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    Personality...seriously...

    Does this mean I'm gay?

    lol

    Really though, its a mixture of both...
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    Hell, I don't know how to honestly answer this, I think it has to be a balance of both. To me my wife is beautiful, and the nicest person I know. I would lean more toward personality.
     

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    If you're talking about a serious girlfirend or a wife... personality all the way... but if it is just a fuck? Looks, looks, looks.
     

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    I think people first would lean torwards looks and then want that personality real quick...LOL

    Thats one of the good things about the internet, you can meet a person and find that you're a perfect match, w/out even knowing how they look. Although, I can see how that can back fire also. I can just picture going to meet what you think is the girl of your dreams, and there she is She-zilla!!!...lol
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    lol winnie. Or else they could be more than u could ever imagine.


    I use to go for looks first, but, then I met shawn on the internet on another site flirting with a hundred girls and got to know him and his thoughts. Then he started to concentrate more on me and sent me a pic after a long time and I just knew that he was for me. He turned out to be a hunk with a killer bod. u just never know.

    I never thought that I would meet up with someone from the internet becuase there's too many guys in real life always around. And I would never tell anyone who knows us that we met that way either.lol

    If we broke up, I would be for personality over looks now. Someone's personality can make them beautiful.
     

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    Looks are the original attractor, but personality is what you end up missing if it's lacking. I dated probably the hottest girl I've ever seen in real life about 6 years ago, but she was MEAN to say the least. Sadly, as fun as she was to gawk over, the relationship fizzled......
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    Personality- for sure.. granted a hot guy is a certain perk- but if he can make me happy- and laugh alot.. hes in!
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    Personality.. if he can't mentally stimulate me, he's not making it to the lil black book for rating *lmao* j/k
    I'd hafta say I echo Nicole's answer.
    My ex was hott.. been there, did that.
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    isnt it a given?
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    looks for starters.
    personality for longevity.
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    It has to be a mixture of both, but I would rather be with a good looking girl with a great personality, than a drop dead beautiful girl that is a bitch.
     

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    "It has to be a mixture of both, but I would rather be with a good looking girl with a great personality, than a drop dead beautiful girl that is a bitch."

    Bingo !!!
     

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    Originally posted by Nicole
    Personality- for sure.. granted a hot guy is a certain perk- but if he can make me happy- and laugh alot.. hes in!
    Hey did ya hear the one about..........?
     

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    this is tough. He can be hot as hell and have a shitty attitude. I just can't put up with that. I got lucky Presser has both. He's a hottie and he's got a great personality!!

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    Default Re: Looks or personality

    Originally posted by Presser
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    what did you pick?? LOL!!

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    looks at first,but if the personality is shit then goodbye.
     

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    gotta have looks to draw the initial attention, but after that the personality has to be there as well
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    Form what I understand from most you married guys that the women withhold sex and basically turn in the personality category i am going for looks. Never having been married I dunnno.

    Remember beauty is in the beholders eye, so if you be holding her from behind doggie style she probably looks good.

    All the chicks probably think Im a jerk. Pretty girls often or sometimes lack personality or inteligence, but what I find is that I care more about the person inside then there ability to be the life of the party or dinner event.

    I like the little cute things they say or do that some might not even notice.

    But then as Sam kinison said SHE REACHED IN AND PULLED OUT MY FUCKING HEART!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    AAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

    Thank you mr helper, where you there fighting the commmies well I was aaaahhhhhhh aaaahhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!
     

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    looks--but i am shallow
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    Originally posted by superman1975
    looks--but i am shallow
    At least you admit it!
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    Originally posted by Nicole
    At least you admit it!

    baby you are the best of both worlds---so thats why i luv ya so much
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    Awww!! Your charming the pants off me!
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    Looks. My wife has all the personality I care to think about. I wish she were really dumb, and way hot. If I want conversation, I'll talk to my dog.

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    Originally posted by Nicole
    Awww!! Your charming the pants off me!

    hell i figured it was a done deal already for when ya fly in---you get off the plane go to alien8r's call me and then we get busy hahahahahahahah
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    Im serious u cant date someone your not attracted too.

    Lets see if it were a hot girl whos dumb, and a girl with a good personality but a double bagger which would u pick
     

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    LOOKS AT FIRST SIGHT, BUT IF DATING THEN DEFINTELY WOULD BE THE PERSONALITY, B/C YOU HAVE ALREADY APPROVED OF THEIR LOOKS!!!
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    Looks. They gotta look good to find out if they have personality!
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    Looks get me started but it's a good personality that will keep me around.
     

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    Originally posted by auriflex
    Looks. My wife has all the personality I care to think about. I wish she were really dumb, and way hot. If I want conversation, I'll talk to my dog.
    bwahahahaha
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    I would have to say looks. You have to be physically attracted to a person before you would be willing to find out if your attracted to their personality.
     

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    i used to think that looks was all that but since i have been with a hottie who has a difficult personality i would go for a good personality is a second
     

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    i second Mr. Balboner, however the keyword here is "dating".

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    Originally posted by Spanishfly
    He's a hottie and he's got a great personality!!
    Hmmmmm, you sure about that? LoL, J/K bro.....
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    I chose personality. Looks are what first attracts me to a women though. But she can be gorgeous and dumb as a rock and it would never last.
    Now if we are talking for a one nighter then its looks all the way...
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    Personality-But I am in this for the long haul-Only people who have not been married a while would pick looks. Beauty fades-But a good conversation can last forever. Anyways my wife is hot+smart=Happy Rugby
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    Originally posted by rugbythug
    Only people who have not been married a while would pick looks.
    Hahahahaha!

    I laugh because it's so hard to cry online.
     

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    Sorry but looks are part of personality. If a women ignores her looks, dresses dumpy or is fat as hell it says miles about her personality.
     

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    Originally posted by gymrat
    looks for starters.
    personality for longevity.
    Exsaktly!
     

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    My GF has both shes the most beautiful one of all of them,and her personality is the best.i have never felt this way about anyone.
    she thinks she over weight but looks and personality are the best
    I love her just for her....
     

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    Did the looks thing for a long time and found absolutely no substance. Maybe that one girl but who the F cares now.
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    I'd have to agree with LA and say that looks are a big part of personality. I dont think I could respect a person much who didnt give a shit how they look/eat/dress/smell/whatever. Someone who doesnt take care of themselves is probably someone with low self-esteem and we all know how fun it is to be with someone with a bad self image!

    BUT, if the person takes good care of themself, respects themself, and just doesnt happen to be graced with good genes, I think that would show through and make them attractive to me (as long as he had tons of cash, drove a kick ass car, and was markedly older than I was! HA! ).
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    I would have to say personality, I like a great looking guy, but I don't want to be with someone that doesn't have a good personality.
     

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    Originally posted by Munkeee de Sade
    I would have to say personality, I like a great looking guy, but I don't want to be with someone that doesn't have a good personality.
    Yeah but you got the complete package, a great personality, and I'm a stud to boot.
     

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    Originally posted by Harvey Balboner
    Yeah but you got the complete package, a great personality, and I'm a stud to boot.

    Yeah, well what are you going to do?

    Harvey you are a great looking guy with a awsome peersonality I am a lucky woman!
     

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    To me personality is the critical factor. A woman must be smart, have a good sense of humor, and be compatible in many ways. However, having said that, I must admit that I have to find the woman to be attractive (beautiful).
     

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    BTW I'm on board with LA and T82's assertion that there is a link between looks and personality. I mean, look at what we do, could you relate to a woman who didn't take care of her body (or a man who didn't if you are a woman)?
    Last edited by sundevil; 08-02-2003 at 06:04 AM.
     

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    Doesn't matter how good the personality is if I'm not attracted to the person forget it.
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    A little bit of both I need but when you get a ok lookin girl with a great personality you will fall in love everytime. At least I will.
     

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    Personality! When a guy has the best attitude, funny, attentive, smart, considerate, loving - that is sexy and out of this world.
    A good looking guy that is an ass eventually ends up looking like an ass too.
     

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