A woman ever liked you but was unable to tell?

SnotChewer

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As said on the subject header, ever had a girl that dug you big time, almost like a crush, but you were unable to tell?

What im really wondering is if a girl ever dug you but she gave you all the wrong signs and shit. Like she would try to avoid your space in a way. Or kinda ignore what you had to say. Looking the other way from you, etc.


Im interested on what you bros have to say. This thread is spun off from another thread, so I decided to a make new one so there. ;)

Here is a paste and copy from my example.

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Speaking of women, I can relate to one of the posters above. I can always tell if a chick likes a guy, whether it be my friends, family, an acquantaince, whomever.

But when it comes to me, and maybe because im a cynic in some ways when it comes to these girls, Im a shitty evaluator when it comes time to tell if a girl digs me or not.

Im not the macho nor am I the player type that will hit on a woman regardless of what she thinks of me. I like to make my move once I know a chick digs me.

I remember a girl at camp (this was during high school, way back) who would intentionally seperate herself from me. I mean, somehow when it came time for group activities we would be paired up in either pairs or in a small group.

She would always try to distance herself or look the other way from me, or pretty much ignore what I was saying. We would sit at the picnic table and as soon as I sat in front of her, she would move into another seat. THen one day, boom. I won't go into details, but let's say I lost my virginity that time and she came in strong unto me. Like as if I was her major crush or something.

Then there are other instances when I think a girl likes me, and the opposite end result happens. Vice-Versa
 
yeah bro, ive been there. some times a woman will try to be discreet with her signals. sometimes they are insecure about themselves and want you to approach them. ive been through this a couple times in my younger days. i had a couple of the finest women ive ever known have a crush on me. but i didnt realize until it was too late, but i can look back and see those little hints. now if i think a chick might be halfway interested im gonna find out for sure. like ive heard before YOU MISS 100% OF THE SHOTS YOU DONT TAKE.
 
I think age plays an important role too. The younger ones sometimes lack confidence or are inexperienced. The older they get the wiser they get. This also applies to us. If I knew now back when I was young, watchout ladies!!!!!
 
happened to me once w/ this fine ass girl. it was such a shame, she ended up being my worst enemy cause she liked me so much, and i couldnt read the signs that she liked me, big miscommunication problem. it sucked cause i hell liked her too.
 
Can't say that this ever happened to me... I'd hit on anything that moved before I got married ;)

Got shot down a lot, but scored with some that I would NEVER have believed. Like an old girlfriend's mom... Very interesting older lady. FREAK!!! Menopausal women go through the same shit that the bald guy driving the Porsche is going through. They just want to be wanted. Eager to please :eek:

Oh, sorry for the tangent. That would suck. We only have a certain amount of pooty we're going to get in our lives. It's a shame when some that was in the win column gets away :mad:
 
I hate all this crap. If things get that complex I'll bail out no matter how much I like her. I'd rather stay alone than.

Things like that are stress and I think relations are supposed to be relaxing.

Damn I really really hate it that it has to be so complex. I really would want a girlfriend again, because its been a while, but if it is gonna be like that... than nah...

Why can't it all just be easier. I like you... you like me... well then lets get togheter and have some fun.
 
Damn,
sometimes i wish i was gay.

I have recently had a girl that was the exact opposite. very forward and...felt me up at work all the time. guess there wasn't too much doubt about that. lol

I prefer the agressive ones!
 
bro i get that shit all the time when girls like u but they act wierd with u. i notice some times when i really have a hard crush on someone i do the same shit.
 
personally,
i think that girls find someone fun and uninhibited more attractive than just about anything.

alpha male i suppose. ive definately noticed much more positive responses from girls just by playing things cool. and DONT compliment chicks that are little hotties and know it!

They have heard it all, and just think youre a sap and have little options...

nice guys do finish last....
 
I also find that girls generally wont do the asking out...

but they will give you signals to do so...

such as touching and brushing up against you "accidentally" Im not even sure if they are aware when they do that... and of course smiling a lot around you...
 
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u think it would be better if u were gay. but i dont think getting fucked in the ass feels that good.
MAYBE HE WAS TOO BIG MAD CHEMIST:eek:
 
PLUSA said:
I also find that girls generally wont do the asking out...

but they will give you signals to do so...

such as touching and brushing up against you "accidentally" Im not even sure if they are aware when they do that... and of course smiling a lot around you...

We are aware.. its called flirting
 
hey enchantra, how often would you say women flirt when they have no intention of hookin up w/ a guy?

i know theres lots who flirt w/ every guy just to feel liked, but those arent as common.
 
Hmm I guess it all depends on the girl.. There are allot of girls that will flirt with anything to get something: ie: at a bar=drinks. I only flirt if I'm attracted to the guy. Its usually an ice breaker for me to let them know that Im interested, but I dont ignore them or act like Im not interested.. that makes no sense to me sounds like head games and to much drama for me:D
 
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