The girl's past...

NAIR

NAIR

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Got a serious relationship question for you guys: What do you guys think about your wife's/ girlfriends sexual past? Does it matter to you? I feel uncomfortable with my girlfriends sexual past and I know it stems from insecurity on my part...shit I've fucked a lot more people (including hookers) than she has but still, I can't help but feel uncomfortable with her past. So, I know I'm young, and my problems with her sexual past are both hypocritical and unfair, but I need some words of wisdom to get over this feeling and refrain from judgment. Any help fellas?
 
so what are we talking about here? amount of partners? 3 somes? fantasy? just being a whore? lol....

Its all about what she is like now. People change. If she still needs a lot of attension, or wants to do 3-somes (2-dudes), pops her top, or always has to dress like a slut.... you've got a problem.


but what was in her past (unless she was a hooker) i think i could let it go. I've learned not to ask such questions btw.... it only leads to feeling like you do now.
 
Who cares?
When you start prying into that shit, you start up stuff you wished you never brought up and you end up saying things you regret.
Leave it- as someone else said, it's all about the now.
Move forward.
 
totally agree with the above, my wife and i never asked each other about our pasts. it's pointless as long as both of you are disease free what difference does it make? as long as you love her for who she is now that's all that matters.

besides do you really want to know how she learned that little trick she does with her tongue??? ;)
 
bro if your anything like me most girls you date are angels compared to the shit ive done. I agree the past is past people def. do change being the problems they may have etc. So if your happy right now i would let it go. I dont like girls to even ask me how many girls ive been with and im only 22 lol. So i dodge it and dont ask them either.
 
yeah trust me bros, I never asked...it was her doing the asking and she told me the number (11)-- I was pissed. She's perfect in everyway except she's been with more guys than I feel comfortable with. No 3 -somes, no hooking, shit I was the first guy to come on her! she's hot as hell blue eyes, blonde haor, typical cali blond sporting designer shit all day long yet she suprisingly VERY low maintance--more so than any otheer chick I ever dated.

Maybe she needed to be with those guys to become the person she is todaay, I don't know--you guys all make good points and I appreciate the advice
 
MMX2 said:
Who cares?
When you start prying into that shit, you start up stuff you wished you never brought up and you end up saying things you regret.
Leave it- as someone else said, it's all about the now.
Move forward.
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True words of wisdom--I had a feeling you'd say something like this and I know this is the right answer but I can't help but feel weired about it.
 
bro, eleven really ain't that many... I lost count hundreds of girls ago and if my wife had any idea she'd probably have a mini stroke! seriously man you guys are both young but that's really not a big number at all in my opinion, now if she had been with 40 or 50 guys hell then I'd be worried! Move on bro, don' even think about it.

you said it yourself, maybe she needed to be with those guys to become the person she is today.
 
Let me start out with one of many sayings I live by:

"Let laying dogs lie"
"Don't look unless you want to find"
"You get what you ask for"

Now... we all have a past. Some things are better left unsaid and unknown. As men we all want a women who is a total freak and porn star in bed but we want her to be a virgin. Except that we all have done things some moments prouder then others and leave it at that..

Your girl must be pretty special and just leave it at that... I bet if we asked around we would find out things sexually that we are not proud of or at the very least we were embarrassed about...

She is human let her past stay there...
 
My buddies baby sitter was hot as hell when I was 13... She was watching them one afternoon during summer and when I went in to get some kool aid she was in the kitchen making lunch... she just walked up to me and started kissing me... Whoa, I got the biggest fastest boner ever in my life, next thing I know... wonder what ever happened to her ?
 
lmao at bbb. Let it go bro 11 isnt that many really. i lost count of mine lol. If you really love her then this shouldnt mean anything at all bro. You said it maybe the 11 guys helped her become the great girl she is today.
 
haha you prick you. I try to avoid this question at all costs. When i get hammered i do stupid shit. I had a girl ask me how many ive been with i could honlestly say i have no clue lol.
 
thats cause your a slut g! haa haa. I've got the same problem... well, that and i just forget 1 nighters, or names... so who knows.
 
bigbaldbulldog said:
My buddies baby sitter was hot as hell when I was 13... She was watching them one afternoon during summer and when I went in to get some kool aid she was in the kitchen making lunch... she just walked up to me and started kissing me... Whoa, I got the biggest fastest boner ever in my life, next thing I know... wonder what ever happened to her ?
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that's an awesome story bro, bet it was the best Kool Aid you ever had.

:thumbsup:
 
11? Dude, she is an angel compared to most! This is something that bothers all guys when they are first with a girl so I understand where you are coming from. You are seeing her as this perfect girl and putting her up on a pedistol. Give it two years and you honestly won't care anymore if she's been with 11 guys or 30 guys. Don't ruin something that could potentiall be a very good thing over (as you said) your insecurity issues. Plus it really doesn't matter what she's done in her past, it's what she does going forward.
 
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