I would rather satisfy my partner, I love the expressions and warmth of a sexy,turned on woman. I would have to say pleasing a woman and making her orgasm that way is the most gratifying experience I have ever had. I enjoy giving oral and pleasing her and it really turns me on in the process, and when she almost to that point then i take it further and please her other ways.
I guess getting it is OK, It turns me on but its not as enjoyable as most think, It definately a turn on to have a woman please you that way, but pleasing is my main pleasure I feel like an orgasm donar.
LOL (no sick jokes guys..I know what you nasty asses are thinking)