General Question

Hey ladies. just wonderin about some advice to give to a good friend of mine. She thinks she is falling out of love with her boyfriend and doesnt know what to do.. Im not sure what to say to her . I dont want to say the wrong thing and then I dont know .. feel like I ruined her life!!!!!

Hmm, that's a tough one.  I've been in the same boat.  Maybe she should take some apart from him for a bit and see if that helps her clear her head and see if she really is losing love, or whether it's something else.

I agree with Fitnessgirl19, i also was in the same situation, i took some time away from him, to see if i loved him enough(or still) to not be with him, and it ended up that i was with him so long, but i still loved him, but i needed to be by myself for a while. I don't know if that's the same thing, or if that's what your friend should do, but i figured out my feelings in the long run, and it took a lot of time, and hurt...but i knew in the end...hope that helps a little.

when she askes you for advice, you have to play devils advocate there.. ask her why she thinks she maybe falling out of love or why she thinks she still is in love. what does she like in him. what does she not.
it's a touchy situation when someone asks for your opinion on things.. if she breaks up with him and later regrets it they she can try to blame your advise. or if she stays and later hates him.. and she stayed on your advise then she can try to blame you.. as stupind as that is some people will try to place the blame on someone else..
the best thing you can do as a friend.. let her talk and talk.. listen to her.. and let her own words advise her.. sometimes people speak the answers themselves yet do no see it.. until someone points it out to them.
as long as there is no physical/ mental abuse going on.. it's best to let her figure it out on her own.. and be a good friend to back her with her desicions and listen when she needs to talk and answer only when it's really needed.

sasha

Thanks Ladies

anytime.....