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12-21-2006, 04:28 PM #1
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Getting married soon. Need advice.
The wife (soon to be) knows about the lifestyle, but has no clue about the cheating. So far cheating and gear have always been hand in hand. I dont have a problem during my cycles with aggression. I do have a major problem with libido. Id say that on cycle I seriously have a sexual addiction. Doesnt help that I still work at a bar, on occasion.
I've thought about trying things like bringing my test levels down to 500mgs (from 1g) and then on training days, spike it up with suspension. This way I wont have the same libido all the time.
does anyone have the same problem/ different solution? other than the obvious
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12-21-2006, 04:51 PM #2
internet porn has been my saviour
I am the irishman your mother warned you about.....
I dont have a girlfreind but i know a girl who would get really mad at me if she heard me say that...
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Yeah bro, we cool but I’ll tell you the same thing I’d tell my best friends: stop being a fucking sleaze bag prick…it’s not the gear dosage it’s you! Jesus, out of all the people in the world you betray the single most important person in your life? I don’t think you should be marrying this girl, as she’s obviously not that important to you.
My 2 cents
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12-22-2006, 12:40 AM #6
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my advice norm is dont do it haha jk bro i know you got a good girl and hope everything goes well. im flyin in for the wedding by the way im givin a fuckin speech hit me up tomorrow sometime bro .
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12-23-2006, 09:49 AM #9
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Originally Posted by normalsucks
sounds like you are your own problem. I can honesty say I understand, so when Im on, I just dont talk to attractive women if possible. I keep it business only. Once I get started, thats when the trouble begins.
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01-08-2007, 05:12 PM #12
The addiction is not just physical it's also mental. Lowering test dosage wont make a difference.
You have many options.
1. Seek proffesional help.
2. Come clean with your woman and move on having sex with whomever you want.
3. Continue cheating and live with the pissible consequences of destroying that womans life.
4.Ask your woman if she's open to other woman in the sack.
5. Be honest.
6. Seek proffesional help...........
Sex addiction is common.
Dude, I been there and I ruined a 3 year relationship. Nowadays im honest and tell woman exactly what im looking for and I dont play with peoples lives. Imagine what it would feel like if your girl was doin this to you.
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01-09-2007, 12:08 PM #13
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I dont know guys. Current cycle is better though. been 3 weeks and I could care less about all the hot chicks out there. Seriously not "working" on anyone.
Im thinking it has a lot to do with the duration of the cycle. My main problems are after week 10 or so. So for now on, IM keeping my cycles down to about 8 weeks.
This may be my own brain chemistry. Who knows, but Ill keep you updated.
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01-09-2007, 03:36 PM #14
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This might sound weird but when I am disiplining myself of something I say to myself the only time I want that is when I dont have it. When I have it I dont want it. Like cake when your on a diet. Then I say to myself its not like I wont ever have it again and when I have it tastes better.
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01-09-2007, 03:41 PM #15
get a midget and keep it in a shoe box under the bed and every so often make sweet love to it,thats not cheating is it?
I am the irishman your mother warned you about.....
I dont have a girlfreind but i know a girl who would get really mad at me if she heard me say that...
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noel is trying so hard to be open to these ideas.. but also throwing in some realism.. kudos! ... (did i just say that.. lol) ..
anyway bro... think of it this way.
People who use juice get a bad rap... why? .. well there's 'rages', there's ego's, there's blah blah blah..
Roid rage is an excuse for lack of self control, knowing that depression CAN happen after a cycle is mental and take preparation and self control... higher test levels and sex drive go hand and hand.. it takes .. yup you guessed it.. self control.
break the 'stigma'.. and have self control.. OR get freaky w/ your woman alot more often... then at least you have something positive to go with your 'habbit'... and she can say.. you sure are a horney bastard when you're on... which is a POSITIVE (giving attention) AND it gives you an excuse to have long cycles instead of shorter ones.
Mentally prepare, focus on what's important, and screw like a mofo!! The reason cycles last a certain period of time isn't JUST for mental stabilities.. you are manipulating your body (muscles, bones, brain, hormones, central nervous system, etc) to reach a result. Certain lengths are part of the 'program' and should not be shorted because of another 'excuse.'
Just do it right - your relationship - your diet - your routine - your life -- and good shit will happen.. just takes some adjusting and time.
And if that ain't doing it for ya.. then suck it up, lose your deposits, and break off the wedding.. been there, done that, 3 times to the same woman (freakin' whore) before I met my wife on here and got the support I needed/wanted in every positive way you can think of ..
(oh yeah.. did i mention screw like a mofo
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I've was married to my first wife 17 years. Never cheated. Married to my current wife 5 years and still have not cheated. I like to "train" my wife in the way I like sex. She also "trains" me in the way she likes sex. Be honest and let them know you're on gear. The sex is mind blowing, lol. Also, too much shit going on out there now. In my day you could get a shot. Now it kills ya. Just my 2cc's.
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Originally Posted by Unionlineman
You dont know what they like, they dont know what you like, neither really gives a shit what the other wants anyways, and god only knows where they have been.
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our sex is awesome. And plenty. Its just when Im on cycle. I turn into an addict.
But im really working on it. Infact, you guys would be proud. Really turned down a prime opportunity this weekend for some hot ass strange.
It was almost like a porno. We where working on a second house together (long story). Anyway, we just started, and my wife went to pick up some paint, then stopped to check on the kids and have lunch with the grand parents. So she’s going to be gone for atleast an hour. About 5 minutes after she leaves, her best friend pulls up. Her best friend was planning on working on the house with us for the whole day. (we’ll call her stacy).
Stacy and I have sorta a past together. Nothing big, but when I bounced at a bar, we kinda made out, when we both where drunk. Decided not to say anything ofcourse. Usually nothing weird going on since- but we kinda have always had this thing going. She’s not crazy or nothing, just haven’t tapped it in the past cause of the best friend boundary. But she’s hot and would defiantly be boner of the month on any calendar.
Anyway, Stacey walks in the house and straight towards me. (hind sight – she knew wife just left) started to come down the ladder and kinda turned to say hey, and her face is right a my crotch. She looks at my crotch and then up to me and say’s, so where’s (wife)? With a big grin. I seriously almost creamed my pants. I had to get off the damn ladder or Id fall. I didn’t want her to feel turned down so I gave her a big hug and kinda flirted a little bit. Nothing bad. It was fun, but well within the limits. I told her that the wife was coming back in like 10 minutes and we needed to get her busy.
So anyway, That’s my story. It’s the god honest real/ true story. Im getting better. I seriously dont know if I did the right thing. I just hope when Im 80 I dont look back and say "I should have tapped that ass" lol. But I feel good.
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just remember, its a challenge for you to NOT and for her to GET.. enjoy the chase, and use it as the biggest ego boost out there.. not that you need but feeding the ego AND doing the right thing at the same time is a great way to feel even better about your efforts at the gym! ...
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the wife's friend? dont even want to go there.
but why is it that your girl's friends flirt with you? My girl's friends (some of them) do it too. At least I sure would call it flirting. What a bunch of bitches. I wouldnt flirt with my buddies girl. Maybe it one of those differences between men and women.
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Trying man. I dont understand or believe it either. I mean these two grew up together. There not as close now as they where say 10 years ago, but they've known eachother for 20 years!! Only thing I can think of is I kinda dropped her best friend to be with my wife. Maybe that created this complex for her??
In the back of my mind I was thinking that this was some kind of set up. That my woman is testing me. But that was until her best friend started emailing me. (kinda left that out) we've been emailing a lot back and forth for a couple days now.
I know I shouldnt have any contact with her, but after sunday... I think she needed to contact me. She hasnt been hitting on me, just kinda normal conversation. Kinda like she knew she crossed the line.
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First and formemost, its not in your nature to be faithful. Some people are like that, men and women. Its good to see you realize that that is a defect in your character and want to better yourself, however, if you think you are being faithful by not getting physical but have fucked the shit out of her in your head a thousand times, you are very mistaken. Why torture yourself like that, you might as well hit it and deal with the consequences. Its like relapse, you pick up where you left off and it is ALWAYS worse than the last time you picked up. So if its not her best friend now, it could be her mother tomorrow.
You need to get out of that marriage/relaionship you are in at least until you are:
1- ready to settle down
2- have more respect for your woman
3- are sick and tired of blaming your flaws on your gear usage
Either way, best of luck to you.
nvs
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well, I admit that we've had sex a zillion times already (in my head). But I actually feel less attracted to her now that I've gotten to know her -lol.
I think its more probable that Id have sex with someone else instead. But im seriously trying to break this habit. So far, so good.
Ill keep you guys posted.
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I do believe I can change, just need to make it a priority.
It does make sense for a genetic program to inhibit some type of multiple exchange to guaranty the existence of our species. Not saying it exists- just saying it makes sence.
I am on myspace, but I leave check the comments before they get posted. We had internet at home, but its currently inactive. I wouldn’t have this dialog at home anyway.
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I know what you mean about myspace. I used it for those purposes initially. But, I honestly haven’t been on in about 6 months. Im thinking about deleting my profile. Just cause I don’t really want any contact at the moment.
Nothing new to report. Been a really good boy. Best friend and I are still secretly emailing back and forth – but more for entertainment than anything.
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Originally Posted by Cyphon
As for myspace.....Cy, your too old....
i think Ip has a web site for that kinda stuff... Md-
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actually my space is kind of additing, everyone sais how lame it is but i admit to using it. its like spying on people w/ out ever getting caught. lol oh and there is no such thing as a myspace tracker so you wont catch one if your on there either !!! actually i am on there every day cause i like to keep in touch w/ old friends not so much the new ones, thats more weird.
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02-07-2007, 12:34 PM #48
ahh good old midget porn makes me complete
I am the irishman your mother warned you about.....
I dont have a girlfreind but i know a girl who would get really mad at me if she heard me say that...
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