women...got a sex question..

ok.....since i dont know u guys face to face i can hide behind the puter and ask.....recently..as in 2 months ago i started dating this girl that i care for greatly...we have done everything...as far as sexually except one thing..until today...she has tried to give me a bj b4 but "doesnt know how to do it"...so i gave her some tips and what not and she finally did 2day.....anyways..she said b4 when we were talkin about it that she tinks that it is nasty to swallow..yet she hasnt ever tried it or done it....i guess what gets me mad  <!--emo&**--><img src="http://musclechemistry.mantisforums.com/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/devil.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt='**'><!--endemo--> is that i go down on her ALL the time....if u can tell me that doing this is the greatest thing in the world....and mine is so "nasty"...i mean seriously...our faces get so covered in "juices" it is ridiculous...and then to turn around and say that she doesnt want 2 swallow cuz it is nasty???!!! :angry: .and she is not the only woman that i have heard this from....my question is y does there seem to b some sort of a double standard??? dont get me wrong....i love to do it to her..well..mayb more than love but anyways...but it is just that fact that she wont return the favor so to speak.....any info would b greatly appreciated.

prez

...you're weird ded.. LOL ... ...

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I'm sorry DP...but really, what is your question?  I would be happy to help ya out here.....but I don't think I know exactly what you are trying to ask here.

Ded, while I'm not a woman, I do know some of them.  It's a personal preference for them, and if you make a big deal out of anything sexually with a woman - you will kill it for them.

It just might not be her style.  Imagine if she had this thing for oversized butt-plugs in her partner.  She might love the idea of sticking something foreign in your windward passage, but you might be a little uncomfortable with the idea.

While not a totally accurate analogy - it was a funny one.

Be happy with the positives she gives you, and forget your porn ideas.  Those belong to me.

<!--QuoteBegin--Dezir+Mar. 10 2002,7:38--></span><table border="0" align="center" width="95%" cellpadding="3" cellspacing="1"><tr><td>Quote (Dezir @ Mar. 10 2002,7:38)</td></tr><tr><td id="QUOTE"><!--QuoteEBegin-->I'm sorry DP...but really, what is your question?  I would be happy to help ya out here.....but I don't think I know exactly what you are trying to ask here.[/quote]
y is there a double standard that it is expected that the guy go down on the girl but yet women dont like to give blowjobs?? like it is gross or something???i guess i am askin for a womens perspective wondering what she might b thinking..cuz when i ask her it is kind of her giving me the run around...i guess i am frustrated and just want some clarification and i am sure that this is makin u ladies upset but is only some questions....

<!--QuoteBegin--Auriflex+Mar. 10 2002,7:49--></span><table border="0" align="center" width="95%" cellpadding="3" cellspacing="1"><tr><td>Quote (Auriflex @ Mar. 10 2002,7:49)</td></tr><tr><td id="QUOTE"><!--QuoteEBegin-->Ded, while I'm not a woman, I do know some of them.  It's a personal preference for them, and if you make a big deal out of anything sexually with a woman - you will kill it for them.

It just might not be her style.  Imagine if she had this thing for oversized butt-plugs in her partner.  She might love the idea of sticking something foreign in your windward passage, but you might be a little uncomfortable with the idea.

While not a totally accurate analogy - it was a funny one.

Be happy with the positives she gives you, and forget your porn ideas.  Those belong to me.[/quote]
ok..well ...sexually i will do anything to make her happy...if she wants something one way..or the  other i will give it to her...and in no way i am gonna force it upon her as an obligation but just the street goes both ways

Ok, well...I will try my best to help you out here.  First it sounds like she is not very "experienced" with BJ's...if you had to give her some pointers.....and you haven't really been together all that long, so talking about it may embarres her some.  But give her time and she will come around.  Now as far as women not liking to give BJ's.....well, I just don't think thats true....not all women want to swallow....or may not want to swallow all of the time.  And thats what I tought your question was more about, so I am glad you clarified that a bit for me.  And I am not upset, there may be a few people that will think this is not an appropriate subject.  But I think as long as we keep it serious and clean....we will be ok.  Oh and, I think the more she gets used to it, the more she will like doing it, specialy when she sees how much you like it  

Hope that helps some.

Ded, performing cunninglus (spelling?) on a woman is just not the same as having her swallow your load.  If it is - you have a real different kind of lady.  So I can't see it being a two way street - now if she refused to perform fellatio on you, then I could understand your two-way street idea.

Just my observations man.

<!--QuoteBegin--Dezir+Mar. 11 2002,11:05--></span><table border="0" align="center" width="95%" cellpadding="3" cellspacing="1"><tr><td>Quote (Dezir @ Mar. 11 2002,11:05)</td></tr><tr><td id="QUOTE"><!--QuoteEBegin-->But give her time and she will come around.[/quote]
bollocks ...  <!--emo&/?--><img src="http://musclechemistry.mantisforums.com/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/sneaky2.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt='/?'><!--endemo-->

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<!--QuoteBegin--Auriflex+Mar. 10 2002,8:06--></span><table border="0" align="center" width="95%" cellpadding="3" cellspacing="1"><tr><td>Quote (Auriflex @ Mar. 10 2002,8:06)</td></tr><tr><td id="QUOTE"><!--QuoteEBegin-->Ded, performing cunninglus (spelling?) on a woman is just not the same as having her swallow your load.  If it is - you have a real different kind of lady.  So I can't see it being a two way street - now if she refused to perform fellatio on you, then I could understand your two-way street idea.

Just my observations man.[/quote]
umm it is a two way street..she is very ummm well  "wet" and sometimes i think she has more than i do...there has been several times that it has shot out...crazy..never had that happen with anyone else but kinda cool..as far as being embarassed...i dont think so....we can talk about anything and everything...so like u said dez...i will give her time and we will go from there...i was only curious and i am sure other guys mayb as well as girls r too about this subject...thanx again

All this thread did was turn me on.  damn you all!

dez is right... if she is that inexperienced that you have to teach her... give her time.. she will learn and in time start to do more and more.. maybe she will really start to enjoy it.. don't bring it up all the time either.... then she will get mad , at that point she will not do it out of spite.. don't ask me why we do this... but we do..  give her a few months ... get her better at the act first.. then work your way up to it... get her really drunk one night.... heehee.. hell she may not even realize you are doing it until it's too late... and then from there she may start doing it more and more... lol

sasha

oh PS>>>>> big tip.... DO NOT GRAB THE BACK OF HER HEAD AND HOLD HER THERE SO YOU CAN BLOW..... NOT GOOD..

LOL....Sasha....I forgot about that tip...that is a BIG NO NO, you don't want her throwing up on you, now.....eeewww...lol

<!--QuoteBegin--Dezir+Mar. 11 2002,6:30--></span><table border="0" align="center" width="95%" cellpadding="3" cellspacing="1"><tr><td>Quote (Dezir @ Mar. 11 2002,6:30)</td></tr><tr><td id="QUOTE"><!--QuoteEBegin-->LOL....Sasha....I forgot about that tip...that is a BIG NO NO, you don't want her throwing up on you, now.....eeewww...lol[/quote]
maybe not throwing up but... but gaging... ie..the cheeks puffing out... it spews out of her mouth.. hell maybe even her nose..... lol.... she's choking.... and your laughing... lol... that may not be a good first time swallow experience..

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sasha

what about grabbing her ears?? j/k!!!i know...i will follow your instructions ladies....

I wish I could find some instructions.  No wait, I already know everything about women.

I guess it's depends on the women.  Some like to give oral, some don't.  It is pretty messed up if you are going down on her all the time and she won't reciprocate.  As for swallowing that is a personal preference.  Some think its nasty and some love it.  To each her own.

Oh yeah and most definitely don't grab the head when your ready to go!!