who would have a fling if your other never found out?

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Now this is a touchy subject but I heard that women now cheat a lot because they are more active in the workplace and have more flings.
Now I dont know the truth to this but I know people. who would have a fling,just as an opinion only, If your significant other never found out and you were safe, even for one time,night,or other?
This is not to get anyone in trouble so just post if you wish to so I can take a small guess if its true.
 
Never....I have had chances but I would never do anything that would hurt my wife even if she wouldn't ever know. I would still know I did it and couldn't live with that thought. About all I have is my word. If I break that promise then I have nothing.
 
I with saturn on this one. I have thought about it, but that is as close as I have come to cheating. I can't do it and wouldn't do it.
 
body2see said:
however when she's drunk, she has surprised me with things she has done before...thus I cant 100% trust her...so it's either beat her to the punch or be beaten to the punch...

Gotta agree 100% here with body on the gf thing

Some of the nicest girls (or so you think) do some of the craziest things imaginable.
BUT, Im not married and dont think I could ever trust a woman enough to be.

For all the guys who still trust women on here....thou shall be envyed (sp?)
 
The temptation and even offer has been there before..... But I can not cheat..... My guilty conciensce would kill me or drive me insane.... and it's just not worth it to hurt her like that....
 
"Body 2 See if my gf were sober she'd never cheat...however when she's drunk, she has surprised me with things she has done before...thus I cant 100% trust her...so it's either beat her to the punch or be beaten to the punch"

Hey Body if you want to bring her to chitown drinks are on me!

LOL !!

...besides in my opinion a variety of girls is necessary for a healthy mental sex life.


It seems like this can be so true....however it doesn't seem that way after the fact mentally or physically?
 
Think everyone is different. Are you married? or single? Have kids or not?

I agree most people would say no. However, if it was an 11 on a scale of 1-10 and the opportunity struck it's hard to say. Admitting you thought about it at least shows your human, then you have to do what you believe is right.
 
I have never met a woman that I felt I could trust. I would like to think they're out there tho...
 
I would...but only if my wife was watching. Maybe she would be tempted and decide it was a good idea to join in!!! Hey...whats wrong with dreamin?
 
I havent ever nor would I ever cheat. As said by many of the guys already, I would know I did it. PLus, imagine how badly it would hurt the person youre with if they knew the truth? I just wouldnt do that to another person even if the relationship wasnt going well. There are better ways to go about it if I wanted to be with someone else..........
 
Man...I'm truly suprised at the amount of people that say they would not. I see and know way more people that can or would cheat than not.
That being said I must be in GOOD company here cuz I didn't cheat on Gf's when I was single and I Definatly would not mess up the Good Marrage I have now...for all the reasons that others mentioned earlier.
BTW- There are many Trusting Women out there. I found that most of them are not hangin in the Clubs where I was getting all the squeeze from.
 
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