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MandalorE
09-25-2002, 07:47 PM
Ok bro's here's the situation. I have the most beautiful girlfriend in the world. I love her so much, and I'll do anything for her. We are pretty much straight with eachother, no secrets whatsoever.
I was using steroids, and I was on a cycle...then she didn't like what I was doing, so for her's sake I stopped using..as and didn't finish my cycle. I sold some stuff that I had left, and threw some too. I didn't lie to her or anything, I told her straight out that I'm not using them, and she noticed it. Now, I feel that motivation again, to get big...and I want to have another good strong bulking cycle again. But here's the problem. I have to choose, her or steroids.. this is really the biggest decision of my life, althrough I would choose her no question asked about it... she's the first thing in my mind... but just your opinion what would you do..and please don't say do it behing her back.. I tell her the truth all the time....she told me I look fine right now, but I'm so confused... I love her so much... but I can't forget on how AS did a good job on my body... .. so if you have anything to add to this..please do...

thanks.. to all my fine bro's...

unbreakable001
09-25-2002, 08:07 PM
Sit down with her and have her read everything she can about steroids. Tell her what you plan on doing and why. If she still says no and if you think that she is the one and only for you, then the hell with steroids.

46and2aheadofme
09-25-2002, 08:08 PM
Print out all the literature you can find about safe steroid use, I'm talking hundreds of pages, tell her to read it all, and tell her that if she still thinks it's dangerous you won't do them. She's putting her foot down on an issue she knows nothing about. Knowledge is power, educate yourself on WHY steroids are safe and HOW to use them in a safe manner, then explain it to her. If I was dating a girl that was unwilling to at least listen to my explanation or read a few studies before saying "them or me", I could easily say goodbye. Your relationship sounds more involved, so you need to either convince her of the truth or bow to her pressure and don't do the AS. Whatever you do, be truthful.

silent
09-25-2002, 08:14 PM
Sounds like you have answer the question in your post. But if you want do what the others stated and get all the positive information that you can and try to get her to understand. Not saying it will be easy or anything but it's worth a try.

mcinfo
09-25-2002, 08:19 PM
What is it that she doesn’t like about AS.
· Legal issues
· Health issues
· Moral drug use stuff
· Did you have sides she didn’t like

You need to have this info if your going to “sell” this idea to her.
Be prepared to discuss everything honestly and sit her down.

If that doesn’t work then screw it she being selfish - Juice up and get two girlfriend to take you mind off her. J/K
Communication is the best solution.

TAZ
09-25-2002, 08:34 PM
Women are a pain in the ass.

Take all that money that you blow on her taking her out to dinner and shit and go find yourself a nice prostitute. At least then you know what its going to cost you to get screwed and you don't have to listen to um bitch. If you’re broke, there is always masturbation. Don’t lie though bro. It always comes back to bite you in the ass.


BTW my wife is watching me post this. She dosen't find it as amusing as I do.

TAZ

superman1975
09-25-2002, 08:35 PM
its sounds like a no brainer--you seem to have really good relationship--if she doesnt want you using gear then dont--i lost 6.5 yrs of my life because i wasnt completely honest with my X and i regret it every day

pumpseeker
09-25-2002, 08:53 PM
Originally posted by unbreakable001
Sit down with her and have her read everything she can about steroids. Tell her what you plan on doing and why. If she still says no and if you think that she is the one and only for you, then the hell with steroids.

I agree. I bet she won't mind (or she'll get used to the idea) after you educate her and maybe even sell her on the idea it's not so bad.

Good luck....I know it isn't easy! My wife bitches about it all the time but at least she accepts it.

RAZZ
09-25-2002, 09:32 PM
Hell let her come here and read up then if you can't talk her in to it leave her ass!!!No realy if she learns about AS she will under stand.Hell it is no diff than her going to get a face lift or a boob job

diggi
09-26-2002, 12:11 AM
xx

fitnessbuff
09-26-2002, 12:24 AM
dude, she has to except you for who you are. If she doesnt except it, tell her to take a hike. ;)

notacow
09-26-2002, 01:50 AM
All I heard was “she didn't like what I was doing”. What is that?
Did she bitch you out 24/7 until you gave in? (just kidding) or was she super nice about it: “please darling…. “?

You have to ask yourself “does she love me as much as I love her?” If she does then she’ll be reasonable. If she DOESN’T then your relationship is DOOMED.

This is what you should do (IMHO) . Tell her you are going to start a cycle, say 2 weeks from next Thursday. Tell her “I love you very much, but I love myself too, and I think we can get through this.” Be firm. Don’t argue too hard. Be prepared with lots of information (I like 46and2aheadofme’s 100’s of pages idea, in previous post). Be reasonable and clear headed at all times. Be prepared to lose the argument.

If she is not reasonable, will not discuss it, you should have doubts about your future with her. When the day comes, tell her you’re starting, but don’t actually start (a tiny lie, because once you start you can’t stop instantly) see if she really really really wants to break up. Or if she's bluffing.

I think you can get through it. Good luck.

GetnBigr
09-26-2002, 08:55 AM
tough one bro---

talk about it, it'll work itself out