my dating life (I just need to vent a little)

cybersteffan

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I never had many girlfiends in my life. Hell I only had my first when I was 21. I'm now almost 25 and I have finally discovered the world of dating.

I managed to go out with 15 different girls the past 5 weeks. But I don't know what's wrong. The dates never are a real match for both or a total knock-off for both. 12 of the 15 wanted me, but I didn't want them. The three I wanted, didn't want me. It sucks.

And what is this hunting feeling about? I am developping a strange sense of girl hunger. Where I always wanted a serious realtionship I now just wanna seduce them and when they fall for it and I can have them, I don't want them anymore. I find this not too healthy, but I just can't seem to help myself with this feeling.

Anyway I got 5 more dates coming up this week. Two of them bluntly said they wanted to screw me for a night and nothing more. Obviously I'll accept the challenge. One is a bit of a fat chick, but I think she is gonna be really good in the sack. The other is quite beautifull.

Anyway I am feeling lost. This doesn't seem to be it. But I just can't help it.

 
Your just going through a wild stage, hit as many as you can, but it sounds like you have a conscience about messing around with girls you don't care about. You will find someone to settle down with later.
 
Harvey Balboner said:
it sounds like you have a conscience about messing around with girls you don't care about.

Very correct actually. I am really scared about hurting people. I don't like to get hurt myself.
 
cyberstefke said:


Very correct actually. I am really scared about hurting people. I don't like to get hurt myself.
I understand that completely!! I'm not the type that can do that..even if she's willing I'm still skeptical! I feel like what i'm doing is wrong! I'm also the type who doesn't like to date more than 1 girl at a time...I'm such An Idiot!
FLAMERS GO FOR IT...but be gentle :(
 
Hey, I never date more than one at a time either. Some of the girls I still go out with as just friends, but that's not dating. I'm currently seeing one girl quite often now, but she doesn't seem interested. Because I'm interested in her, I indeed feel quite akward about going out with these other girls this week.

I'll probably be direct. I'll ask her tomorrow if she onlywants to be good friends, and if this is the case... I'll tell her honestly that the search goes on and I'll tell her about the coming dates.
 
i think you respect women too much bro. im not saying women dont deserve respect, but the ones that that outright say they wanna get dickd down get no respect, just hit it and dont call them again, thats what they want.

hell, on saturday me and my bud made these 3 girls look like straight whores. met them at a club, 2 were sisters, 1 a freind, 2 w/ boyfirends who werent there.

we passed them back and forth between us sucking on thier titties outside on the street in fron of the club w/ like 50 people out there. of course they went home w/ us too.

were they tripping about getting demeaned in front of so many people? heel no. they wanted to be whores that night so we treated them like it.

do i normally do things like that? no. i was just having fun, and treating a few girls how they wanted to be treated.

its really no big deal. but i feel you on when its too easy its not appealing anymore, and i too have a prob where girls want me and i dont want them, or i want them and they aint intrested. eventually well meet girls worth our mutual time.
 
Hey cyberstefke

Don't worry the right one will come along. Guess the phrase all men are pigs applies to women too. We are all human. Just if your going to have fun be sure to protect yourself.

Best way to find a decent girl is to stop looking. Your so busy dating all these girls when the right one is infront of you, cant see it. Oh and the Movie "Something about Mary" has the right idea. Get the baby batter off the brain.
 
whats the problem--i would have fucked everyone of them--you're young, dumb, and full of cum--use that cock before it falls off--but i am jaded about the opposite sex lately--so advise from me should be taken with that in mind
 
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GUE is the way to get more boodie!!
It works every time!

Go ,Ugly, Early =GUE

Sorry - Get married - fuck that dating bullshit
 
Fat chicks are like mopeds fun to ride you just don't want your friends to see you on it. Damn cyber just keep a banging till the time comes for mrs right and even then it's not always what it seems. It's a fu(ked up world out there just take care of #1 yourself cause no one else is gonna.
 
No prob bro I've been through the mill a few times even lost 2 kids thanks to 1 bitch. Sometimes I just fuggin hate women. Off to work now and then anger management classes LMAO
 
Hey Cyberstefke, Im in the same position as you. I was in a relationship for 4 years from 19 yrs old and when we split i went crazy for 2 years. This is actually about the time i started experimenting more with the weights and fitness etc.

The one night loose screwing shit gets boring too after a while and you want a more complete girlfriend. If you were in a steady relationship, trust me you'd wanna f*ck every female with a pulse!

Just go with the flow and dont stress about anything.
 
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