steph
New member
So this conversation came up at work today and I'm curious to hear a male perspective now...
If your partner came to you and confessed to cheating, would you stay with them back and try to continue the relationship or would you send their ass packing? If you stayed in the relationship and tried to work past the issue, would it be fair for the victimized partner to get a "free pass" to "level the playing ground", so to speak?
I know two wrongs don't make a right, but in my world, cheating is all sorts of wrong so at that point, the rule book gets tossed out the window. I say... if you don't walk away, that bastard (or bitch) still needs to feel some sort of punishment for their wrongdoing so they know what kind of emotional hell they put you through!
So what's you guys' take on this? Have you ever been in this situation before? If not, what do you think you would do?
If your partner came to you and confessed to cheating, would you stay with them back and try to continue the relationship or would you send their ass packing? If you stayed in the relationship and tried to work past the issue, would it be fair for the victimized partner to get a "free pass" to "level the playing ground", so to speak?
I know two wrongs don't make a right, but in my world, cheating is all sorts of wrong so at that point, the rule book gets tossed out the window. I say... if you don't walk away, that bastard (or bitch) still needs to feel some sort of punishment for their wrongdoing so they know what kind of emotional hell they put you through!
So what's you guys' take on this? Have you ever been in this situation before? If not, what do you think you would do?