Let me ask this situation of you all...

jaywooly · Jun 9, 2005

Say this couple at work just broke up. They were together for about two years and they both still work with you. You're kinda cool with the guy, but don't really kick it outside of work.

Is it okay to get with the chick if she initiates? Also, do you ask permission of the guy?

I'm not asking for myself, actually I'm good friends with the guy who was in the relationship.

If this is needed, the guy broke it off with the girl and it is/was a messy breakup. They've been broken up for about 2 months.

KarenB · Jun 9, 2005

jaywooly said:
Say this couple at work just broke up. They were together for about two years and they both still work with you. You're kinda cool with the guy, but don't really kick it outside of work.

Is it okay to get with the chick if she initiates? Also, do you ask permission of the guy?

I'm not asking for myself, actually I'm good friends with the guy who was in the relationship.

If this is needed, the guy broke it off with the girl and it is/was a messy breakup. They've been broken up for about 2 months.

Does getting with the chick mean 'hit and run' or 'relationship' on the guys part?

mace · Jun 9, 2005

All depends. Me personally I wouldn't do it, but I don't really see anything wrong with it. He dumped her and now she wants to move on. Even if she is just trying to screw with her X who cares. They aren't together anymore, but like I said, i wouldn't do it.

MdTNT · Jun 9, 2005

Jaywooly....your not thinking of asking him out are you....LMAO...jk....bro, me personally i would nto...it would caue too much drama in the work place...unless she were really jsut knock dead gorgeous

Cannons · Jun 9, 2005

I agree with MDTNT, if she is someone that you just cannot resist and think there may be potential for something then, I would ask the dude out of respect if he would have a major problem with it. If its just a fuck, if I did do it, I wouldn't tell anyone, and would swear her to secrecy so that there would be no drama behind it. But, you can't always trust women in that situation, so probably best to look somewhere else if you just want a piece and nothing else.

tool · Jun 9, 2005

Thats a question thats hard to answer, but if I were you I would take cannons advice.That seems to be the best way to handle it.

bigworm6 · Jun 9, 2005

i also agree with cannons, i would ask the guy in advance just to show him a little respect, he probably will not say no u cant, even if he doesnt want u to, he prob. wont tell u no, but talk to him about it first if u just really want to be with this chick, or whatever it is your wanting to do, good luck

dreww · Jun 9, 2005

If u don't tell him, and sleep with her, and really put it on her in the sack......people will know the day she returns to work. All work places I know thrive on some gossip like that.

Missfit · Jun 9, 2005

I kinda agree with Cannons....if this is a job that you are making a career out of....and you plan to be there for a while, then you should ask the dude...

But if you don't really give a shit about this job....fuck him! He dumped her so he should be prepared for her to date other people.

da_Fonz · Jun 9, 2005

I say do it, do it. . . . . . do it.

jaywooly · Jun 10, 2005

Well it appears as though the guy handled it in the worst way possible. He told the guy who broke it off with the girl that he wanted just one night with his ex and asked, "Is it cool?"

I was there when it happened. Man this guy is a retard.

My boy handled it well, he said, "Man that's on you, I'm in no position to say." But he said it in a way where the other guy knew he shouldn't.

Who knows, tonight was the night. Perhaps I will update you with a company related stabbing on Monday, lol.

Thanks for your opinions.

dreww · Jun 10, 2005

Tis easier to ask for forgiveness than permission.

irishpride · Jun 10, 2005

i'd do it,take naked pics of her and photo copy them and put them on everyones desk then i would piss on his shoes and call him "sir knight" all the time

AZ1 · Jun 10, 2005

The fact that he even asked at all just shows that guys have so much more respect for each other than girls. He may not have gone about it in the best manner but thats more than you could say for a girl in the same sit.

Majority of girls are so skanky they would never ask that shit in a million, they'd just do it. Shit they wouldnt even wait till they broke up.

jaywooly · Jun 10, 2005

AZ1 said:
The fact that he even asked at all just shows that guys have so much more respect for each other than girls. He may not have gone about it in the best manner but thats more than you could say for a girl in the same sit.

Majority of girls are so skanky they would never ask that shit in a million, they'd just do it. Shit they wouldnt even wait till they broke up.

Hmmm, someting happen you wanna get off your chest doggy? lol I couldn't agree motre tho

Let me ask this situation of you all...

jaywooly

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KarenB

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mace

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MdTNT

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Cannons

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tool

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bigworm6

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dreww

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da_Fonz

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