Getting Divorced - Re-Committed to the Gym

Im actually happy to annouce that Im getting divorced. The last year of my life has been filled with so much drama, Im sick of it....What once seemed like a promising union has turned into disaster and total disgust.

I did the unthinkable and got married due to a pregnancy which I resisted from the start of the marriage talk. I eventually gave in and after a year of being together, less than a year of marriage I sent her packing.

I have a great relationship with my ex-wife (we have a son together) and my wife told me she no longer accepted my relationship with my ex and my son...that meant it was time to go...

Ironically my wife told me she hoped we could have the same kind of relationship to raise our son (my newborn 9wks old)....I laughed..She wants the same thing she hates..she is delusional..(no offense ladies)..

So I'm recommitted to the gym, been on the treadmill the last couple of mornings for 2.5 miles trying to get lean and start from the ground up. Im sitting at 194lbs and feel like Im carrying a small spare tire around my waist..

Im going to the store today to do a massive overhaul on cleaning up my diet from the reading I've done on the board. Im hoping my IGF I got from the Lottery drawing will help me get going again and then move to the good stuff...BULKING!...

Im glad things are finally over between her and I, but it doesnt take away that I miss the companionship from time to time...being alone and 2500 miles from home sucks sometimes, but means I will be in the gym much more than ever...

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Your life sounds like mine... haa haa. The gym saves bro. I think id be insane without it.

I am happy for you- I know what a relief it was when I got fed up and divorced.
Things happen for a reason and you will be a better person from it.
Good luck.

Thanks guys..I appreciate the support, I really do.

I read the average male sleeps with 13 women in between relationships, who is going to be lucky NUMBER 1?...lol

actually Im in no hurry to mess around right now..although it is funny..

im a member of the divorce club too bro! I was married at 23 divorced at 24. You gotta remember women are all the same, they just look different. Women come and go but the iron will always be there for you. Any chance you can move closer to home?

women go through life looking to change men and never do, and men go through life hoping women never change, and they always do....... or something like that, lol

As long as your happy bro. Not to sound redundant, but it will get better, you'll see. Time will take care of it. Learn from your lesson, and dont do it again, lol!

Bro I've been there, but it wasn't my choice. In 5 seconds my life crumbled b/c I didn't pay attention to the signs that my wife was fucking an old married guy for money and didn't want to be with me anymore.
I made HUGE improvements in the gym and I wouldn't go back to my old life for anything. I was wealthy when I was married with a near 200K a year job which I hated. I know make 1/3 of that, but have more money! I also have 50lbs more muscle, a smoking hot awesome g/f that actually cares about me, and a job I actually like.

h8tr3d said:

As long as your happy bro. Not to sound redundant, but it will get better, you'll see. Time will take care of it. Learn from your lesson, and dont do it again, lol!

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Thanks brutha...

I left for a while today, I knew she was coming to pack some of her stuff....I came home and it was nearly empty...slightly depressing...I know time heals all wounds...I just wish it would hurry up..

depression = time to go to the gym...

tatzoo said:

Thanks brutha...

I left for a while today, I knew she was coming to pack some of her stuff....I came home and it was nearly empty...slightly depressing...I know time heals all wounds...I just wish it would hurry up..

depression = time to go to the gym...

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Exactly, better than the bullshit the doctor will give you that will fuck your mind up for good. Nothing like some good old heavy iron to make things better.

tatzoo said:

Thanks guys..I appreciate the support, I really do.

I read the average male sleeps with 13 women in between relationships, who is going to be lucky NUMBER 1?...lol

actually Im in no hurry to mess around right now..although it is funny..

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Im working on #4.... Not officially divorced yet, signed the papers 2 weeks ago.... so, i guess im on the fast plan.

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normalsucks said:

Im working on #4.... Not officially divorced yet, signed the papers 2 weeks ago.... so, i guess im on the fast plan.

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Pace yourself Norm, don't want to tire yourself out too soon.

normalsucks said:

Im working on #4.... Not officially divorced yet, signed the papers 2 weeks ago.... so, i guess im on the fast plan.

:thumbsup:

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you filthy whore!!

tatzoo... just get out and find some ass.

tatzoo said:

Thanks guys..I appreciate the support, I really do.

I read the average male sleeps with 13 women in between relationships, who is going to be lucky NUMBER 1?...lol

actually Im in no hurry to mess around right now..although it is funny..

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How many women does the average male sleep with during relationships!!!!

And Tatz man, dont forget the saying, and it is very much true and has helped me many times...The best way to get OVER someone, is to get UNDER someone else!

^^^lol^^

the gym deff saves after divorce...after mine i was a mess and getting back into the gym really helped me focus on myself.

The gym has always been my way to get over someone or some rough times, you can give that bitch hell and never hear her complain about anything or fuss that you're away

tatzoo said:

Thanks guys..I appreciate the support, I really do.

I read the average male sleeps with 13 women in between relationships, who is going to be lucky NUMBER 1?...lol

actually Im in no hurry to mess around right now..although it is funny..

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The average huh? That's surprising, I'd like to see what the average woman is up to