No matter where I go people stare at me. I am not a showoff and just want to go about my business like everyone else. I do not dress risque, mostly tank tops, shorts and flip flops but people always stare. Good stares or bad stares does not matter to me, I get both. What I wonder is who raised these people? When I see an obese person, or a person with a deformity, or someone with rainbow colored hair I do not stare. I have some class. What makes people think it is ok to openly stare at someone? I try not to give a shit but sometimes when I am just trying to live my life, I just want to live it like everyone else.
I Hate Being Stared At!
- Thread starter Jenn
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The Dude
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I get it alot and I'm not that big. I never know why they are staring, the act itself is obvious and also bothers me. Personally I may take a quick look at someone with a good physique, but I agree how people think its OK to stare at us, but not anyone with any issues. How about it's just not polite to stare period...
its cause your so sexy , they just cant help themselves! lol
exbeanpole
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Most accurate statement I've heard in a while!
Wish I'd learned this a long time ago!
Pharm_Fed
MuscleChemistry Registered Member
This.
Getting stares is to be expected when you strive to be something out of the norm. Comes with the territory. Just have to work on not letting it bother you.
Mrbigz
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Jenn I am in the same. Boat and feel the same as you. Can't stand people who stare, and to make it worse at the gym I'm at there is a mentally handicap dude named Robert who's been pumpin iron for bout two years, I think he's the koolest little dude ever man, we train back together every week. People, stare at us both constantly and I know make stupid comments. I told a girl last month she was a real piece of shit for laughing at us, stupid girl started cry, it made my day!
Lightsout
MuscleChemistry Registered Member
What the hell is the matter with people? Glad you put her in her place!
Obese people are starting to become the norm which is crazy. I just think it is rude. Dude was with us tonight and felt a little odd due to all the staring as well. I don't do this for attention, I do this because I love it. Obese people do it cuz they love to eat, I don't stare at em. Maybe I'll just start wearing a posing suit under all of my clothes and when this happens I will just strip down and start flexing!:bber:
Guess it's not just the staring it's just how many people in society seem to be raised wrong.
The Dude
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I have to be honest. Other than it being a completely in appropriate venue, being stone sober, not having access to posing trunk, and the fact that Silk would've killed me..... I would've stripped down to posing trunks for everyone. Even the deputy at the door had a smart ass remark in reference to steroids when I walked past. I just don't get it. I don't look over the top or even exceptional and I'm polite and courteous.... Now I'm rambling.
You're kidding me!!! I didn't hear it, what an ass. He is jealous of your sexy body Dude
Rep
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I get it ALL THE TIME. Its bc I work at a hospital and they are VERY rude about it. They feel 100% Im doing something wrong, unethical and I should be ashamed. I change the subject or walk away. Its not worth it to bring myself down to there level. I do remeber one time this lady was saying that my shoulders looked un-natural and my arms were too big and gross. I told her that I thought they looked normal compared to my penis, now that thing is too big and un-natural looking, lol. I did it with the most business like face and walked away. Still to this day, I wonder what she thinks when she walks by
I love full sleeves, if I wasn't competing I would love to have them.
Zeus
MuscleChemistry Registered Member
To be honest and you all may not believe me when I say this but, the stairing doesn't bother as much as the constant getting hit on our sexual comments. Dnt get me wrong, sometimes it's flatering, but most of the time it's like a fckn piece of meat!!!!! That doesn't turn me on at all. I mean is it really nessisary to tell me how bad you want to feel my cock inside you and not have a fckn clue who I am????? Our the fckn wann taste me shit. I mean when I was young and dumb oh fck yeah, but I'm older and wiser not to mention taken and don't appreciate these type of comments.
The Dude
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I know it bro!! Silk grabs on to my sausage every chance she gets!! You'd think there were no other sources of protein!! Damn it, I have feelings LOL!!
Bit off topic but what I have realised is that only bodybuilders will ever understand bodybuilding. Sadly, to most of the lay public we will always be seen as insecure or masking feelings of inadequacy in some way - something that is utterly untrue. Bodybuilding is something ethereal; it represents the pursuit of one's own image of physical perfection. I don't stare at the fat fucks in public or even worse, make remarks like "wow, stuffing your face again I see!" so it is saddening to hear when people I have NEVER MET always make snide remarks about anabolics...They were fuckin' doing it already when I was in high school as I developed really quickly so I was used to it before I started juicing LOL - my skin had to thicken from a young age.
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