.

I agree fuck her, go find a new broad.

stlxnstones said:

playaz i got this down... i gotta potential target already.. a nice lil female who been givin me eyes for some time now, but never reacted cuz i was gettin over ex.. now im seek n strike;-)

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Ha. Funny, I was thinking the same thing last week until I asked the nice lil female out who was givin me the eyes.

She has a bf already........

Good Luck With Yours!

I have to agree with IP and MdTNT. IMO, you other guys read her wrong. She got pissed because that isn't the reaction she wanted. She wants him to stay chasing after her while she says, 'you can't have it.' So she tells him all about the new bf to see if she can make him jealous. When he doesn't show the jealousy, she gets mad. Dump her ass and find someone else.

in reply to bigworm there was a girl at the gym as big as me lol but i believe she died of a seizure... dunno why tho