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    Default my wife is a slob.

    I cant handle how much of a slob my wife is. We fight about this about 90% of he time. I have to pick her shit up constantly. She piles stuff up on tables, leaves dishes/ glasses everywhere, clothes just go anywhere.

    is there any hope teaching someone to pick up after themselves? or is it complely useless??
     

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    I learned a long time ago that you can't change someone you can only change yourself or your expectations. If she chooses to change and be neater than you've got hope if she just keeps rejecting the idea you're screwed. If you can learn to live with it than good for you but I wouldn''t be able to.
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    i freaking hate it!!
     

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    I feel the same way sometimes norm. My girl always wants shit clean but I always find myself pickin up her shit or coke cans or clothes. Im the one always doing the dishes and the laundry. It's ridiculous. I feel ya man.
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    sometimes i let it go... just to see if she will ever pick up her shit. But it back fires cause then the house it a pig stye and i go out of my mind....

    how the hell am i suppost to bring chicks home when the place looks like crap??
     

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    Seriously, how are you going to be able to bring girls home to a messy house, she really needs to respect and realize that, GOD! LOL
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    mine is a fucking pack rat, nothing worse
    my wife is a slob.

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    I'm lucky because mine likes to keep a clean house but she likes to save everything and organize everything so the house is "clean" but I've got bins packed with stuff and labeled all over my basement eating into my gym space
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    if i wasnt freaking ocd.. it wouldnt be a problem...
    Last edited by mikeswift; 10-05-2007 at 04:13 PM.
     

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    to be honest with living such busy lives and having a 70lb. dog running around the house I have a cleaning woman come to the house once a month to do the heavy lifting. It makes it a lot easier to do just put things in their place and not have to worry about doing the big stuff
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    When we were first married my wife did NOTHING. She is a lot better now - 16 years
    later. She can improve a LOT but compared to before she is great - she does about
    1/2 the cleaning ect. I just think about how it used to be and I chill out a lot.
    They can change/grow up.
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    mike come in my ass? hummm. gonna act like i didnt see that haha. Im single so i dont give a fuck where i put my shit i wouldnt have it any other way
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    I was definitely the pig when I got married. I was raised in a house with both parents working and not much time devoted to keeping things clean. We would do dishes when we ran out of things to eat on, lol. My wife is a neat freak, almost to the point of ocd, or at least she was when we got married. Over the years, and three kids, she's chilled out a lot and I've gotten a whole lot neater. I think the longer you are married to someone the more you rub off on them, at least it has been that way with us. She's more of a pig now and I'm more of a neat pig. Sucks bro, but patience is the key. She tried to change me as soon as we got married and we fought about it all of the time. It just takes time.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Get_Swole
    mike come in my ass? hummm. gonna act like i didnt see that haha. Im single so i dont give a fuck where i put my shit i wouldnt have it any other way
    I remember those single days and miss them - not to sure about the first
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    Hey GetSwole - just got it - missed it the first time. LOL
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    Quote Originally Posted by Get_Swole
    mike come in my ass? hummm. gonna act like i didnt see that haha. Im single so i dont give a fuck where i put my shit i wouldnt have it any other way
    take a look at who edited the post LOL

    I love you norm!
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    lmao i didnt see he edited yeah MC i was sittin there goin these fuckers think im a flamer now lol glad you finally got it. i love penis
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    Oh we still think youre a flamer LOL but we love ya anyways!
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    Quote Originally Posted by normalsucks
    I cant handle how much of a slob my wife is. We fight about this about 90% of he time. I have to pick her shit up constantly. She piles stuff up on tables, leaves dishes/ glasses everywhere, clothes just go anywhere.

    is there any hope teaching someone to pick up after themselves? or is it complely useless??
    like others said, they improve....maybe. But its a constant battle.

    mine was the baby of her family, so she's extra lazy/sloppy.
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    disconnect the cable & phone line, then give her an adderall... She wont have any choice but to clean
    You must do what others don't to achieve what others won't

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    Hee hee... ya, you have to watch who you mess with.
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    Your dead on wineey. Fing LIFETIME !!!
     

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    stop editing my posts douche or I'm going to have to open up a six pack of Whoop'Ass on ya! Fighting over the internet is like being in the Special Olympics, even if you win you're still retarded!!!
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    Hey... i think you started it... lol
     

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    Your lucky she aint a real slob. Those are the ones that dont bother to put on new
    underwear - they keep wearing the ones with the "SKID MARKS" !!!!
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    I had lots of inappropriate comments to make about skid marks, but I won't post them because just thinking about them was turning my stomach!!!
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    those arnt speed bumps - their peices of corn
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    Quote Originally Posted by mcgaret
    those arnt speed bumps - their peices of corn
    Thats fing disgusting!! Now I have to throw away my pasta because it has corn in it!
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    I got that shit straight before I married my wife. She is a stay-at-home mom and I'll just be damned if I'm comming home to a mess and no supper. My Pimp hand is strong boys!
     

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    Quote Originally Posted by mikeswift
    I learned a long time ago that you can't change someone you can only change yourself or your expectations. If she chooses to change and be neater than you've got hope if she just keeps rejecting the idea you're screwed. If you can learn to live with it than good for you but I wouldn''t be able to.
    couldnt agree more.. not sure if anyone of u guys like or even heard of pastor joel osteen but in his newest book he talkes about not letting other ppl steal your joy. U hear alot of ppl say things like.. i would just be happy is my boss wasnt a dick, or in this case if my wife wasnt a slob.. but like u said u can only change yourself... im a neat and clean kinda guy myself so that crap would really get under my skin also.. but over the last year and a half ive changed alot and i dont let many things bother me like i used to.

    In NA meetings this is said alot " insanity is caused my doing the same things over and over but expecting a different result" why would there be a different result after the fight when there hasnt been all the other times?? instead of fighting about it.. try to ignore it.. pretend like all the crap isnt piled up there.. MAYBE since u keep cleaning it.. she knows she can be a slob and ull eventually clean it up.. hopfully she will get sick of seeing the mess and start cleaning it up herself
     

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    Quote Originally Posted by njpooldude
    MAYBE since u keep cleaning it.. she knows she can be a slob and ull eventually clean it up.. hopfully she will get sick of seeing the mess and start cleaning it up herself

    Lol, this is an old thread. But ill keep you guys updated. She IS trying. But seriously, when i let things go, the whole house is fu-ed up. She will let things pile and pile till you cant set anything down cause every surface in the house has crap over it. Or you have to walk down little pathways cause sh*t is everywhere. Believe me, its not that simple.

    If i could give advice. Dont marry a princess. There a pain in the ass.
     

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    im so blessed
     

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    Quote Originally Posted by normalsucks

    If i could give advice. Dont marry a princess. There a pain in the ass.
    every girl I know is a "princess" then.
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    Quote Originally Posted by locutus61
    I got that shit straight before I married my wife. She is a stay-at-home mom and I'll just be damned if I'm comming home to a mess and no supper. My Pimp hand is strong boys!

    LMAO "mY PIMP HAND IS STRONG, LMAO NOW THATS FUCKING GREAT!
    my wife is a slob.

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    Yeah bro the house must be clean and neat at all time I hate if I come home and it a mess .. I know at anytime I can walk in my house and I would not be embarrassed to have a friend come in... But you can't change them either they are neat or they are not and train your kids young and they will be the same
     

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    lol...this thread is hilarious. Trust me I can relate to all of you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by samax64
    I know at anytime I can walk in my house and I would not be embarrassed to have a friend come in...
    when we where dating and i had other women come over. I fucking run through the house and pick up bras and shit she'd leave everywhere. I mean, in the f-ing kitchen... sob!!!
     

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