Spiderman
New member
I've got to vent a little bit and this isn't even about bodybuilding. I have been going crazy for several weeks. Before I get into this explaniation I want to make it clear that I love my wife. But she is driving me nuts. We have two kids (5 and almost 2) and we decided we didn't want anymore. So we were talking about me getting a vasectomy, which I wasn't looking forward to but was going to do anyway. Well, the end of November she called me real pissed off and said guess what? I immediately began to think of things I had been hiding from her (I used to do that a lot), but realized I hadn't done that in a long time and had nothing to hide. She tells me she is pregnant and we start to deal with that. I am ok with this...I mean it's not exactly what I wanted, but it's cool. But she is not. She has been depressed, moping around the house, has a short temper with the kids especially as well as me, and can't seem to do half of the things she used to do. I don't want to sound like a prick with this, but I don't know what to do to help her. I have been picking up her end of the housework and spending as much time with our oldest as I can because she is the one that gets in trouble the most. I understand there is no advice that will help in this situation and that things will right themselves eventually...but I am tired. I haven't told anyone about this and I'm hoping that getting it off my chest will help a little. Sorry about the long post...and if there are any feminists out there that decide to flame me about this try walking in my shoes for one minute...work, kids, dinner, housework, and a wife that is depressed but doesn't want any help is a lot to handle...but she's worth it. Peace