Getting married soon. Need advice.

The wife (soon to be) knows about the lifestyle, but has no clue about the cheating. So far cheating and gear have always been hand in hand. I dont have a problem during my cycles with aggression. I do have a major problem with libido. Id say that on cycle I seriously have a sexual addiction. Doesnt help that I still work at a bar, on occasion.

I've thought about trying things like bringing my test levels down to 500mgs (from 1g) and then on training days, spike it up with suspension. This way I wont have the same libido all the time.

does anyone have the same problem/ different solution? other than the obvious :arcade:

internet porn has been my saviour

i think you just need some self control. lol

yep i agree with noel self control, i have never once cheated on my wife, we been together 7 years now and i can say i could screw atleast once a day if she let me but i barely get it 3-4 times a week, so self control or paligamy is ur solution,lol

Yeah bro, we cool but I’ll tell you the same thing I’d tell my best friends: stop being a fucking sleaze bag prick…it’s not the gear dosage it’s you! Jesus, out of all the people in the world you betray the single most important person in your life? I don’t think you should be marrying this girl, as she’s obviously not that important to you.

My 2 cents

my advice norm is dont do it haha jk bro i know you got a good girl and hope everything goes well. im flyin in for the wedding by the way im givin a fuckin speech hit me up tomorrow sometime bro .

As a former bartender, I know how it is. Tempation is a MF! But if she is the one then you gotta resist. It will get easier the more hos you turn down! ha..

So no cycle advice? lol. I noticed the sexual addiction becomes worse the longer my cycles are. Im experimenting with short 8 week cycles. Im hoping that will help. Im completley normal when off cycle.

normalsucks said:

Im completley normal when off cycle.

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well, considering your screenname is "normalsucks".

sounds like you are your own problem. I can honesty say I understand, so when Im on, I just dont talk to attractive women if possible. I keep it business only. Once I get started, thats when the trouble begins.

You better get over the cheating or you won't be married long.

Presser said:

yep i agree with noel self control, i have never once cheated on my wife, we been together 7 years now and i can say i could screw atleast once a day if she let me but i barely get it 3-4 times a week, so self control or paligamy is ur solution,lol

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Yeah self control is something you need to find AND QUICK. I would NEVER cheat on my fiance and it doesnt matter how much gear I'm running. Running gear doesnt give you an excuse to cheat.

The addiction is not just physical it's also mental. Lowering test dosage wont make a difference.

You have many options.

1. Seek proffesional help.
2. Come clean with your woman and move on having sex with whomever you want.
3. Continue cheating and live with the pissible consequences of destroying that womans life.
4.Ask your woman if she's open to other woman in the sack.
5. Be honest.
6. Seek proffesional help...........

Sex addiction is common.

Dude, I been there and I ruined a 3 year relationship. Nowadays im honest and tell woman exactly what im looking for and I dont play with peoples lives. Imagine what it would feel like if your girl was doin this to you.

I dont know guys. Current cycle is better though. been 3 weeks and I could care less about all the hot chicks out there. Seriously not "working" on anyone.

Im thinking it has a lot to do with the duration of the cycle. My main problems are after week 10 or so. So for now on, IM keeping my cycles down to about 8 weeks.

This may be my own brain chemistry. Who knows, but Ill keep you updated.

This might sound weird but when I am disiplining myself of something I say to myself the only time I want that is when I dont have it. When I have it I dont want it. Like cake when your on a diet. Then I say to myself its not like I wont ever have it again and when I have it tastes better.

get a midget and keep it in a shoe box under the bed and every so often make sweet love to it,thats not cheating is it?

IP your what 5'5'' ? when you coming over?? lol

My libido is seriously down. Which is seriously good. It might just be because i've been working my ass off and has nothing to do with my current gear or length.

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This might sound weird but when I am disiplining myself of something I say to myself the only time I want that is when I dont have it. When I have it I dont want it. Like cake when your on a diet. Then I say to myself its not like I wont ever have it again and when I have it tastes better.

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lol, the problem is he wont ever "have it" again.

ok from a girls perspective she is probably not going to jump all over the idea of you banging random chicks. you should do her and yourself a favor before you have some raging infection and just be single, or... i know its been said... have some self control !!!

noel is trying so hard to be open to these ideas.. but also throwing in some realism.. kudos! ... (did i just say that.. lol) ..

anyway bro... think of it this way.

People who use juice get a bad rap... why? .. well there's 'rages', there's ego's, there's blah blah blah..

Roid rage is an excuse for lack of self control, knowing that depression CAN happen after a cycle is mental and take preparation and self control... higher test levels and sex drive go hand and hand.. it takes .. yup you guessed it.. self control.

break the 'stigma'.. and have self control.. OR get freaky w/ your woman alot more often... then at least you have something positive to go with your 'habbit'... and she can say.. you sure are a horney bastard when you're on... which is a POSITIVE (giving attention) AND it gives you an excuse to have long cycles instead of shorter ones.

Mentally prepare, focus on what's important, and screw like a mofo!! The reason cycles last a certain period of time isn't JUST for mental stabilities.. you are manipulating your body (muscles, bones, brain, hormones, central nervous system, etc) to reach a result. Certain lengths are part of the 'program' and should not be shorted because of another 'excuse.'

Just do it right - your relationship - your diet - your routine - your life -- and good shit will happen.. just takes some adjusting and time.

And if that ain't doing it for ya.. then suck it up, lose your deposits, and break off the wedding.. been there, done that, 3 times to the same woman (freakin' whore) before I met my wife on here and got the support I needed/wanted in every positive way you can think of ..

(oh yeah.. did i mention screw like a mofo

Well, I stopped bouncing at the bar. So that helped a lot. Plus, Im focused on not cheating. Which, to this point has done well for me. I've been faithful for about the last 6 months- and counting.