- What should I do ? -

Yes, its me again and I have another question regarding me and my girlfriend. I never been in this situation before. As you may already know, I wrote a thread about me and my gf havign a fight at times, and I got some nice responses from you guys. However, I talked to her last night, and we made an agreement that we wont fight anymore, she agreed and I did too. She told me, lets put all this behind us. And I did so. She lives 56 miles from me, if you drive it usually takes you about 1. hour to get over there, it depends how busy the traffic is..anyways, sometimes she doesn't have a time for me I guess. I can't drive every single day to her, but we do see eachother, we talk on the phone, and communicate on the internet via AIM, etc..

I really never loved anyone like I love her right now. I want to be in a stable long relationship, and I'm not sure if shes ready for that. I'm waiting all day long, just to see her online, so we could make plans for us, but no she comes online for like 5 mins, tells me all sweet words and just leaves.. she tells me she loves me, and all that stuff but I don't know how am I supposed to believe her. I have alot of problems going on in my personal life, and there she comes.. messing with my mind. Is there any way, I can do something about this, is she really for me ?

Tell here exactly what you just wrote and see how she responds to it. Be prepared for the worst just incase. If you can work it out, great. If not, it is better to know no than to keep on going like this. Life is too short.

Make this a short decision bro!! Girls messing with your mind is the worst trouble and pain you can get into in this life IMHO. Do as mac says and tell her straight from the heart what you have told us.

If you find she cannot or wil not offer you the realtionship that you want, then leave her be, no matter how hard it is. Otherwise you'll end up with a pretty bad case of brokenheartritis!!! And it hurts like hell, trust me on that!!!

I hope it works out fine! Never let girls mess with your mind. Everytime I find someone who does that with me again, I dump her from the start. I've been there, and I never want to go back!

bro i understand so dont take this personally but you need help

Bro, it sounds like you have some trust issues. Try focusing on training, school, or whatever else. Hang out with your boys. Just give it a rest, and see if she comes after you. You don't want to put too much time or energy into something when the feelings aren't mutual, you know?

Whatever you do, just don't pressure someone into something too fast. You got your whole life to decide these kind of things. You should be having fun right now. Good Luck!

BSF

dump the bitch

Women... can't live with them and can't live without them... and a guy wonders why some turn gay!!!

keep her on the side for the sex but other than that get your ass in the gym hell I don't even bother with my girl till the weekend anyway girls cut into training time