Shitty Friends?

I had to drive 3 hours last night to work Buck Cherry, Papa Roache and Hinder in a van full of 7 guys. One of the guys mentioned he dated a girl for 3 years and then married her. After 5 years of marriage he found out that his "best friend" had been banging his girlfriend (at that time) but after they got married they stopped banging...

Another guy mentioned his friend of 5 years had a buisness together and found out that his friend had been saying negative things about him to his friends and told his wife about a alledged affair he had with a women for 3 months. As it turns out he never had an affair he just wanted his wife to leave him so he would have to sell his half of the buisness to him in the divorce....

And my personal favorite was this one. One of guys had a friend for a 6 years and they talked about everything and one day his buddy decieded that he knew what was best for him, his wife, his work place and his life. He literally tried to take over this guys life in a way that reflected his twisted view of how he SHOULD of been leading it. He called his wife and told her he was cheating on her ( which he never did), he called his work and said he was into drugs and selling them on company time but biggest of all he denied doing any of it. Telephone records don't lie. He asked us why he would do such a thing. We were at a loss of words but we did agree on this. His life is so miserble and pathetic that he wished his life onto other people. He ruined all peoples lives to make his failture's in his own life make him feel better.

We all have said and done things we wish we could undo or take back. I may of said and done things I knew were not going to look good now but in the end is was for the overall good of a situation. I do know I never a shitty of person or friend overall. I never stole, cheated or decieved in order to get what I wanted from a stranger let alone a friend.... I hope. I'm not perfect but I try to be the best kind of person I can.

It got me thinking about who or what I am..

Some real pathetic people out there.
 
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you said it best when you said there are some real pathetic people out there. I'm sure doing things that were pretty bad have crossed my mind more than once but acting on them is a totally different ball of wax
 
mikeswift said:
you said it best when you said there are some real pathetic people out there. I'm sure doing things that were pretty bad have crossed my mind more than once but acting on them is a totally different ball of wax
You got it Mike. Have I done things I wish I could take back, sure and I am sure I said things that hurt someones feelings. I do know I never set out to hurt someone on purpose not matter how it looked. To hear these guys tell stories of how their lives were forver changed is malicious. I can't imagine saying or doing something that could change the life of someone for many many years. Karma
 
I agree man. Theres not many people who can actually say there "a good friend". In my opinion, a lot of the guys i know are to worried about what people think about them, for example they dont want you to know that they really like the girl there with or whatever, who the hell cares man. And another problem i find, is that they let pussy get in the way of their friends. Theres so many guys out there that are supp. your friend, but if your g/f got on the bed naked and asked your friend to do them, probably 75% of them would hit and hope you dont find out. Kinda frustrating theres so many shady people out there
 
mikeswift said:
a good friend will help you move...

a really good friend will help you move a body.
My buddy killed a man who was trying to steal $800 bucks from him after he let him into his house so they could listen to some tunes and get drunk . His buddies move the body, cleaned up the scene and now his "friends" are walking around and he is doing 25 years to life...

I am the only one who still sends him letters after 5 years..
 
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