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12-01-2003, 02:02 AM #1striderMuscleChemistry Unregistered User
who would have a fling if your other never found out?
Now this is a touchy subject but I heard that women now cheat a lot because they are more active in the workplace and have more flings.
Now I dont know the truth to this but I know people. who would have a fling,just as an opinion only, If your significant other never found out and you were safe, even for one time,night,or other?
This is not to get anyone in trouble so just post if you wish to so I can take a small guess if its true.
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12-01-2003, 11:03 AM #2
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Never....I have had chances but I would never do anything that would hurt my wife even if she wouldn't ever know. I would still know I did it and couldn't live with that thought. About all I have is my word. If I break that promise then I have nothing.
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Originally posted by body2see
however when she's drunk, she has surprised me with things she has done before...thus I cant 100% trust her...so it's either beat her to the punch or be beaten to the punch...
Some of the nicest girls (or so you think) do some of the craziest things imaginable.
BUT, Im not married and dont think I could ever trust a woman enough to be.
For all the guys who still trust women on here....thou shall be envyed (sp?)
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12-13-2003, 05:08 PM #8
yes
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12-17-2003, 11:21 AM #13
"Body 2 See if my gf were sober she'd never cheat...however when she's drunk, she has surprised me with things she has done before...thus I cant 100% trust her...so it's either beat her to the punch or be beaten to the punch"
Hey Body if you want to bring her to chitown drinks are on me!
LOL !!
...besides in my opinion a variety of girls is necessary for a healthy mental sex life.
It seems like this can be so true....however it doesn't seem that way after the fact mentally or physically?
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12-18-2003, 12:15 PM #14
Think everyone is different. Are you married? or single? Have kids or not?
I agree most people would say no. However, if it was an 11 on a scale of 1-10 and the opportunity struck it's hard to say. Admitting you thought about it at least shows your human, then you have to do what you believe is right.
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I havent ever nor would I ever cheat. As said by many of the guys already, I would know I did it. PLus, imagine how badly it would hurt the person youre with if they knew the truth? I just wouldnt do that to another person even if the relationship wasnt going well. There are better ways to go about it if I wanted to be with someone else..........
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Man...I'm truly suprised at the amount of people that say they would not. I see and know way more people that can or would cheat than not.
That being said I must be in GOOD company here cuz I didn't cheat on Gf's when I was single and I Definatly would not mess up the Good Marrage I have now...for all the reasons that others mentioned earlier.
BTW- There are many Trusting Women out there. I found that most of them are not hangin in the Clubs where I was getting all the squeeze from.
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Originally posted by T82
I havent ever nor would I ever cheat. As said by many of the guys already, I would know I did it. PLus, imagine how badly it would hurt the person youre with if they knew the truth? I just wouldnt do that to another person even if the relationship wasnt going well. There are better ways to go about it if I wanted to be with someone else..........
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01-12-2004, 11:14 AM #22striderMuscleChemistry Unregistered User
Thanks for the replies
I appreciate all the feedback that everyone has given. most of you seem to be very happy in your marriage, or current relationship. I agree with you all but honestly sometimes I do think about being with another woman after all I am human and a male. I see an attractive woman and sometimes just daydream. I am very happy with my woman and she is watching me write this, she knows that all of you should show yours how much you love them by letting them read this post, if there is ever a doubt because its you own words and your own free will.
You have no reason to lie here you are accepted however and who ever you are.
You are all great people and for those that would or consider it, you need another mate, your unhappy or just need a different sexual encounter with your mate, its called boredom and you can change it. It will make a difference.
Thank you all for you replies and I am glad to see that everyone is basically happy with thier spouse or GF, need a little spice in your life talk about it and let it go wild from there it will help.
Honestly before you decide to cheat break up first or remember you will attract people like you, once a cheater always a cheater, you cant take it back once its done, and others may do it to you.
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Gotta say no but it is hard not to want to when the wife doesnt put out for a long damn time. I do think about it- but my wife is my very best friend and one night of passion is not worht messign up a life tiem of mariage.
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i wouldnt miss a wink of sleep...i buried my conscience ina shoe box in my back yard years ago
I am the irishman your mother warned you about.....
I dont have a girlfreind but i know a girl who would get really mad at me if she heard me say that...
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03-17-2007, 07:08 PM #28
some people may think that I'm contradicting myself here, but if I make a promise to see a girl only -I never have or will break that promise...
if I think they are cheating on me, I'll get rid of them
not worth wasting my time...no, I don't trust anyone but if I think a girl will break her promise then we date and that's it-if she gives me reason to suspect she's cheating on me-I dump her
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depends on how serious we are im like ip i could care less at this point all my relationships have gone down the shitter so i dont have many of them i just have the fuck buddy on the side or somethin of that nature.
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04-21-2007, 08:42 PM #30
nope, never, I love my girl too much and would never do that. Sorry IP i kno how much you want me too!
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Yea i have and probably always will cause women are scandaless! the nicest ones are sneaky, and the slutty ones are just that, no matter how nice you are. I think its more of a chance with younger women, because society teaches them, being a slut is "cool" and "date as many guys as you can". yeah, its a double standard, but if a girl gets caught, shes a hoe, and if a man gets caught, hes a pimp!! Guess im glad i was brought into this world as a man!!!!!!
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Originally Posted by irishpride
IP is my hero...but seriously, I think we've all buried our consciences to a point over the years. As far as cheating on my wife goes...I wouldn't. Had plenty of opportunities over the past few years and with things going the way they've gone I've realized that no matter how much a person thinks they want to get with someone else for whatever reason, if you do it while you are still in a relationship you will most likely regret it later as well as cause a lot of hurt. If you want to be in an open relationship make that known @ the beginning, if you decide this somewhere in the middle of a relationship get out of it, and if you've been married for awhile and are starting to get close to acting on these feelings ask yourself why and if it will really be worth it in the end...cause in my experience it very rarely is. I mean what is 10 minutes of sex compared to 10 years of marriage???
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